Str8 males and bi sex

krspy2001

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Have any of you str8 males fantasized acout giving another male a BJ or? Then actually gone through with it. How did you feel afterwards and was it worth it???
 
hi from phila

i have thought about it but never gone through with it, although it is not the kind of thing that just falls in your lap, as it were. i had a chance to do it many years ago, freaked, and now i regret not trying. oh well. MrS
 
actually have someone wanting to explore his bi side and wants to perform oral on me. I have had fantasies about doing the same....just not sure about tying it though
 
I'd probably give head to the right guy and in the right situation. I'd also like to plug my story which happens to explore this fantasy.
:)
 
I will have to look it up and read it........anyone have any thoughts on this?
 
krspy2001 said:
Have any of you str8 males fantasized acout giving another male a BJ or? Then actually gone through with it. How did you feel afterwards and was it worth it???

I considered my self straight until I sucked a cock. Now I guess that I must be bi.

That aside, how did I feel afterwards???

I spent the next day at work having great difficulty concentrating. All I could think about was being on my knees with a cock in my mouth. The whole thing was so erotic.

Forget for a minute that many of your peers would think of you very differently if they knew you even fantasized about doing it, and forget that there is a ridiculous social stigma attached to two men having any form of sex together. The only consideration should be, do YOU want to do it. If the opportunity is there, you should take it.

5 years later, I am so glad I did. It's not something I want to do every day, but should the opportunity arise, I would very happily do it again.

and one more thought for you.....if your mate offers to suck you cock, let him. If you were blindfolded, you'd never know wether the mouth was male or female.
 
yeah i know i'm a chick but here i speak

i know there is a much greater social stigma for guys who are bi-curious, bi, homosexual, than women but here goes.

first of all, i'd consider you bi-curious. no you haven't explored the possibilites of being with the same sex, but you are interested. you may decide you're bi, you may consider yourself still bi-curious after your first encounter. bisexual tends to mean you don't favor one sex over the other in general, though you may in particular situations, moods...

i thought about getting involved with another woman for awhile. it was in and out of my brain. just a thing, niggling in the back there. one night i fell for my closest friend, she's still my girlfriend 8 months later, the most important and lasting relationship i've ever had.

this is a rather unlikely senario for you, and although there are many bi women to be found when you know where to look, bi-guys are less common, or more likely, less likely to admit it.

personally, i say take pride in your sexuality. enjoy and induldge in every fantasy you get a chance to. play safely, play concentualy, but whatever you do PLAY!
 
Thanks for those replies.......if the opporotunity arises...i amy try it....it does turn me on
 
i ahve often fanasized about being a male whore for a night and actually charge for a bj
 
I wouldn't want a guy sucking my dick. and there's no way I'd pay for it. but hey, if you can make money doing it, then go right ahead. :)
 
prositution fantasies

it is possible to make this fantasy a "reality" in a controled situation. have a partner meet you in a bar on a specified night, or wherever, pick you up, and "pay" you to suck him off. incorporate anything else you like into the fantasy. itz safe because you're with a concenting partner you trust, but you get to act out the fantasy.

good luck and enjoy.
 
the hard part is finding a clean partner....i have never done the bi thing before
 
I have gay friends who tell me lots of straights let dudes suck them off. I'd be scared of the moustaches.
 
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I am an 18 yr old male, and Ive always considered myself straight. However, I recently met a bi-guy on the net. He's talked quite a bit about being with guys, and it has really turned me on. More recently he has been coming on to me, and I know it could go all the way if I allow it to. We are going to meet soon, just to see how things go, and to see how I feel. I really don't know how Im going to feel when we meet in person. I just want an enjoyable experience. I've recently started fantasizing about a guy sucking my cock, and then me returning the favour. Maybe my fantasies will come true very soon! I don't really care about social stigma, Im not exactly going to go around shouting in the street (well I guess it depends how good it is :)).
 
good for you

your attitude towards bi-sexuality is fantastic! let us know how it goes. if you want to talk to me give me a shout i'd be interested hearing from you. i'd pm you but since you're a "guest" i can't.
 
My First crush (maybe second ...)

For years my wife has been saying she would like to see me with another man. It got me thinking, and I looked at some pornography, and I liked it. Now I fantasize about it, or about MMF, pretty regularly.

I do feel differently about men than I do about women. With women, almost anybody in good shape, decent haircut, under the age of 55 is attractive. With men, however, they have to be damn pretty, Antonio Banderas look alikes. In fact, I have been truly attracted a guy only once ever, and I even had a lot of gay friends, etc.

Until now. There is an extremely cute--pretty face, gym body, well dressed--young man who serves me coffee at school each morning. He seems to be trying to catch my eye, but I look coyly away. ("Oooh--I am just an innocent straight boy--what could you be thinking...") However, I kind of get butterflies when I think of him. Plus I get more than butterflies when I think of naked. In my room. Maybe in front of me, my lips on his chest, feeling his warm breath on the back of my neck while I explore his smooth, strong body with my wet mouth... My tongue tickling his nipple... My hands on his firm slightly hairy chest, on his soft stomach, on his erect penis... Together for the first time, discovering each other... Whew...

Anyway, it is kind of interesting to watch my own sexuality do its thing.
 
I know what you mean.....I am not gay and love my lady to death.....but lately its like i have a fantasy i need to complete...the MMF is what I relly want to try
 
krspy2001 said:
Have any of you str8 males fantasized acout giving another male a BJ or? Then actually gone through with it. How did you feel afterwards and was it worth it???

Yes, I have fantasized about giving handjobs, blowjobs, and being "bottom". No, haven´t gone through with it: First time I chickened out even though we had a nice talk at a café, but I was too unexperienced with women then and I wanted to get that sorted out first; second time (rather recently) he stopped writing me when I mentioned condoms and lube (but he apparently had a 9-incher [foto looked real enough] so I guess he didn´t have any trouble finding males *g*).

And like curious_hubby has said: from a purely theoretical point of view I think my standards would also be pretty high - but then again perhaps I am just a very curious and open straight guy who is not bi at all? Who knows until I´ve tried it out...
 
It's something i haven't done yet . But if the moment was right I hope i would have the courage to do it my wife enocurages me because she says that we should al try gay sex at least once
 
mine has mentioned it before...kinda joking around.......if she wanted me to be with a guy in front of her I would do it to make her happy
 
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