I am a relatively smart, slightly quirky graduate student in Central New York with a passion for pop culture and no time for fakers, tools, or cons. I'm eloquent and educated, I'm sardonic and silly, I'm contemplative and compassionate. I'm usually prepared and good at fixing things, like a chick version of MacGuyver. I tend to sing harmonies rather than melodies and sleep with my feet sticking out from under the covers. I name my cars; presently I drive a boxy car named Beulla. I have a cat who I swear can read my mind. I designed my own lime green bookshelf.
I'm not about costumes or cages. They're terrific facets of the lifestyle, but they're not what brought me here. BDSM is something on which I've spent a lot of time and reflection. Integrating my submissive and dominant sexual tendencies into my personality has been a unique and revelatory challenge. It's shown me how to be a fuller, more balanced individual, and taught me about the many ways that love and desire and gratitude can be expressed.
Location
Syracuse, NY