Especially his weird feelings of jealousy and his 1950s delusions of masculinity. It was so silly, I expected him to put pomade in his hair, too.
Caught a story of yours that I would hope to read later. And amongst your works, this essay. Which I was compelled to read. Fascinating, for I read little of what women say on this, or other things. Busy, time vs payoff, not misogyny or indifference, but too much frosting out there, if you follow. I won't go into my whole story, while we're fascinated by our own tales, it takes an objectively good tale and teller to share it with another.
I have heard part of what terrifies(ed) us as 2-4yo's sticks into our wiring, and later often becomes sexualized. Not a doc, or even 'learned' person, just what one more so source said. It rings true, and I can see how it can or does for others. Also as you said, that bent over and taken, even in ways we normally shun is incredibly arousing, yet also it's safe. Which may be a part of it, that we fantasize to defang our terrors. Or weaken them perhaps, or understand. And to dip our toes in water deep enough to scare us back to shore in a flash, yet we can find a thrill in that riotous knot of mingled emotions.
Whether you alluded to it or not, we're told not to do things, but we have drives and urges, someone taking away that self-discipline of leaving certain walls ie, taboos up and in place is all on its own a powerful aphrodisiac. Free to feel 'good', idealistically. Not our fault, or choice. While it may be a struggle, there was about 20yrs ago a series of books Herotica 1-8? maybe. One of the tales was about (foggy on memory now) a shemale, Roan? I think. Who similiar to you, brought a younger girl across a threshold she may never have crossed if fully prepared to make a choice. The author wrote how wonderful, strange, and new it all was. So much so that, she half-hoped years later and well into a relationship, that she'd see or find her again, as the hint of a smell or accent drug Roan right back into her forebrain again. Had she her druthers, who knows.
Perhaps, sometimes it's just about using force, to let someone enjoy what they're too afraid to do on their own. And how can we justify that in a society of laws. That person who so 'chooses for us', could easily be right, but mistaken in enacting it. You seem mixed on your own experience. For me, some potential experiences may have shattered me, but at least one still seems to have reached every inch in and out, and while it's gone forever, it showed me heights (depths?) I didn't know of, nor would have explored on my own.
I don't know if you're around. And this is long and as much comment as confession, but I hope you may find some bit of it useful, or at least passes time.
It's nice to know there are other women out there who feel the same way I do. Thank you for being bold enough to write this.
Go rant and rave like a lunatic somewhere else fanfare. This is not some political website for idiots to post their views. All qhml1 did was to give some history about slavery because of what he wrote. I can only imagine the uproar from people like you if he had used the word niggardly in his story. You'd be there demanding an apology from the steps of Congress. There have been several incidents in the last 10 years or so where people reprimanded for using the word because people who didn't know know what it meant were too lazy to find out. Everything qhml1 stated was true. If you don't believe it, quit reading so many loving wife stories and check it out like I did.
thank you for sharing your stories. I hope one day you will be able to write and submit your works again. its rare to read stories with such depth of character on this site or any other. you shall be deeply missed.
America is in decline, thanks not to its enemies but to those who love it. American fascism comes wrapped in the flag and carrying a Bible. What Lincoln described as the 'last best hope' has become a new slave economy. The Roman Republic ended because of the greed of its legislators. The Polish-Lithuanian Commonwealth disappeared from the maps of Europe because of the Second Serfdom. America, if it ever recovers from its self-inflicted tyranny, will look upon these days and wonder at the stupidity.
one of the men who stated that the rich work harder. Funny, that. What I saw him working hard at was sexually harassing his female staff, including me; screaming when his deals lost money; laying off staff to compensate for his screaming and money loss; dining with politicians in his office to get their support for his financial projects; sitting around talking about ways to make more money from mergers and acquisitions; and oh yeah, how can I screw my executive staff so I don't have to pay them what I agreed to in writing, in a contract.
And then he has the nerve to suggest that the rich are victims of Kristallnacht. No, the rich are victims of their own greed and hubris, as well as not understanding the results the Great Depression has left for many, globally.
I don't begrudge anyone the right to become and stay wealthy. It's the victim role the wealthy take while people are suffering or dying from lack of health care, food, and shelter.
At one time in the early 70s I thought we would win the war against selfishness and work so all had a chance to earn their way. Now with grandkids I think they will not have the chances I had. I grew up in Flint, Mi. In the 50s with gangs. Learned to knife fight. Served in the Corps. Learned more loyalty and how to kill. Went to school and learned to be a shrink, the opposite of what I had learned earlier. In my family my grandparents moved from sharecropping in Arkansas to Flint.1927During the depression Gramps stood on the bricks near the Chevy plant while the general foreman would come out and point to men to work. If you were not pointed at you walked home. If you worked it was for pay as low as 80 cents an hour but I think it got to a dollar a day. There was no relief for the bathroom. No lunch. We have pictures of my gram three stories up handing food to the men at the second sit down strike. ( not talked about historically much) It was to get sometime to go to the bathroom because men were getting ill from not doing so. The only way they made it through the depression is because my grandpa's cousin, looked just like him, Charles Floyd would come to Flint bringing groceries. Not only groceries but his Tommy gun and at least two handguns. Better known as "pretty boy Floyd" he would stay until the urgency was done. In those days southerners hated banks and railroads because they perceived they were all owned by "easterners." They thought of them as crooks and not worthy of hospitality. So if a southerner robbed the train or a non locally owned bank they were hidden. Back in Flint the middle class came into being. A revolution really that negated the effects of the gilded age of the late 1800s. It allowed all the male cousins to get graduate degrees and become professionals. We were upper middle class. Then came the camapigns of the rich with more and more concentration of wealth. I have been around the wealthy even playing poker at Applewood the estate of the Mott family. I worked for the creator of PhotoSHop, the second most profitable software of all time. I know how the old wealth think and how the newly wealthy thinks and how they change. Hell I know what can happy to my peer group. When I play golf too many of the white males from 40-80 are right of the tea party. My cousins liked Sarah Palin for gods sake. They have been bamboozled into ignoring their own economic welfare. They use the word "entitlement" for any program that has any goal of being a social net for whatever group. We have lost the fight for the middle class. We have lost control of a future for our kids and grandkids. I am 70. Too old to fight anymore. I mean a mistake by the court clerk in 1888 made corporations individuals with all the rights but none of the responsibilities. Now they have the same control of our society as the aristocracy did in the early hundreds and how the church did in the middle ages. We will only get it back with a revolution but we are so brainwashed we will fight for the wrong issues. I am so sad we are so foolish.
The title of this comment refers to a song by Leo Ferre, french poet and musician, written in the mid-50s.
Abusive power has never been a sustainable and winning strategy, in the end.
Many historical examples show that societies at large - and power holders as well - had to pay a heavy tribute for ignoring this somewhat obvious maxim. Often enough, any corrections to a dysfunctional system were brought in too late to be truly accepted.
The american institutions have served the country for nearly 250 years, well enough and increasingly less in recent decades. Lobbying and electoral campaign financing are seen as harmful to the proper government of the country. No-one openly says corruption - that is for "banana states" ...
But I will guarantee you that the people who suffer most will continue to suck up to the rich just as they have throughout history.
Because they're cowards. It's a lot easier to blame the poor than the powerful. After all. The rich folks can fire your ass and cut off your pension and your retiree health benefits so let's blame the blacks and the Mexicans and the gays instead.
After all, you'd need to have some balls to blame the folks with power.
Exactly where did I say homemakers disappeared, or that they should? Why don't you come out of hiding behind any mouse? Or is it that you don't have the courage of your convictions? I guess it's easier to take what I said and twist it to what you wanted to behind any mouse.
What I believe is that women, and men, should be whatever they want in their relationships, whatever works best for them as individuals and a couple. What I didn't like about the essay is that it blamed women for what's wrong with society, while leaving men out of it, and then making the 50s as a utopia.
Just an FYI. Homemakers didn't vanish after the fifties. My mother is one for my younger sibling. And she also has a masters in psychology. Which she completed whilst raising me. At home and abroad. I could go on, but I would need days to write out fully all the multifarious items that made your comment into a nearly indescribable mishmash of arrogance, misogyny, imbecility, stupidity, simple rudeness, asinine behavior, hypocrisy, and...if there were an adjective encompassing "speaking as only ignorant, brainless, childish assholes are able to speak" I would utilize that as well. And I simply lack the time. So you can go on hating women who aren't like you, who feel differently than you about motherhood and so on, and you can go on blaming men for the fact that those women exist, whether because you blame incompetent male serial killers for not killing them as you'd prefer, or whatever other reason you can concoct. Just know that they are there, you are are known for what you are (a despicable, disgusting, misogynistic, feminine-phobic hypocrite) and no matter how hard you try, they will not vanish into the fifties, or into bdsm. Sorry "ladyver". Not your lucky day. Better luck next time!
Less than 1% of the population "Protect & Serve" the rest of us. Only those who have been there truly understand the sacrifice of those who 'Have given their all' so that everyone can enjoy their playstations, social media and all the other meaningless toys in their lives. The Veterans Holidays have morphed into a reason to eat, drink and party instead of remembering the sacrifices of those 'Fallen Heroes'.
At last some sanity addressing the oldest profession ! Preventative health measures and security from assault and freedom from intimidation and exploitation ! And tax revenue stream to pay for these adult and humane solutions. What is not to like? It even has the added bonus of annoying the Bible thumpers!
The Importance Of Rape In Male And Female Relationships
In her classic, best selling book, on human female sexuality ("My Secrete Garden") Nancy Friday* explains that the most common female sexual fantasy is that of being raped. (70% of women sexually fanaticize about being raped, sexually forced, or sexually overpowered by a human male)
What percent of women REALLY WANT to be raped? Answer: virtually none.
But subconsciously human females are attracted to "strong" males. Males who either play at taking, or do take a leadership role in their relationship.
Question: How long has this genetic imprinting (A desire for male dominance) been developing in the female brain? Answer: For close to four million years.
Question: How much impact has the forty year old "Let's burn our bras" movement had on the subconscious sexual and emotional desires of females? Answer, None at all.
Question: So how do our current "burnt bra generation" of females feel about their sexuality? Answer: confused.
* Ms. Friday had a group of randomly selected women, write down the details of their sexual fantasies. She then compiled them into catagories according to their frequency of occurrence.
** The modern tradition of the groom carrying his bride "over his threshold" is 2,700 years old. It comes from the Roman marriage ceremony, when at the end of the proceedings, after eating cake, the new Roman husband would carry his bride over his threshold and into her new home. This act was in remembrance of the "Rape of the Sabine."
In 750 BCE the men of Rome attack the tribe of the Sabine, specifically to kidnap their women. On returning to Rome they married them. When the Sabine men finally came around to confronting the Romans, the new Roman wives refused to leave their new husbands. The decedents of the "raped Sabines" came to rule most all of the known world.
To learn more about these topics you can do a Google Wikipedia searches on 1. Nancy Friday, 2. Rape of the Sabine.
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