Pretty much anything you say or do while incredibly intoxicated is not gonna win any points. Slightly buzzed is okay, but after one too many, anything you think is funny/sweet/cute is most likely dirty/offensive/rude.
Such good points. And I agree with the drunken thing being a big no-no. A guy I once THOUGHT I wanted to date seemed to call me only when drunk, and nothing that came out of his mouth during those phone calls was sweet. Needless to say, I had to leave him alone.
And I say this as a guy myself. I am continually amazed at some of the stupid things I see guys doing trying to get the attention of a woman. Guys, how about a smile and a wink at her? Then say "Hi." This word - "Hi!" is the best and most consistently effective "pick up line" there is. Try it some time. It's easier than you think, dumbass.
:) Its reallly al about trial and error.
Some girls love to have attention, and spotlight.
Some like to have more admired distance and feel invaded by even the touching of a braclet.
Just be your goofy self guys.
If you make a small error, you can easily shrug it off with an appology. Just make sure not to do it again...nothing worse thana guy with a motive, or a guy who doesn;t have the confidence to make mistakes.
At least your trying, and that goes a long way.
I find cheesy lines do work the best....and its just lame to do it near their friends...I can't believe people do that.
Thats just common sense right there...
No wonder its easy for me, with guys doing such bone headed things heheh
Some guy I knew (I'm friends with him now, but at the time he was a friend-of-a-friend) asked me to a movie over email. There wasn't really anything wrong with his phrasing or anything - he just straight-up asked me to a movie. But the fact that he was in the same room as I was, and yet asked me through an email, was what really blew my mind. I forwarded it to a couple of friends and we had a good laugh at how dumb that particular tactic was. xD
I ended up going to the movie with him, but it was because I really wanted to see that movie, not because I was interested in *him*. >.
If I'm interested in a guy, I'll manage to start a conversation about anything. I'll usually talk to a guy, even if I'm not interested in him. Pretty girls have a hard time making friends, because we're intimidating, so we end up with no one asking us, so sometimes it's good to be more assertive. Guys are people. We're all people. We like to make friends, whether it leads to more or not. We don't know until we've started talking, whether we like each other or not. Physical appearance can be shallow, for the most part, intelligence is interesting. You find out by starting a conversation. If he's interested in not talking, you have the first clue and talk to someone else. As a girl, I find this very easy. However, the guy who wants to wink--don't, that's a bit too familiar for me if we haven't established a connection yet. The Hi is a good idea though. Girls, don't be so into yourselves, we'll all get old and ugly soon enough, but those bashful, awkward, guys will grow up and remember the girls who bothered to talk to them about something interesting way back when we were all so goofy. Snobs, whether girls or guys are not interesting.
Drunks are never interesting.
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