CelticFrog
Almost Killed In Action
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- Jan 31, 2003
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We've gotten some really bad news today.
Ranger has lost another one of his Ranger brothers. The one he was closest to throughout his entire career in the Army before he transferred to the Air Force.
This man was wounded last year, severely, in the back. They said he'd never walk again. They said he'd be in a wheelchair forever. He started walking despite their opinions a few months later. He was doing GREAT.
We found out today that he and his wife lost their lives last week.
I don't know how to help Ranger with this. I don't know what kind of support he needs. And he can't tell me because he has PTSD and locks down when this sort of thing happens.
The couples' twin baby boys survived and are being taken by their grandparents. What we didn't know until today was that those boys had been named after the four other men that were part of the fire team. Out of five men in that fire team that went through hell together, two remain.
My Ranger is one.
He's come home from work and I don't know what to say. Sure, I can say all the things I did last time we got this news, but it's not the same. This is his best friend, the man that potentially saved his life, the one man of all of them that J wanted me to meet.
How can I help him? I know that 'all I can really do is be there for him', but that's not enough, and I hope that makes sense.
This has thrown a pipe wrench into J's recovery and PTSD therapy.
Please, if you can help...
Ang
Ranger has lost another one of his Ranger brothers. The one he was closest to throughout his entire career in the Army before he transferred to the Air Force.
This man was wounded last year, severely, in the back. They said he'd never walk again. They said he'd be in a wheelchair forever. He started walking despite their opinions a few months later. He was doing GREAT.
We found out today that he and his wife lost their lives last week.
I don't know how to help Ranger with this. I don't know what kind of support he needs. And he can't tell me because he has PTSD and locks down when this sort of thing happens.
The couples' twin baby boys survived and are being taken by their grandparents. What we didn't know until today was that those boys had been named after the four other men that were part of the fire team. Out of five men in that fire team that went through hell together, two remain.
My Ranger is one.
He's come home from work and I don't know what to say. Sure, I can say all the things I did last time we got this news, but it's not the same. This is his best friend, the man that potentially saved his life, the one man of all of them that J wanted me to meet.
How can I help him? I know that 'all I can really do is be there for him', but that's not enough, and I hope that makes sense.
This has thrown a pipe wrench into J's recovery and PTSD therapy.
Please, if you can help...
Ang