I grew up in a house where my mother's idea of the birds and the bees talk was, "I didn't chase boys when I was your age." I was made to think there was something wrong with me for being curious about my sexuality, and because of that I made some very poor choices as a teen.
I do not want my children to go through the same thing. They are both currently under the age of seven, but I believe that teaching them about their bodies in age appropriate terms as they grow and change would be more effective than just picking some arbitrary age to sit them down to have this huge talk about something that will become an important part of their lives and how they view themselves.
Can anyone suggest books/reading material that you have found helpful in having THE TALK with your own kids? Or perhaps literature you found helpful as an adult that you wish you had known of as a teen?
I tried doing a search on this subject but came up with nothing, so if this has already been discussed, would you please provide me with the link?
Thanks for your input.
BirdsWife
I do not want my children to go through the same thing. They are both currently under the age of seven, but I believe that teaching them about their bodies in age appropriate terms as they grow and change would be more effective than just picking some arbitrary age to sit them down to have this huge talk about something that will become an important part of their lives and how they view themselves.
Can anyone suggest books/reading material that you have found helpful in having THE TALK with your own kids? Or perhaps literature you found helpful as an adult that you wish you had known of as a teen?
I tried doing a search on this subject but came up with nothing, so if this has already been discussed, would you please provide me with the link?
Thanks for your input.
BirdsWife