Mutual Masturbation

LizzyB

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I am wondering how many of you have done this with your partner. It is something I tend to enjoy but I have to be very close to the person.

Is this common for all of you?
 
I have, and very much enjoy it... Of course, it rarely stays just masturbation for long... After a while, I just can't resist leaning over and licking the juices from her fingers...

dlj
 
With out putting u too much on the spot, how would you explain mutual masterbation?
I seem to have found a couple of different definitions...
* masterbating each other eg giving him a hand job, being fingered
* masterbating in front of each other
:D

H
 
I've done it for years. In fact, an ex and I used to have contests to see who could last the longest. Or was it who could cum quicker? Don't remember, don't care, it was fun. Besides, I masturbate all the time, why would I let a guy cramp my style?
 
Naughty n Nice said:
I've done it for years. In fact, an ex and I used to have contests to see who could last the longest. Or was it who could cum quicker? Don't remember, don't care, it was fun.

That makes me think of a commercial here in Canada for Tim Horton's Iced cappucino or something.

This guy and girl are sitting in lawn chairs sweating, staring across to the drink sitting across the lawn, seeing who can hold out the longest before breaking down and going for it. :)
 
LizzyB said:
I am wondering how many of you have done this with your partner. It is something I tend to enjoy but I have to be very close to the person.

Is this common for all of you?

It's quite common. It's also very very erotic as well as intimate for us to see one another in the throes of exstasy. Seeing one another convulse & buck to their own stimulation has its own rewards and can be quite hot. Seeing her hips gyrate, her fingers moving furiously, her pink lips undulating, and her moaning as she nears the edge of orgasm is a reward unto itself!

Needless to say, this gets me going to and I just have to show her my technique too.
 
Oh dear, is anyone else all hot and bothered after that? Woohoo LustEngine you're revving mine!!!:devil:
 
Hell yes. Sometimes I'd rather watch instead of participate. I've only done it with one girl, but it was awesome to watch her pleasure herself while I stroked. And then when she was done, she'd watch me cum. Sometimes it was in her mouth, sometimes on her tits, and sometimes she just sat back and watched.

The first time she watched, she gasped and said "It jumped!" (referring to my cum shooting straight up in the air). I knew she loved watching and that made it 1000x more exciting.

Ah... memories.
 
Love it both ways!

I'm not sure there's much of anything more exciting than watching a woman masturbate. (Watching two?) I also enjoy knowing that she's watching me, getting turned on by the way I stroke myself. I definitely agree that you can learn a lot by watching your partner.

As mentioned above, another definition is masturbating each other. I love this one almost as much! I love the feel of pussy and sinking my finger into one is divine. Often HER hand on my cock is even more stimulating than my own. Add to all the fact that you can feel each other's rising excitement, which just serves to turn you on more!! Only downside, again alluded to above, is that sometimes someone gets a bit "distracted" by receiving and does less giving. I had one partner who didn't like mutual masturbation becuase she strongly preferred to focus entirely on giving or receiving pleasure. (And oh boy was it worth it!!)
 
my gf and i have done it a lot, i love doing it. just something so intimate about seeing someone do this very very private thing!
 
not haveing much luck on this end thinkit is very erotic though...

went to touch my self once while giving S\O a bj he acted like is should not pleasure my self so i havn't done it since
 
Naughty n Nice said:
*note to self* don't click on this thread unless prepared to get horny :devil:

Wear that mouse button away if you must!!! And last time I checked, I didn't see any complaints lodged against you being ever so horny.:devil:
 
Well that's because you haven't spoken with my toys. They're getting tired you know. What's the mouse have to do with it? Hell, I really don't think it would fit. :p Otherwise, I'd have tried it by now.
 
We love it! Both watching each other and doing it to each other. It's especially nice on long, quiet afternoons when we each get naked and then watch each other - I can only touch myself, he can only touch himself. The goal is to make the other one so aroused that you can't hold off any longer.
 
Naughty n Nice said:
Well that's because you haven't spoken with my toys. They're getting tired you know. What's the mouse have to do with it? Hell, I really don't think it would fit. :p Otherwise, I'd have tried it by now.

Hmmmm...now that you mention it, the track ball on the Kensington Turbo Mouse does look amazing like a Ben Wah Ball!:rolleyes:
 
deliciea said:
not haveing much luck on this end thinkit is very erotic though...

went to touch my self once while giving S\O a bj he acted like is should not pleasure my self so i havn't done it since

He's a close-minded oaf; don't listen to him on this subject! Masturbation is normal, healthy, and very educational. Many doctors actually recommend it in sex therapy AND for post-natal muscle tone. (Supposed to be good DURING pregnancy too; orgasms relieve the associated cramps and aches.) It's an excellent way to learn about your body and what you like sexually. Besides, look at this thread-- MOST guys get VERY turned on by their partner masturbating! For more on the topic of masturbation, run a search of the threads.

Give that so the finger...and then put it to work on yourself! :p
 
mutual masturbation

The missus and me have explored many of the different strokes for all the folks, and for a little change of pace, we like being in different rooms, maybe watching the same porno, and listening to each other, it is an audio voyeur's delight. We are moaners and groaners anyway, talking is a great way to spice up the gravy!!

Whip me, strip me, eat me, beat me, suck me , fuck me, jam it, ram it, hum n' cummin, give me summin, lock the chains, feel the pain, smak my ass, pass the grass, make me cream, hear my scream, call me the dirty slut that I am, tell me you love me, AND THEN GET THE FUCK OUT!!
 
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