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londonaberdeen

londonaberdeen

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Been in a long term relationship of 15 yrs. Living together for over 5, yet have not managed to bring up the subject of shaving yet.

Id love her to either shave herself or allow me to do this. I'd even shave myself if that was part of the deal.

How do you raise the subject, particularly women, how should us men raise the subject without you thinking we don't like your bush.

I love it as she is now. I just want to see her and feel her at least once in our lives without hairs.
 
londonaberdeen said:
Been in a long term relationship of 15 yrs. Living together for over 5, yet have not managed to bring up the subject of shaving yet.

Id love her to either shave herself or allow me to do this. I'd even shave myself if that was part of the deal.

How do you raise the subject, particularly women, how should us men raise the subject without you thinking we don't like your bush.

I love it as she is now. I just want to see her and feel her at least once in our lives without hairs.
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I think I would say, "Honey I love you as you are, but...




Would you mind just trimming your mustache and beard?”

Or you could simply say, “I have fantasized for a long time about being able to help you shave your pussy, would you let me help some time, I have seen it in some porn I saw on the internet and it really turned me on. I get so hard with just the idea; I think I would come like a stallion if we were able to fulfill this fantasy!”

The other way would be to bring up the use of MAGIC, a powder or a cream I forget which, that is recommended in several threads, available in Walmart and Kmart, it does a very neat job of hair removal without having to risk razor burn.

When the search function is working again, have a look for Magic, there must be 5 or 6 threads about it over the last 4 years.

P.s. Sorry about the joke at the start of this post, if it offends please don't let the other information go.

P.p.s. I just noticed your name, so have a look in Boots or try to find it online.
 
Thanks

Cheers Ezzy.

I have seen this Magic mentioned while reading other threads.

Your joke was fine, not offended in the least and thanks for the info. I'll maybe give it a go next time around.
 
Just have a frank talk about it. That is what I did with my SO and she surprised me with it one night.

My exact words were, "I love you, I love eating you, and I'm curious, but only if you are willing to try, maintain, and enjoy it..." Then explained that I don't really like the hairs getting stuck on the back of my tongue or the feel of it in my mouth. I made it perfectly clear that I was not willing to ask her to do anything she didn't want to do or that I wasn't willing to reciprocate. I would continue to have "pie" regardless or her decision.


Pie is our code word for me eating her out. We are able to use it anywhere or any time and those around us just think I have a hankering for dessert. Which, I guess, I do! :D :D :p :p :p :p
 
I think a lot of women would give a positive response if you say something like, "It seems like a lot of men and women are shaving these days, and I have to admit the thought is kind of intriguing to me. Have you ever thought about it? Could we give it a try together sometime?"

You could also try telling her you've been considering shaving yourself because you've heard it's enjoyable for both of you and ask if she'd be willing to help you (there's a good chance she'll follow suit).
 
SweetErika said:
I think a lot of women would give a positive response if you say something like, "It seems like a lot of men and women are shaving these days, and I have to admit the thought is kind of intriguing to me. Have you ever thought about it? Could we give it a try together sometime?"

You could also try telling her you've been considering shaving yourself because you've heard it's enjoyable for both of you and ask if she'd be willing to help you (there's a good chance she'll follow suit).
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Damn! That convinced me! Great way to approach it there Erika!

Oh waitaminute, I already DO shave. :rolleyes:
 
curiousity is a great tool.

Get her to start small though, try to maybe trim, then around the lips and shape the bush this way it wont be so drastic to get it to where you both are comfortable :)

I don't reconmend you shaving her though lol... its a delicate area!!
 
Lust Engine said:
Damn! That convinced me! Great way to approach it there Erika!
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Gotta go with that.
Another way to try, is, in a lighthearted moment make a bet about something silly. :ie "You can shave my nuts if I`m wrong" If you lose you get your nuts shaved, thus bringing up the subject and having some fun, if you win suggest it`s her turn to be shaved, just keep it lighthearted and fun and watch for her responses.
If she takes it well but doesn`t let you shave her, next time make the bet that you get to shave her,:) cheat if you have to:) .
There is a lot of good advice in this thread hope some of it helps.

Funny thing, my wife will do a lot more things if she loses a bet than if I ask her straight out to do something.

Removal of responsability phsycobabble blah blah
 
bear in mind that many women have a big problem with the 'childlike' look of shaved genitals.

approach carefully.
 
Regarding getting hold of magic in the UK, I've not seen it in any retail outlet, but there are a few mail order outlets that stock it:

www.afrocare.co.uk stock both the cream and the powder
 
Thanks all

I'd just like to say thanks to all, some very good and practical word there. I will let you all know how we get on.
Special thanks to SweetErika and BlueSugar as I think a combo of their suggestions is the way I’ll go.

Thanks also to VSE for the UK web site. Well done. May come in handy if we get round to it!
 
Re: Thanks all

londonaberdeen said:

Special thanks to SweetErika and BlueSugar as I think a combo of their suggestions is the way I’ll go.

Thanks also to VSE for the UK web site. Well done. May come in handy if we get round to it!
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you're most welcome, enjoy :)
 
Do you and your SO watch porn together? You could always rent a porn flick that you know has shaved women in it, possibly even a shaving scene, and then ask her what she thinks about it. I know when my hubby and I watch porn movies together we always comment on what we see - it's a great way to bring up subjects with each other that might otherwise be awkward. Good luck sweetie!
 
Lynxie said:
Do you and your SO watch porn together? You could always rent a porn flick that you know has shaved women in it, possibly even a shaving scene, and then ask her what she thinks about it. I know when my hubby and I watch porn movies together we always comment on what we see - it's a great way to bring up subjects with each other that might otherwise be awkward. Good luck sweetie!
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May I ask what awkward subjects you have brought up while watching a porno?
 
Re: Thanks all

londonaberdeen said:
I'd just like to say thanks to all, some very good and practical word there. I will let you all know how we get on.
Special thanks to SweetErika and BlueSugar as I think a combo of their suggestions is the way I’ll go.

Thanks also to VSE for the UK web site. Well done. May come in handy if we get round to it!
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Now you'll have to let us know if any of the approaches worked!
 
Haved you tried modeling the behavior you want...you know, surprise her one night by being shaved yourself.
 
The way I got my gf to do it, was by doing it to myself. then, she got curious about it, so she went and did it too. Then, once we had sex it felt so good for both of us, that neither of us ever let our hair grow out again! Good luck!
 
Shaving and creams are great for home, but waxing is best for long term results. You should encourage her to visit her local day spa or her local waxing place. They do the absolutely best job and it lasts for several weeks. She can get whatever look she likes, even holiday styles (pumpkin, christmas tree etc.) My husband plucks his, but I like the short time and short pain involved in waxing. Tell her it's just another beauty treatment and you will happily pay for it ! Cost, about $60 in L.A. for a full Brazilian (everything gone) and you will love the smooth feel.:heart:
 
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Are you sure you want her to? I find a hairy pussy soooo much more fragrant.
 
Sure I'm sure

I am positive I want to try this.

I may not like everything I do, I may prefer her with hair. It's a fair point you make, maybe fully bushed does give more odour and more flavour to taste, I do know.

But I won't find out without trying will I.
 
Two suggestions...

1. "Hey can you get rid of that &$*#&^ bush that keeps getting caught in my teeth?"

or

2. "Sweetheart, how about a romantic candlelit bath for two?" Then let it happen
 
maybe saying ....

Baby your so sexy, your skin is so silky smooth ... but .... the little jungle trek is a tad rough ...

lol ... pun intended
 
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