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Cardinal said:How do you get your straight wife to indulge your "adventerious" fantasies?
I have a list as long as my arm with things that I would like for us to try, but she doesn't seem to interested in my perversions.
Any advice would be great!!
Relentless said:
Now we're having the best sex I've ever had.
Lynnezertorte said:Curious......you write that "we're" having the best sex "I've" ever had. How's it working out for her? Just wondering.
Relentless said:We are both enjoying our newly expressed kinks. We're behaving like a couple of teenagers again (who was that said "second adolescence?") and we're freaking out the kids. It's all great fun.
Lynnezertorte said:and I actually meant my post as a joke but left off the smiley face.....
Relentless said:It was a fair question. I mean "she" could have been a well used blowup doll!
Still shaking head at horrible wording....
Cardinal said:How do you get your straight wife to indulge your "adventerious" fantasies?
I have a list as long as my arm with things that I would like for us to try, but she doesn't seem to interested in my perversions.
Any advice would be great!!
Cardinal said:
In other word I have no respect for the women that let me tie them up, shave their pussys, and then use a dildo on them until they scream, and rcord the whole thing on tape.
Cardinal said:Women should be more conservative while dating and then become the whores that we want when we are married.
Lynnezertorte said:I'm speechless.
Cardinal said:NO, my point is tht the previous women were too eager to "give it away" slutty, they had no self respect and the way that they thought they could get love from a man was to be the whore that they thought I wanted, which I did at the time but I wasn't looking for love, ironic. They thought that they would get love by being a whore but it was just the opposite.
Women should be more conservative while dating and then become the whores that we want when we are married.
CutieMouse said:Cardinal your comments came across as a guy who bought into the virgin/whore myth and I personally think that's a recipe for dissapointment (and it feels icky to boot). Give your wife a safe place to discover her own sexuality and you'll find balance and happiness sexually speaking for both of you.
Cardinal said:Yeah, I have had the same experience with women and my wife, maybe that's what attracted us to them. However, since I love her so much I want to open up to her even more and let her know everything that I like or want to do.
In other word I have no respect for the women that let me tie them up, shave their pussys, and then use a dildo on them until they scream, and rcord the whole thing on tape.
But because I love my wife I would actually enjoy the above experience rather than make it a notch in my gun, if you know what I mean. I want to open myself up totally to her because I know that she is my life partner and I know that I can trust her, unlike girls that I dated. When we are old and gray I don't want to have any regrets in life either sexual life, business life, or personal life. I want to know that we trust and love each other to tell or show each other anything, but that is not where our relationship is right now. It's not because of time, we have been together for 15 years+. She is just vanilla, but I love her!
SexyChele said:Um, this may sound a little harsh, but I've come to consider this scenario as the "married man's karma."
Before I sound too judgemental here, let me ask you something: did these "whores" expect love from you and did you let them think there was a possibility of obtaining it while you used them? (Please, be honest here)
A lot of men do this, and I've never quite figured out why. When single, and not interested in marriage, they tell women they want the slutty clothes, attitude, and behavior. Then, when they decide they would like to settle down, they find that cute little conservative woman who wouldn't spread her legs until she had a ring on her finger. Then these men wonder why this cute little thing they married won't suddenly turn into one of the "whores" they had so much fun with in their single days.
Dude, I like you. Don't know why, but I do. You picked this woman because she was conservative. That's who and what she is. Love her and enjoy her, and most of all....accept her for what and who she is.
fgarvb1 said:It seems that I need to state my position a little clearer.
What I'm bitching about is that MY wife got all conservative and stingy AFTER we where were married!
Thats right I've been ripped off and abused! Now I know people change, and I have experienced wives changing after marriage but, WTF? I am somewhat kinky and enjoy exploring sexual fantasies of my mate as well as myself.
It is pretty damn clear that ain't happening.
Thats what I'm bitching about.