ReadyOne
Ready to Rock!
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- Mar 31, 2003
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God Bless the committed couple who can say they never had any significant issues in the bedroom.
This is about couples who have committed to keeping their relationship under trying circumstances. Sex is an issue for them, but for whatever reason, they have decided the issue won't be a reason for them to break up. Instead, they are (trying to) find some way to cope.
This is the couple that says, "I love him/her dearly but perhaps I should have found someone else way back when because the sex issues have been a real problem. But we're committed, and we go forward together from where we are now."
Yes, I know counseling, communication, yadda, yadda, yadda.
But what if the problem just doesn't lend itself to that? Sometimes you just agree to disagree and go on, but someone is still frustrated.
What is your personal knowledge of coping methods? Heavy masturbation? Get a Sybian? Get permission for a second partner? Take a love without permission? Hang on Literotica 24/7?
This is not a discussion of cheating!. If someone says cheating is their coping solution, PLEASE assume that they have read all the wisdom of the other threads, and don't get sidetracked into morality.
Think practical things that have worked for you or someone you know....
This is about couples who have committed to keeping their relationship under trying circumstances. Sex is an issue for them, but for whatever reason, they have decided the issue won't be a reason for them to break up. Instead, they are (trying to) find some way to cope.
This is the couple that says, "I love him/her dearly but perhaps I should have found someone else way back when because the sex issues have been a real problem. But we're committed, and we go forward together from where we are now."
Yes, I know counseling, communication, yadda, yadda, yadda.
But what if the problem just doesn't lend itself to that? Sometimes you just agree to disagree and go on, but someone is still frustrated.
What is your personal knowledge of coping methods? Heavy masturbation? Get a Sybian? Get permission for a second partner? Take a love without permission? Hang on Literotica 24/7?
This is not a discussion of cheating!. If someone says cheating is their coping solution, PLEASE assume that they have read all the wisdom of the other threads, and don't get sidetracked into morality.
Think practical things that have worked for you or someone you know....