Hi, there! I'm Ivan Mazlow and I've been involved in BDSM, D/s, S&M, B&D, power exchange, and various associated kinks for going on 25 years, since I was in fact pretty young. Besides my personal history, I've spent this time sharing experiences and learning from many, many people in these associated kinky and fetish circles. For most of that time, many fellow weirdos and I shared insights on how to make all this work for us. And many, many times, over those years, I've heard people ask, 'Why doesn't someone write all this down?' I waited, like many, hoping someone would. And many have written about it. But I've never seen anyone really explain it in a useful, thorough, practicable way, and many of the more esoteric ideas and concepts are generally missing from most conversations on it. So, this has been my own effort, along with my lovely and charming adventuring editress Charlotte Naughten at finally rectifying that, and hopefully adding the benefit of many years of strange experience useful to anyone, from veteran kinksters, to those who are merely curious to experiment.
These are excerpts from my blog, which can be found at;
https://howtobdsm.wordpress.com/
