Giving Without Expectations

Story Info
A "how to" be the only woman your man wants.
1.1k words
4
26.4k
13
Share this Story

Font Size

Default Font Size

Font Spacing

Default Font Spacing

Font Face

Default Font Face

Reading Theme

Default Theme (White)
You need to Log In or Sign Up to have your customization saved in your Literotica profile.
PUBLIC BETA

Note: You can change font size, font face, and turn on dark mode by clicking the "A" icon tab in the Story Info Box.

You can temporarily switch back to a Classic Literotica® experience during our ongoing public Beta testing. Please consider leaving feedback on issues you experience or suggest improvements.

Click here

Too often we work our asses off, all day, and for what?

After we fight, tooth and nail, through all the drivers, who should all ride rapid transit and get off the road, we finally make it home. We really don't need to know that anything is broken, or that one of the kids was bad and needs to be talked too. Oh no. We need attention, devotion, a lot of leg and something suggestive worn. We men, that is, real men, want a Sunday school teacher for a wife; one who, at the moment your car pulls into the driveway, turns into a $5,000.00 a night hooker, who was paid in advance for taking you to the moon and back.

Real men want to be touched, grabbed, kissed with lust, stroked, teased and more. We want it all. They want their pants taken off for them, kisses down their chest, kisses to their little king (your Love Toy) and then, without any thought about it, a real life attempt at being fully engulfed during your gagging effort of deep-throating him until he pulses his way out. Stand up, offer him your lips, a few more kisses, then raise your top up and offer him your sweet breasts. Take one of his hands and push it down into your loose fitting pants, to your smoothly attended, clean, and trimmed source of 200 thoughts a day. Real men are simple. It is the lap dogs who are too complex. They live and die, having never figured it out.

Keep life simple. I'll trade you two bummers that I have to handle for one deep throat. It's the only thing we need; and I do mean need. So, here is the inside edition: Keep him happy and he'll keep you happy. It's yin and yang, give and take; it is the trade off for a loving, giving relationship. Giving; that is the secret to love, true love, and adoration galore. The secret to life, is love; the secret to love, is giving.

Fact is, many people never get it. I'm not talking the sex, but there are a ton of them that don't get that either. They never get that this world is made up of givers and takers. The simple truth is; we all want lots of things but, do we deserve any of it? So, pay attention because here is the message: The only reason to come home is you. You being a nasty-ass whore, who loves to dress up for us in little, skimpy, lacy outfits that allow easy, focused and attentive touches, strokes, and kisses that all become part of the whole picture; a picture of love that a man can focus on each and every day.

So, some of you are probably saying; "I know! But I don't like the way I look, so dressing in skimpy, naughty attire doesn't look good on me." Or, possibly; "I am up tight. I can't do that." That is the giving part of true love. You use it or you lose it. If your guy buys you skimpy attire that he wants to see you in, go for it! What do you have to lose? Read stories to turn you on! If you have fantasies, share them with him! Give him a chance to give back to you!

I was married once. I found my true love only after I left my ex. One day, I found all the naughty attire I had bought for her, in a bag, going to the Goodwill. "What?" I thought to myself, "Am I not worthy of being dressed up for? You don't care what I like? You don't care to please me? You no longer like having earth shattering orgasms?" I took that as a sign; a pretty big sign. This was a sign that did not include my dreams, my wishes, aspirations or my needs. If he buys you naughty little outfits, scanty frilled sexy clothes to wear; wear them! He loves you, he loves your body, and he wants to please you! Let him, but fill his tank once in a while!

My ex used to say to me; "Why don't you hold my hand like he's holding hers?" I would say, "Because she swallows." I mean, here I am, addicted to your scent, your taste and your body and why? I eat your pussy and you come three or more times. Then, I give you three, four, five or more orgasms after I enter you. Hell, I'd stick my tongue up your butt every damn day, if you'd just want me a little.

Well, she is alone now and I have found my own true love. I mean, when my love and I had this talk about how to make life grand, she had an epiphany! Not that I didn't know she had it inside, part of her being all along, because I did. It's just that, until we sat down and wrote out our "charter," so to speak, she didn't know she means everything to me and always will. I told her, but sometimes, in some people, it registers but for others, they don't get it, they never get it.

Giving without expectations is the secret to love; if it's not one hundred percent all of the time, it's nothing. Anything less than giving everything to your love is, quite frankly, nothing, void of worth. True love means giving everything. I see it as if both people in a real life, true love relationships have to be wired to give without expectations.

Hold up a minute. This may be the best definition of love to date. "Giving without expectations." Wherever and whenever the need is, later tonight, at this moment, or even tomorrow, the way that will give them the deepest, most gut wrenching orgasm possible and doing what it is exactly they are asking for; all the right pressure, on the right spot, it's perfect. It opens up the communication into a very hard to ever obtain openness that makes all following conversations just about 200% easier for both of you.

If you cannot talk, have fun, laugh out loud, cry, lose control, knowing what pleases you, all while pleasuring your partner the way they want to be pleased, then it's not true love; it can't be, by definition. It is a settlement, an acceptance of limitations, a trade off that will never quite catch-up to or mends the hurt and suffering of his and your own "something is missing" body, mind and spirit.

So, in conclusion, giving without expectations is the secret to love and love is the secret to life. I hope that is easy enough to understand, because with the divorce rate at what it is, and rising, is giving what your true love needs too much to ask for? Think about being that perfect woman to him and for him, because without you, he wouldn't be there.

You can do it. You can be his Sunday school teacher who transforms; see if your life changes for the better. What do you have to lose?

Please rate this story
The author would appreciate your feedback.
  • COMMENTS
Anonymous
Our Comments Policy is available in the Lit FAQ
Post as:
Anonymous
7 Comments
AnonymousAnonymousover 13 years ago

It is a bit one sided, but it wasn't presented as a unbiased fact either.

If you are truly expecting to get a full how to for love on a website...I believe you

Should rethink that idea.

Also if you pay attention he isn't saying "hey dress up and do what I want and then run along while I nap" he is talking about himself fully giving in his relationship, taking care of her needs and her completely ignoring his making him feel less than important.

Good relaionships take balance which I believe was his true point.

Also, In my opinion, if you are asking for something your mate is uncomfortable with themaybe a compromise is in order...maybe so shopping together...she may not like the french maid g string outfit but there might be something similar she would like : ) let say maybe the one with ruffled booty shorts a mini skirt and a corset? Ideas..and btw I am a woman and happily in a completely both side giving relationship and its fantastic. So, his base point is very true at least in our happy home. Now if you'll excuse me I have a special good morning wake up to do : )

KingRichard923KingRichard923over 13 years agoAuthor
Aye! This is one sided!

What is the title? Does the copy address the title? Is it sound, good to the very last drop? Did you read my other how to? I believe that too is one sided but this is where you don your expertice and throw out here all and more of what it takes for you to be dedicated. I know what it takes from both sides I wrote this from the man's perspective only it's your choice to write your story please, tell us all what you think makes love the best it can be. Just know that when giving is more important than receiving to both people involved then and only then do both people win.

AnonymousAnonymousover 13 years ago
I agree

I agree whole heartedly, and I'm a woman, imagine that. At any rate, I believe that when you give w/out expectation, you can never be disappointed. If you are truly giving 100% you will be satisfied knowing that your partner is happy, and that should make you happy. It should apply both ways, but I have never been disappointed when I give w/out expectation. Thanks for sharing your thoughts

njgirl0863njgirl0863over 13 years ago
What about what she wants and needs?

I whole heartedly agree, this is so darn one sided it is pathetic. All you expect is for her to give give give. Come on, you have to know that women are more of the emotional/feelings type gender and the male is the physical side. So you have to give to receive... end of story.

AnonymousAnonymousover 13 years ago
One-Sided Advice

An orgasm, or several of them over a course of a night, is not enough to keep your woman happy. I read your how-to as a one-sided argument. Please me, be a skank, who the hell cares if you don't like dressing up as a maid?

I don't believe it works that way. But thanks for sharing.

Show More
Share this Story

Similar Stories

How to Appreciate a Man What's the secret to appreciating the man in your life?in How To
How to be a Slut for Your Guy Ignore at your own peril: get your man hot for you!in How To
Deep Down A guide to getting deep...deep throat, that is.in How To
Gag Me How to gag on a cock in a way that turns you both on.in How To
Blowjobs for Dummies Read this with your lady & you'll thank the author.in How To
More Stories