Queersetti
Bastardo Suave
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Sucking cock is an art that anyone can master.
First of all, let's get the issue of condoms out of the way. There is no definitive answer as to the safety of oral sex. Most studies have shown that the risk to the sucker is relatively low, and to the suckee, almost non existent. But there is some element of risk. In particular, if you have poor dental health, gum disease or sore in your mouth of any kind, particularly herpes, your level of risk is greater. It is also not recommended to brush your teeth shortly before fellatio, as it creates small cuts in the gums.
Now, on to the cock itself. Not all cocks are the same, obviously, but there are some general things to keep in mind. The bottom of the shaft is likely to be more sensitive than the top or sides. The sensitivity of the head varies greatly, but for most men the place where the rim meets the shaft below the slit is the most sensitive spot. Uncircumcised men are usually more sensitive on their heads and around their rims than are those who are circumcised.
OK, let's suck!
One of the most important things to remember is that cock sucking should be a pleasurable sunsual experience for both partners. If you are not enjoying yourself, chances are, your partner will be able to pick up on that and his enjoyment will be diminished as well.
It's easy to fall into the trap of simply sucking the cock in and out of your mouth. Boring! You should vary the pressure and timing of your sucking and pay attention to how your partner responds. If you get a satisfied moan, take that as a cue. vary your motion as well. Simply turning your head from side to side while you move back and forth will add to his pleasure.
Use your tongue. Take a break from sucking now and then and lick the shaft and around the head. Tease the slit and the rim with the tip of your tongue. When the shaft is in your mouth drag or tap your tongue along the bottom of it. When you have these moves down, combine them. As you move your mouth up the cock, swirl your tongue around the head without releasing it.
Hands. Don't just leave them dangling, use them. Don't go so far as to give him a hand job with a lip chaser, but don't be afraid to stroke his shaft and caress his balls during the blowjob. If his cock is too big for you to take it all in your mouth, keeping a hand around the base of the shaft will keep you from choking. Run your hands up and dawn his thighs, squeeze his ass, caress his body and play with his nipples. Also, the area behind the scrotum is very responsive to being massaged.
I mentioned balls, lets' talk about them for a minute. Most men will love to have their balls sucked, but you must be cautious. They are tender and sucking them too hard can be a quick turn off.
Lots of cock suckers seem to take pride in how fast they can get a guy off. If that's your thing, go for it. But for a truly sensual experience for both partners, take your time.
One common beginner mistake is to be so afraid of gagging that they tense up their throat. Relax. Breath normally. If you feel like you might gag, slow down. If you are taking the shaft deep, inhale as it goes in, and you are less likely to gag. As you suck, saliva is likely to build up in your mouth. Just let it flow out. Use it to lubricate his shaft. Don't be self conscious about it.
And don't be afraid to make noise! Moan, hum, make loud slobbering noises. He will love it.
Deep throat. You can do it, but it takes some practice. The trick is to not try to overcome your gag reflex, but to put it to use. When the tip of the cock touch the back of your throat, you will involuntarily try to swallow it, but when the cock doesn't co-operate, your body will reject it and try to push it back out. That's what gagging is. So when the urge to swallow hits you, swallow. Think of how you have to swallow hard to take a pill and you will get the idea. After you have done it a few times, it will get much easier. It helps if you have your throat angled to allow the cock to slide in deeper. For beginner's, a good way to deep throat is by lying on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed.
Spit or swallow? Ironically, many people will spit because they are afraid of the taste of cum. But in fact, you will get more of it's taste if you spit than in you swallow. The easiest thing to do is just start to swallow when you feel him begin to cum. Most men are going to find it more pleasurable if you swallow than if you spit. If you do spit, use a little bit of tact. Don't act as if you have battery acid in your mouth. A nice middle ground, if you don't mind the taste, but you have trouble physically swallowing, is to let the cum flow from your mouth on to his shaft, and then licking it clean.
Everyone who has experience sucking cock has their own favorite techniques and methods. I hope others will add their knowledge to this thread.
First of all, let's get the issue of condoms out of the way. There is no definitive answer as to the safety of oral sex. Most studies have shown that the risk to the sucker is relatively low, and to the suckee, almost non existent. But there is some element of risk. In particular, if you have poor dental health, gum disease or sore in your mouth of any kind, particularly herpes, your level of risk is greater. It is also not recommended to brush your teeth shortly before fellatio, as it creates small cuts in the gums.
Now, on to the cock itself. Not all cocks are the same, obviously, but there are some general things to keep in mind. The bottom of the shaft is likely to be more sensitive than the top or sides. The sensitivity of the head varies greatly, but for most men the place where the rim meets the shaft below the slit is the most sensitive spot. Uncircumcised men are usually more sensitive on their heads and around their rims than are those who are circumcised.
OK, let's suck!
One of the most important things to remember is that cock sucking should be a pleasurable sunsual experience for both partners. If you are not enjoying yourself, chances are, your partner will be able to pick up on that and his enjoyment will be diminished as well.
It's easy to fall into the trap of simply sucking the cock in and out of your mouth. Boring! You should vary the pressure and timing of your sucking and pay attention to how your partner responds. If you get a satisfied moan, take that as a cue. vary your motion as well. Simply turning your head from side to side while you move back and forth will add to his pleasure.
Use your tongue. Take a break from sucking now and then and lick the shaft and around the head. Tease the slit and the rim with the tip of your tongue. When the shaft is in your mouth drag or tap your tongue along the bottom of it. When you have these moves down, combine them. As you move your mouth up the cock, swirl your tongue around the head without releasing it.
Hands. Don't just leave them dangling, use them. Don't go so far as to give him a hand job with a lip chaser, but don't be afraid to stroke his shaft and caress his balls during the blowjob. If his cock is too big for you to take it all in your mouth, keeping a hand around the base of the shaft will keep you from choking. Run your hands up and dawn his thighs, squeeze his ass, caress his body and play with his nipples. Also, the area behind the scrotum is very responsive to being massaged.
I mentioned balls, lets' talk about them for a minute. Most men will love to have their balls sucked, but you must be cautious. They are tender and sucking them too hard can be a quick turn off.
Lots of cock suckers seem to take pride in how fast they can get a guy off. If that's your thing, go for it. But for a truly sensual experience for both partners, take your time.
One common beginner mistake is to be so afraid of gagging that they tense up their throat. Relax. Breath normally. If you feel like you might gag, slow down. If you are taking the shaft deep, inhale as it goes in, and you are less likely to gag. As you suck, saliva is likely to build up in your mouth. Just let it flow out. Use it to lubricate his shaft. Don't be self conscious about it.
And don't be afraid to make noise! Moan, hum, make loud slobbering noises. He will love it.
Deep throat. You can do it, but it takes some practice. The trick is to not try to overcome your gag reflex, but to put it to use. When the tip of the cock touch the back of your throat, you will involuntarily try to swallow it, but when the cock doesn't co-operate, your body will reject it and try to push it back out. That's what gagging is. So when the urge to swallow hits you, swallow. Think of how you have to swallow hard to take a pill and you will get the idea. After you have done it a few times, it will get much easier. It helps if you have your throat angled to allow the cock to slide in deeper. For beginner's, a good way to deep throat is by lying on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed.
Spit or swallow? Ironically, many people will spit because they are afraid of the taste of cum. But in fact, you will get more of it's taste if you spit than in you swallow. The easiest thing to do is just start to swallow when you feel him begin to cum. Most men are going to find it more pleasurable if you swallow than if you spit. If you do spit, use a little bit of tact. Don't act as if you have battery acid in your mouth. A nice middle ground, if you don't mind the taste, but you have trouble physically swallowing, is to let the cum flow from your mouth on to his shaft, and then licking it clean.
Everyone who has experience sucking cock has their own favorite techniques and methods. I hope others will add their knowledge to this thread.
I don't mind the "face slapping" myself, but I can understand how some would see it as demeaning. I enjoy light spankings during sex play too. It all depends on the individual I guess.
