Bicurious and Married?

Do as this man says

I am a married man who as done the same as our advisor; I opened up to my future wife, before we married. It was a highly risky course of action and it worked.

The rest ofhis advice is true and accurate. Do as he says and you will be, if not safe, then safer.

mmmmm

Very interesting, not much of a plot though.
Okay then, i'll give it a go..........

very good advice,

Having done likewise for more years than I care to remember I was never caught out.
My desires went a little further,(read Frank man of iron), and my desire continues even now, sadly being unfulfilled of late.
Look forwards to your stories.

Nice Job!

I agree with everything you wrote. I have lived all of it. I left a long term marriage in order to be free to try things like this, and satisfied several curiosities before falling in love with a woman I ended up living with for several years. Unfortunately, I went the route you did, and she left when she found out. Fortunately, I have used my newly single status much more wisely this time, having met several intimate friends of both genders who were looking for about the same thing: FWB. I may be single, but I have more sex than 90%+ of the married guys out there, and probably more than 80% of the single guys with GFs. I love it!

Personally though

I love the gloryhole action of public toilets. I don't want to actually meet anyone, talk to them and get to know them. I just wanna suck a nice cock, till it blows down my throat. I agree it's not safe, but I can't help myself. I love strange cocks.

My wife won't understand, because she has other unrelated issues with this sort of stuff, but that's okay. I don't like pushing anything on her. She's too good a woman.

I'm going now, to the local mall to find myself a nice cock.

Cya.

right on the money

Read this one 3 times,i hope you write more about where one might safely meet other curious newbies.older retired here and still looking for a first time.i am pretty sure a lot of men are having these thoughts and looking for some trusted one to talk too about it.its a burden to carry around.

been there done that

as someone still out there playing while married the first part of this is so spot on it sounds like my life story

just still convinced i can avoid the unhappy ending

Well done...

Would agree with virtually all of your advice, very well stated. Have had very similar experiences, though my tastes tend to run more to the 'very well hung who brought out your submissive side' that you allude to. And do stick to other married guys, have had one experience with an unattached guy who enjoyed hinting he might expose me...

Thanks...thats me!

OMG! It's as though you were talking to me, I am currently in the "curious" phase....all advice greatfully received! looking forward to any additional advice/stories...Thanks.

I can relate to all of this. At this moment I am in a hotel on business and im contemplating looking on craigslist for my very first willy to suck

Oh Yeah - Careful Does IT

I was you years ago. I found a 'friend' I now see about once a month. Started off very carefully - he said he'd do what my wife wouldn't - and he did. OMG did he ever. My head nearly exploded when he blew me the first time. It was delicious!

After about the fifth or sixth meeting - and fantastic blow jobs - I decided I wanted to try it. Now it is even steven deal, I do him then he does me, or the other way around. Never have we had any problem with getting caught. He is a realtor and we have unending houses to meet in.

We even found a way, having mutual interests, to "meet" so our wives know each other. And, they aren't surprised, when we go 'do' something together. If only they knew what! Right now we are trying to figure out a way to get away for several days together.

Before I found him though, there were several frogs that showed up. Now I have a prince of a friend! They are out there, but be careful. There are a lot more frog than princes.

should've married someone like me...

I asked my husband one day if he liked watching 2 women together, of course he said yes. So I told him I would like to watch 2 men together. Lucky for me, that pulled him out of his bi-curious shell and we have a friend coming to town soon. :)

almost, but not quite...

So you avoided guys who replied in one-line "grunts," couldn't spell CAT or were fixated on one thing ("I luv giving road head!") yet you see nothing wrong with posting your ads as "a nice cock shot" because "people are far more likely to respond if you include a pic"?

I hate to have to break this to you, but the reaction I've seen on-line to this (in comments on swinger forums) has been rather negative to the posts of disembodied penises in a personal ad or a response to same. Basically, it's a known trick to trigger the 'has picture' flag in a search without giving the reader any useful clue to what you look like... but you're acting in a manner (introducing yourself to a stranger by 'whipping it out' before knowing if they're even interested in you) that no one would ever try in real life - except perhaps at the gay baths, and even there an overly-aggressive approach gets one labelled as a "troll".

I realise you are posting zero info because you are afraid of your cheating arse getting caught... but attaching a penis image to an ad doesn't fix anything.

Also, do keep in mind that computer security is only half the battle... if, when you drag your sorry, cum-filled derrière back to your loving wifey, you are emotionally cold, distant and absent because your mind is still on that mouthful of throbbing black man meat in some bar in some other town, she will notice your inattention to her. Even if she doesn't put all of the pieces together as to *why* your mind (or your eyes) appear to be elsewhere, if she is not getting the affection she needs this may well still be the first step towards the end of your primary relationship.

So much for looking for technological solutions to non-technical problems... cheater.

realistic and effective

Heed this man, married cocksucker! He knows whereof he speaks.

From a Married Pitcher

I have used the services of such men for a few years now, and he is spot on.