I love sex and am very open about talking about and trying new things. I am still with the first and only sexual partner I've ever had and loving it. I'm usually submissive in sex but love turning the tables on my man every so often - my favourite type of sex is actually to start off with me dominating him, 'forcing' him to pleasure me, 'humiliating' him... only for him to suddenly turn the tables on me and have his revenge! ;)
I am open about doing a lot of things in power play but mere physical abuse is NOT one of them... eg extremely hard slapping, extreme spanking, caning, kicking with and walking on a guy with stilettos, genital/nipple pain... in particular any anal is COMPLETELY PAINLESS. I get off on being 'forced' and 'humiliated', not having my arse ripped open. Anal should NEVER hurt (unless it's wanted and intended). Even my first time having anal sex was completely painless.