I'm relatively new to the boards and to cybererotica, so I thought it might be nice to get some pointers from you more experienced folks. What works best in developing online cybererotic relationships, be they friendships, more significant relationships, or what have you??
From my perspective, I really appreciate it when I am initially contacted politely. I'm sure this isn't the case for everyone, but I tend to like to have a little more "getting to know you time" if you will, even if it's brief, before baring my most intimate parts to people. I can tell you that those who have taken the time to do that have been very nicely repaid for their kindness.
I also find I can enjoy myself more if the person I'm "with" has a similar attitude toward the relationship. I'm married, happily so, and not out to change my life or anyone else's, so it's reassuring to me if the person I'm "with" is okay with that and is similarly uninterested in life altering relationships. That isn't to say that I wouldn't take the leap to playing face to face, but that I'm reassured if everyone involved views it simply as adult fun.
Any thoughts?
From my perspective, I really appreciate it when I am initially contacted politely. I'm sure this isn't the case for everyone, but I tend to like to have a little more "getting to know you time" if you will, even if it's brief, before baring my most intimate parts to people. I can tell you that those who have taken the time to do that have been very nicely repaid for their kindness.
I also find I can enjoy myself more if the person I'm "with" has a similar attitude toward the relationship. I'm married, happily so, and not out to change my life or anyone else's, so it's reassuring to me if the person I'm "with" is okay with that and is similarly uninterested in life altering relationships. That isn't to say that I wouldn't take the leap to playing face to face, but that I'm reassured if everyone involved views it simply as adult fun.
Any thoughts?