Subject:
Cunnilingus
Hi
there:
I'm
an older gentleman now (57). Still very active sexually,
but I find more and more that I enjoy the pleasure
of eating pussy better than fucking it. Am I abnormal,
or some kind of a pervert? It really turns me on
to feel my partner's orgasm while my tongue is still
on her clit. I get so turned on that it only takes
me 2 strokes to cum after penetration.
Sincerely,
Cunnilingus
Concern
Dear
Cunnilingus Concern:
Thanks
so much for writing!
Can
I just say on behalf of all Literotica women, BRAVO!
OUR LEGS ARE SPREAD IN GRATITUDE!!
You,
my sweet, are the farthest thing from a pervert. In
fact, you are a man who thoroughly enjoys making a
woman cum orally. This is wonderful and the fact that
it gets you off so much is of equal importance.
As
long as you are engaging in safe, protected sex, you
should continue to nosh to your hearts content.
Love,
Aspasia
Fern
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Subject:
Am I too big?
Hey
Lady,
My
first question is; can a man be too big for his female
lover?
Next,
I'm only about 5 ' 8 " tall, and only weigh about
135lbs., but oddly enough I am VERY well endowed.
My wife and I are only "able" to have sex in certain
positions (otherwise she says it hurts??) Now don't
get me wrong, the sex is absolutely fantastic. However,
I want to be able to experiment with different positions.
Are there any positions that would not have a painful
effect on her?
Female
opinion question; Do you think it is a turn off to
see a really small guy with a REALLY huge penis?
Sincerely,
Too
Big?
Dear
Too Big:
You
sound so, mini-me with the Eiffel Tower betwixt his
legs.
Some
women love big cocks, they are size queens. So for
them, seeing a small man, a mini-man or a tall man
with a serious pleasure plunger between his legs is
a god send. Every woman is different.
As
to you and your wife's limitations, what I would do
is hit the Literotica.com toy store. You will find
some great books about various sex positions. I would
comb through it and try new things.
Some
women like their cocks to hurt so good, while others
not so much. There are a ton of positions you could
try with your wife that are more pleasurable then others.
Get
the book!!! Give the ones you haven't tried a whirl.
A couple of positions that might hurt less would be
if she's on top, if you're standing up and if you're
lying side by side.
Good
luck and keep me looped!
Love,
Aspasia
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Subject:
Where do I go to find love?
I
am a 60 year old woman who is separated from her
husband of almost 40 years. I have tried a couple
of date lines but have not gotten anywhere. I have
had several dates scheduled but they don't show.
In this day in age, and for someone my age, where
are the men? I don't really like the bar scene and
have avoided it so far. Surely, there are some good
places to find men looking for a warm, cuddly woman.
Sincerely,
Where
are they?
Dear
where are they:
I
am very sorry that you're having a tough go of it.
You are in your prime. You're at a very sexy and insightful
age. There are plenty of men who enjoy the company
of a woman of substance and sensuality – it's a question
of finding them!
I
feel your pain...
Have
you hit the Literotica chat board and placed an ad?
Also, eharmony is a great site because they tend to
focus more on intellectual and emotional compatibility.
For non-Jews, this is the way to go. Locally, what
kinds of activities or book clubs are available to
you? Are you interested in art at all? if so, what
about becoming a docent. Believe it or not, museums
and galleries are a great place to meet men. Ask your
single girlfriends if they can set you up with one
of their friends.
As
difficult as it is to meet someone, a girl has to get
creative regardless of her age. Those are some great
starting points. And do things to make yourself feel
sexy and desirable; new lingerie, a manicure, pedicure,
get your hair done, buy a new outfit – put pep in your
step in ways that make you feel great so that you radiate
passion!
Good
luck and keep me looped!
Love,
Aspasia
Fern
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Subject:
Friends and Jerking Stamina
Hello,
I
have two questions.
I
have been best friends with a girl named Meg for
a couple years. We both just recently turned 18 and
are single at the moment. Her boyfriend broke up
with her after almost two years about 2 months ago.
I have of course been there for her, trying to make
her as happy as I can even though I can tell she
is still very emotional about the whole matter. I'm
finding it hard to come to terms with my feelings
for her. On the one hand she is my friend and I love
her like a sister. I only want what's best for her
even if that means being with another guy. But on
the other hand, the thought of her with another guy
kills me because I want to be "that guy" but she
has said in the past she only thinks of me as a friend.
Should I just come out with my feelings and hope
for the best or continue doing what I'm doing now
and be her "older brother".
The
second is quite different from the first. I have
noticed (through masturbation as well as activities
with women) that I have amazing stamina. I can orgasm
over and over and still be as hard as when we started.
I've lasted through the night and well into the morning;
only stopping because my body couldn't take anymore
(you have to eat sooner or later). I have had up
to 20-30 orgasms in a row while masturbating (yes
this took a long time and it was just to see if I
could). I was just wondering am I a special case
or should I just chalk this one up to young age and
crazy hormones.
Sincerely,
What
to do
Dear
What To Do:
Sometimes
friends can become lovers with age, with time, one
never knows, but for now she sees you as a friend.
As difficult as it is to want more, I think it's something
to consider accepting. Conversely, if you feel like
you need to tell her one more time that you want more,
go for it, but make it very clear to her that you don't
want to jeopardize the friendship in any way.
At
18, your cock will never go down! You'll be good to
go again the minute you cum. It's age, dear. It's god's
cruel joke. Men peak at 18 and women at 30. oy vey
a shmear!
Good
luck and keep me posted!
Love,
AF
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Subject:
Sex Outside of Marriage
Dear
Fern,
I
am a married man, 36 and live with my wife and daughter.
We have been married for 7 years now. I am kind of
a pervert and always loved to have sex with other
women. Never during my marriage have I had sex with
another woman. I do Cyber sex with cam.
Now,
there is my friend's wife who is in town on a job
and she stays alone in an apartment close to my place.
She comes to my house on occasion. When I visit her
in her place, I always dream of her falling onto
me and asking me to make love. It is a dream not
a reality. She, at times asks me if she has lost
weight and if she is keeping in shape. Her husband
stays far away and visits her maybe once a month.
Do
you think its right for me to try and make love with
her? If so how should I approach the situation, so
I wouldn't lose the friendship? Do you think she
is already sending me some signals? Please advise
me.
Love
J
Dear
J:
I
feel your pain and understand your desire to be with
this woman. But this is a slippery slop.
Are
you in an open marriage? What are the rules of engagement?
Would you be cheating on your wife? If so, could you
live with the consequences if she found out that you
had slept with another woman, especially a mutual friend?
And
with your friend... she might regard you as a confidant,
someone who will look after her during her tenure in
your city. Coming onto her could kybosh the friendship.
is it worth it?
It's
important to give all of this some thought.
Here's
the thing, in a relationship it's very important to
treat people the way you would want to be treated.
You must always think of others, especially those closest
to you and ask yourself, "if I found out my wife was
cheating, how would it make me feel?"
Also,
you must ask yourself how you would feel if your friend
had slept with your wife.
Step
outside yourself and think for a minute before making
a decision you might regret.
I'm
not advocating cheating or not cheating. But I do want
you to think about the bigger picture before you make
the decision that's best for you.
Good
luck and keep me looped.
Love,
AF |
