How to Wow my man?

Hi! This is my first post...i feel proud

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about a month, as much as our schedules can allow. He really likes it .. obviously. But I want to do something next time to just...wow him. Something that will make him go Holy Shit where did she learn that?!

Any ideas?

he's not into anything to do with his but or mine...but i guess everything else goes.

cyberangel69 said:

Hi! This is my first post...i feel proud

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about a month, as much as our schedules can allow. He really likes it .. obviously. But I want to do something next time to just...wow him. Something that will make him go Holy Shit where did she learn that?!

Any ideas?

he's not into anything to do with his but or mine...but i guess everything else goes.

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Too many factors and variables to make a decent dscision. Do you want planning time? Do you live together? Do you want it to be spontaneous? You've gotta give information, girrrrlieeee! lol


I've got some great ideas, but I need to know more about your situation.

We don't live together, we're both in college and we live in the dorms. We're together all the time though. Spontaneous would be good.

i'm looking for things I can do while having sex as well as the surprise angle.

*excited to hear your ideas!*

most obviously, it depends on what he likes! it also may be important what you like. i don't think i would be wowed by something that my girlfriend forced herself to do.

i would be wowed by someone who sets out on a mission to make me cum as many times as possible, using hands and mouth to make me hard again and again.

hope that helps!

Hmmmmmmm, try doing it in a steamy bathroom with the hot water in the shower running. Try having him sit in a chair and sit on his lap with your back to him so he can rub your breasts and kiss your neck as you massage his cock with your body. Try letting him nail you on the bathroom countertop of a motel room. On a desk. Bend over the back of a couch. Stand against a wall facing it, while wearing a high rising skirt and nothing else. Try doing it on the floor. On a couch. Find a secluded area to fuck on the hood of his or your car. Suck him while he's sleeping, if he ever sleeps with you in your dorm or you with him in his dorm, or a motel/ hotel. Try watching a porno with him and see how long you can keep your hands off each other. That's always fun. Try it in the shower. Try it on a washing machine or dryer. Try it on a table that's at least as low or high as his pelvis. Try introducing him to flavored lubricants for oral sex. They add something kind of fun and kinky. Handcuff him to the headboards of the bed and take control of him. Let him do the same for you to show your trust in him. That's all I can think of off the top of my head... Wait, there's more. Get a blanket, go to a deserted beach at night in the summer with a sky filled with stars and do it on the sand. Do it in the rain. On stairs. Kick your roomate or his out of the room and leave a trail of your clothes to whatever room you'll want to end up screwing in. A lot of this stuff is fun... Hope I helped. Enjoy.

one of my ex's used to drive me wild by getting on top of me and slowly brushing her breasts over my chest and face. just about no matter how many times she'd made me cum already, i'd get all hot again. she also enjoyed stroking me by hand no matter whether i was hard or soft... ever since then i've loved handjobs better than blowjobs, as strange as than may seem.

i enjoy pleasing my partner, so if there's something that sends you into outer space, e.g., rubbing the g-spot, why don't you guide him to do it?

Just let him know you want him.

Let him know that you're horny for him. Any woman, any man; if she let's him know she wants him, she has his attention.

Next time he takes you out, tell him you want him. Then lean over and give him head on the way to dinner. Remind him in ways that only we women know that you want him still.

After dinner, you WILL be dessert!

Jenny

Re: Just let him know you want him.

JRaven said:

Let him know that you're horny for him. Any woman, any man; if she let's him know she wants him, she has his attention.

Next time he takes you out, tell him you want him. Then lean over and give him head on the way to dinner. Remind him in ways that only we women know that you want him still.

After dinner, you WILL be dessert!

Jenny

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I agree with something like this. Sometimes it's more about the passion and the enthusiasm more than the technique.

dUh! of course, pervs like me went straight to the technique... yes, college geek, you are right! there's so much you can do while the clothes are still on!

but don't disregard what happens when the clothes do come off!

sobesundevil said:

dUh! of course, pervs like me went straight to the technique... yes, college geek, you are right! there's so much you can do while the clothes are still on!

but don't disregard what happens when the clothes do come off!

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Yup. I agree with you. "Mind Sex" is just as fun and arousing.

Way to go, CG!

Sometimes it's more about the passion and the enthusiasm more than the technique.

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A bunch of great ideas here, but all the technique in the world can't compete with Want and Desire.

OK

Try this. Tell him to sit in a chair. He can not touch himself or you. He has to remain in the chair. Tie him down if you don't think he will follow the direction. Then do a slow sexy strip tease for him after which you sit/ lay down and masturbate for him. If he doesn't say WOW after that check his pulse!

Good luck and have fun.

Holden

A little trick I like...
When you are having sex doggie style (my favorite) reach behind through your legs and caress his balls while he is driving into you. I've gotten some extremely pleasurable results from that. It's also nice to try that right as he's about to come...watch him skyrocket.

Thanks for the great ideas!!

can't wait to put them into practice!

jupiter lilly said:

A little trick I like...
When you are having sex doggie style (my favorite) reach behind through your legs and caress his balls while he is driving into you. I've gotten some extremely pleasurable results from that. It's also nice to try that right as he's about to come...watch him skyrocket.

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hmmm.... interesting, interesting!
i have to say that i've not had much good experiences with girls massaging my balls... the one girl that had mastered stroking and stimulating me every other way, had never really gotten a feel for them, and was either too rough or just tickled me. although even then, it's nice to feel that your partner is sneaking into the most private areas of your body...

to me it's extremely arousing to see that my partner is enjoying herself and likes to play with me.

hers a few ideas

1 tie him up and sit astride his face and masturbate till you come on his face
2 lean him up against the wall and give him the sloppiest blow job of his life while on your knees. a few pointers. suck his balls while you use your hand on his shaft. as he is cumming just use your hand and let him come on your face or in your mouth.
3 lie him on his back and and fuck him while squatting on your haunches, just totally fuck him as if the only thing that matters is him cumming whenever he wants.
4 let him fuck you in the mouth till he comes
5 beg him to fuck you in the arse which by the way sounds as if you haven't tried
6 try rimmming his anus with your tongue
7 talk really dirty or at least much dirtier than you normallly do
8 tell him a fantasy and do it
9 give him some ropes and tell him you want to be his slut for the night. submit to him totally
10 watch a porno or go and buy one for him
11 sex toys play with yourself or him
12 really really enjoy sex with him

The list goes on and on!

If you really want to wow him forget his orgasm. He'll have one sure enough almost regardless of what you do anyway.

If you really, really want to wow him then it is all about your orgasm. Free yourself and let yourself get completely lost in the moment. Then be it through intercourse, oral sex, manual stimulation or whatever, allow yourself (with his help of course) to have the wetest, loudest, strongest orgasm you've ever had.

After you catch your breath and manage to flutter your eyes open I can gaurantee he will have the "wow" look. Nothing feeds a man's ego like the idea of making a woman have an explosive orgasm.

LH

Limbhugger said:

If you really want to wow him forget his orgasm. He'll have one sure enough almost regardless of what you do anyway.

If you really, really want to wow him then it is all about your orgasm. Free yourself and let yourself get completely lost in the moment. Then be it through intercourse, oral sex, manual stimulation or whatever, allow yourself (with his help of course) to have the wetest, loudest, strongest orgasm you've ever had.

After you catch your breath and manage to flutter your eyes open I can gaurantee he will have the "wow" look. Nothing feeds a man's ego like the idea of making a woman have an explosive orgasm.

LH

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Well said!

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1) My girlfriend would walk in the door, step into my arms, put her arms around my neck and kiss me enthusiasticly as she ground her hips into mine...If I didn't have an erection when she walked in the door, I soon did...Needless to say, we'd head for the couch or the bedroom and utilize my hard-on...She'd never say a word, just smile at me until I was empty! (she knew that I'd reciprocate) ...The thought of her, 20 years later, still brings a smile to my face!!!

2) When we would step into the shower, she'd soap-up her hands, step behind me, reach around, taking my cock in one hand and my balls in the other, stroking both as she rubbed her body against my back...the feel of her thick bush against my ass and her breasts spread across my back drove me wild!!!... I'd be cumming in her hand in no time!!!

3) She would also stand facing me, kissing me passionately, until I was hard as a rock...She'd soap her hands, take my cock in one hand as she stroked my balls with the other...She'd continue to kiss me as she stroked my shaft...When she sensed my climax, she'd rub the head of my cock against her belly, letting my cum drip into her bush...

I should have married her!!!

jupiter lilly said:

A little trick I like...
When you are having sex doggie style (my favorite) reach behind through your legs and caress his balls while he is driving into you. I've gotten some extremely pleasurable results from that. It's also nice to try that right as he's about to come...watch him skyrocket.

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When my wife does this it sends me over the edge in no time.

give him a love menu and some vouchers...


then he can choose what he would like...


different prices for different acts... give him say 20vouchers....

i.e.
hand job 3v
blow job 5v
spank 4v
lap dance 6v etc


then he has to spend his vouchers how he wants

this game keeps on working

PrincessHoney said:

give him a love menu and some vouchers...


then he can choose what he would like...


different prices for different acts... give him say 20vouchers....

i.e.
hand job 3v
blow job 5v
spank 4v
lap dance 6v etc


then he has to spend his vouchers how he wants

this game keeps on working

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Wow that would be great havent had anyone do that for me yet . would be a lot of fun certainly would put a smile on my face but with my luck id run out of vouchers way to fast lol