Questions

Questions

     I don't need or expect answers. I'm just throwing out what I think is some thought provoking stuff, and if any of it sticks, or causes anyone to add to the questioning, great!!! If it produces answers, all the better, but at the end of the day the cosmic choices are truly ours, and changes can happen.

Do we really ever understand love?
How far back can you remember having the feeling of being in love?
How rewarding was your first sexual experience?
Did it cause you to question whether or not you would ever do it again?
Have you ever believed or been told that sex without it being with a spouse was a sin?
Did you disregard that lecture?
Do you want marriage?
Do you want children?
Do you feel that either has a bearing on your total happiness throughout your life?

We all know on some level what can be derived from sex,
but can we count how many times that experience "hasn't" rocked our world, curled our toes, or caused us to know it could happen again, with the same partner and be just as enjoyable? Or do we take it as it comes, try to enjoy it purely for what it feels like physically, and try again,,,often,,, if it wasn't all we hoped or expected?
How often have you sexually compromised yourself? Think about it in terms of dignity, self esteem, irrational judgments, what was derived from and resulted from the experience.
Have you in fact found that special someone?
If so, is this forum an extension of that bliss?
Have you felt that you just missed connecting, even when you had your heart out there like the brass ring on a carousel?
Have you ever felt euphoria, followed by disappointment?
Have you ever called out in rapture, someone's name, other than the person you were engaging with?
Have you ever known it was a bad experience or one that wasn't going to be fulfilling, but engaged in it anyhow?
Have you ever lied to a sexual partner? As in "Yes I did!" or "Yes I am!"
Have you ever been honest with a sex partner? As in, "No I didn't"
Have you ever regretted an encounter?
Have you said so?
Have you been totally honest with yourself, about what you want from any sexual encounter?
Have you ever questioned why you got involved?
Have you ever asked "what is the attraction?"
Have you ever questioned your own sanity?,,,smiles I have by the way

     OK, You have successfully made it this far in the Dr. Wolf sexual self analysis test. My prescription is answer the questions, act on those that you feel uncomfortable about, but especially act on those you answered positively, that actually make you smile, say awwwwwwwwww, and get a warm feeling about what you believe to be real.

Love to all,
Steven Wolf