All Comments on 'Shear Fashion'

Not a problem for me,although I must admit its a bit of a turn on to see a whisp of womens pubics,creeping around the side of their panties ,especially if they are blonde and suntanned.If you want to shave Selena,and it gives you pleasure then you go ahead.There are to many people telling us what we should or should not do.L

I keep myself completely shave also. I feel like it's just the right thing to do, keeping the most intimate part of you as well groomed as the rest of you.

It seems to me that your the one who has an issue/ problem about your pubes... to pluck or shave?

Especially the countries around the Baltic,Germany,and Austria,women have no problem in flashing their pubes,and we certainly have no problem in responding,shave on if you want,what is the issue?

I wanted to be a ladies tonsorial pubic artist,but failed to pass the practical after getting a raging hardon while attending to the lady examiner in the finals.JIMBO

I am a huge fan of the bald eagle

shaved women are the bomb diggety

I have a few gf's that did the laser thing! ouch...Somedays I'm creative...and its like xmass for hubby cuz he never knows what he's going to get :)

Men should try it as well - for all the reasons thst Selena cites - I do it and it feels great

As the French say, "Chacun son gout"

Used to have a hotel on the S.E.Coast of England,If he was still alive and read this he would have had a fit of laughter.One night[ I was on leave from the RAF ]we had an American who shaved his wifes pudenda in the middle of the night,the next morning the chamber maid drew this to dads attention.Selena I need hardly say what his reaction was more you have given me and my brother the biggest laugh for years.If I could give you a mark of 5000,I would.Now in the last few days we have read about foreskins,porn,pole dancing,pizza,what is coming next.LEO alias JIMBO[you know who I am]You have some real fans when you get us lot on board.PS we are sending you a knew pair of jeans we cannot have our Heroine with naked knees.They might fall off in the cold weather.

keeps the pubes from getting in ur mouth while eating.

My wife and I are both in our early 40's and have been shaving each other since we were married in 1993. We both love the closeness when we make love. It's also a big plus orally.

For a very good reason,they stop you getting friction burns?

In my wildest dreams I would never have thought that this subject would attract so much attention.Selena hit though the nail on the head with her friends comment that pubes fall out with age. Now I just so happen to know a little about psychology,and the lack of pubic hair is a major problem for some.ITS A SIGN OF VIRILITY,isnt it Selena,you naughty woman.There are many that would love to have loads of pubes,there is something very sexual about a hirsute woman,it must go back to the days when we were all hairy men and women.

Why dont pubic hairs keep growing,so that they in the womens case appear at the bottom of her jeans ,trousers or peep out from her skirt.In the mens case they appear below his Kilt or out the bottom of his trews.Very worried of Glasgow

... at my wife-to-be's insistence. It seems she had objections to being kissed by someone with stubble, which I had most of the time.

Now I've got the full beard with mustache and most of my pubic hair is still intact. My wife and my girlfriend (yes, they know about each other, of course) don't shave anything either -- arms, legs, pits, scalp, or pubis. I love it.

I've never had a thick bush of pubes anyway - I'm a redhead and I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it, but my pubes have always been softer than what I saw on my friends, and only really kinky/curly right after a shower. Then they would lose most of the kink by being pressed against my panties. <br><br>

Now in my early 40's, I have taken to trimming my pubes, because they have gotten sparser and also straighter. I like the softness of the hair "down there," and since I do get red bumps if I shave my mound, I choose not to shave.<br><br>

It's all a matter of personal taste. Like you said, some do shave, some don't. I've learned that certain men are attracted to red hair, freckles and the Irish temperament that comes along with it, while others don't give me a second glance. It's all just a personal taste thing. <br><br>

I personally find men's pubes and what springs out of that nest of kinky hair, very erotic, as long as the area is clean ;) Finding one of my soft red pubes tangled up in his dark ones after making love makes me smile.<br><br>

Bottom line, like the old song says, "It's your thang, do what you wanna do" When you feel sexy, you are sexy.

To the real Irish Lady,skin like cream,red hair,a fiery loyal temper,what more does a man wantJAMES CAMBELL

Personally I see shaving as a personal thing.

Personally I love the feeling of how more sensitive my labia are & how after-shaving I feel more sexual. I am w/ a furry top since I adore the look. Sometimes trimmed (bikini time) sometimes a real bush.

So I am thus half bald & half furred!

The question is not if you should shave or not. That`s your personal preference (hey, it`s your body). It`s more important to make note of the connection "shaved vulva - look of pre-pubescent girl - pedophilia" and if men who like completely shaved women are more likely to have pedophiliac tendencies, probably on a subconscious level. I understand feminists POV of dissing bald vulvas. Personally, I don`t think p0rn-chic is a trend that should be sustained.

Feminists have made this argument before as if liking a shaved vulva makes you a pedophile? Crazy. That's like saying people who have fantasies about breastfeeding want to be babies or people who fantasize about rape want to really be raped. It's faulty logic. I think Selena is right on, if you go out of your way to go against the current fashion trend you are doing no better than those who follow it blindly. Only a woman who makes the choice for herself and herself alone is making a real statement.

I have been shaving for 35 years now and I love it for two major reasons: 1) when it's that time of the month, I feel cleaner and 2) sexually, it's incredible. The only drawback I once found is that it's itchy (imagine me in church scrubbing my pussy under a hymnal!) but I've learned that a liberal dose of baby oil the first few days keeps it from itching and afterwards, keeps ingrown hairs away.

VIVE LE SHAVE! :-)

I swear that American's are the prudes of the world. It is the Eropeans that had toppless beaches, women not shaving their underarms (and not giving a rats ass what anyone thinks).

I loved the parallel with men shaving their faces. You so rock!!

I'm male, and I like both shaved and natural, though I'll admit, too much is not what I, nor I dare say, most of us are used to these days, so I guess I'm a person who likes to see a little grooming. I occasionally shave, but to be honest, at 60, I do wonder what people may think of me, if for instance, I were to be rushed to hospital or something similar, where my enjoyable secret was exposed to the world. I don't deny I find it a turn on and it also makes me look bigger, which in fairness, is every mans wish, lol. I totally reject the paedophile theory, it's simply something many adults find appealing or enjoyable, so until you've tried it, don't knock it.

I'm a heterosexual male with both nipples pierced and shaved pubes. Why? Because I do! Isn't it cool how something as simple as shaving pubic hair can cause so much controversy?

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Got to say I back your point all the way - if you want to be smooth, it's your choice. It shouldn't lead anybody else to make value judgements about you.

Personally, I prefer girlfriends who are smooth shaven - or waxed - I enjoy oral sex, and don't like stray hairs in my mouth - and I find licking just gives them a nicer sensation if they don't have pubic hair. Equally, I was happy to remove my own pubic hair when my girlfriend said she found it nicer sucking my cock like that....

So it's a pesonal decision, albeit one your partner needs to be happy with...but if it makes you feel sexier/more attractive, I'm sure there'll be partners happy to go along.

Body hair's a cultural thing anyway - especially for women - in some coutries, hairy legs or arms are the norm, in others they're a no-no. Some women like a guy with a hairy chest, others like the smooth look. Whatever floats your boat.

Right on girl!

who couldn't wait to grow hair, "down there." Three years later she started shaving. For graduation she wanted laser treatments to her vulva and pits. Her choice. Her mother didn't even want to trim so hair didn't show when she wore a bathing suit. Her choice.

I agree with you... it's all about choice not should.

I whole heartedly agree...it should be the person's choice and nothing else. I am a male and am shaved and have been for more then 12yrs. I do this because I enjoy the sensation and I think it is a 'cleaner' look.

I remember I was having sex with a woman I had recently met and her comment was " I didn't realize I was going to have sex with a 12 yr old", well after we finished she certainly changed her tune and said that going down on me was quite a bit more pleasurable.

Thanks for your opinion and to everyone else....Life is too short to have everything dictated to you....do what you want as long as you enjoy it...

Cheers.

To each his own. But, yeah the "real men/women don't shave" thing is hogwash. I love it for exactly the same reason Selena stated. It feels baby smooth, and to me smooth and soft = feminine. Also, you feel like less is in the way between you and your partner. When that little pad of skin between a woman's navel and the top of her vagina is smooth, its so fun to rub, especially with your cheek and nose during oral sex. As a guy, I also like myself bare. When you take your close off, you feel more "naked" without the hair down there, and "getting naked" is what its all about when you strip. Plus, if your one of those guys who worries about size (or appearance of size) your cock looks bigger with out a nest of hair at its base. Lets face it, even the biggest guy out there doesn't mind appearing an extra inch longer. Finally, and I think this is most important for me, its about respect. For some this may not be an issue, for it me its: I love going down on a woman, but its much less enjoyable when your always getting hair in your mouth, and tickling your nose. I first shaved myself thinking if I feel this way, maybe my partner does too, so as a common courtesy, I shaved it all off. She loved it!

I may not shave completely, but I do trim as far down as my trimmer will take it. I am a guy and I cannot stand pubic hair period; whether on myself or another guy/girl. For me it just feels a little unclean, but it makes for just being cooler and more comfortable. So, I say shave if you want, don't if you don't, and let's all worry about more important things!! Kudos to you, dear Selena, I couldn't have said it better myself!

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It amazes me someone would make the comment 'real women don't shave'. If that was true, we'd all be walking around with hairy underarms. That idea annoys me just as much as the 'real women have curves' debate. Every living, breathing woman is real. Why can't we all just be ourselves and let others do the same?

and the development of grooming tools in general is an interesting related topic. The "natural" arguement is naive and vain. It is natural for humans to alter our appearance as our technology allows. We are not wild animals who could care less about fashion, and who mate without a fraction of our social sophistication.

When razors were lethal weapons, men rarely shaved their faces themselves and a shave from a skilled professional was a luxury. Safety razors were developed scarcely 100 years ago, and only became widely affordable closer to 50. It has taken a little while for women to go from using this technology to shave under arms, and their legs, and finally the "bikini area", and as these parts became more commonly bare, fashion exposed these same areas more and more. It was only a matter of time.

As a photographer of art nudes, I am often criticised for having a preference for hairless bodies, and my critics often use the "not natural" arguement, to which I ask whether they wear only animal skins and ashew deodorant while sleeping under the stars and killing their own food. What is natural for a bear is not "natural" for a human. We have advanced, and like wild animals the behaviors that are natural for us are simply those that occur to us to be practical, enjoyable, and helpful in attracting a mate. With our big damn brains come greater innovation, advancement, and imagination, and there is nothing "unnatural" about any of that. Fashion is an absolutely natural expression for humans whether it is in the form of clothing, grooming, or even drastic plastic surgery.

As far as the "pre-pubescent" arguement is concerned, if you see a nude, fully grown woman with no body hair and say that she looks like a little girl, then you simply aren't paying attention!

Dearst Selena.

I could not agree with you more. To shave or not shave is a personell preference.

Me, I love a shaved pussy and have the added bonus of being my wifes private barber. For me it has nothing to do with pre-pubesent girls, I have allways had a strong attraction to mature women.

At 53 (dont tell any body) my wife’s pre-pubesent days are far behind her, all tho she could still pass for 39/40.

It also has nothing (for me) with hygene, I love the tast and the silky feel of a freshly shaved pussy and I love how it feels when I slide my cock into her. It feels as if I am deeper inside her and she diffinightly gets a lot wetter.

Love you voice on tape, Bluebeard's Wife is my all time favourate . You might say I allways get a rise out of listening to you.

...and timely, since there does seem to be a lot of buzz about the grooming of lady parts these days. Thank you for your sisterly support of all of us ladies, regardless of our grooming choices!

Fuzzy wuzzy was fuzzy, til she wasn't...

Great observation! To shave or not is personal choice. I very much prefer bare (I am a male that does do that- not as hard as it seems, so to speak. Totally bare vulvas are absolutely beautiful an I worship at this altar. I'm a figure artist and many of our models, both genders, are bare. It gives the body streamlining that it didn't have before and its very sexual. Love it! Thank you.