catalina_francisco
Happily insatiable always
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Following the example of Mr Blonde it is time to start the 2005 calendar. Every day we will put in a quote of a PYL, or a switch for that matter or even a domly quote from a pyl.
I hope we can do this all together, all of the PYL who post regular in the BDSM forums of literotica.
I would also like to thank MR Blonde for his original idea and for all of his hard work in the 2004 thread.
Francisco.
January 1
I often think with much embarassment about the time she dressed as a catholic schoolgirl and uttered some of the sultriest, sluttiest most self degrading lines a man could ever hope to hear a gorgeous bitch dressed as a catholic schoolgirl say.
It was too much for my boyish sensibilities. I choked, "wow that was awesome honey."
She was clearly dissapointed, but comitted to acting this out. "Stay in character"
My dick shrunk two sizes that day.
If only I knew then what I know now.
Marquis
January 2
I can't imagine submitting to anyone with any ongoing basis, so that's ruling out the switch factor in me, negligible.
I can imagine being in a relationship of secondary/casual status with another Dominant. Since I already have a submissive primary, the point is kind of moot there.
I don't think I could have a Dominant primary, simply because the personalities never seem to mesh. There is always too much tension. A switch? A top switch who only submits to me periodically? I coud do that, because that willingness to bend makes me more willing to do same, it's sexy to me.
but a Dominant periodic lover of import? A once-a-week fuck friend? Sure.
How would it work? Vanilla, entre-nous. Then we'd share our devious intent with those who would submit to us both. Lots of voyeurism and stuff, sadistic use of torture in order to *get us off*.
Netzach
January 3
Occasionally there is this false online bravado where a dominant takes the stance of "dangers be damned, I’m an edge player!" or boasts about "knocking some sense" into a reluctant submissive. While sometimes it is appropriate to engage in risky behavior or short circuit normal dialogue with firm actions, shouldn't a dominant understand the dangers and perceptions beforehand? What self-respecting submissive would agree to a risky act or rough treatment if they didn't think their partner understood the implications?
Mr Blonde
January 4
<rant>
The problem I have with safewords is that quite frequently, pyl's don't want to use them. Either they're too busy trying to please me (or the PYL) so they soldier on, or you have the people who literally for whatever reason cannot say no. It's their prior training or mindset or something. And then you have the cases where they get into an emotional state where they can't, or they get subspaced. If I screw up the last two, it's my fault and I need to have my ass kicked, please. The first one annoys the hell out of me; it's borderline dishonest and I tend not to deal with these people in a bdsm sense. I don't do stoic, kids. Not telling me that there's something going wrong and bitching about later is not my issue. If you acted like it was all groovy and I went too far because you intentionally did not tell me you were having issues, that's lying, and you just became compliant in your injury. The middle one, the ones who can't say no for some reason. They're a dangerous bunch and I tend to avoid them, too. I guess my real issue about safewords is that some people tend to regard them as a magic word and all the sudden everything is right and good with the world and life is all safe and happy and smurphy and shit. They're not. They do make things a little safer for a person, but this is not hearts and flowers and junior prom. This is blood and sex and tears and primal energy, and it is fucking dangerous sometimes. Safewords are good, but viewing them as some sort of magical incantation to make bdsm all pink and fuzzy is stupid. Don't tell me about your magic safeword and how it's going to save the world; just tell me where to send the flowers.
</rant>
blue kat
January 5
Young buck as I am, I have dealt with impotence in the past. Oftentimes my mental desire for sex exceeds what my body can handle, and this seems especially true when I'm depressed.
I even went so far as acquiring Viagra once, when I was about to go on Spring Break and was worried I would end up smoking in my hotel room all day instead of capturing any of the delicious co-eds. Luckily the bright Jamaica sun and fresh food was all I needed to pull me out of my funk, and I never ended up taking the pills.
Although I did take them later and found they didn't really have a strong effect on me. I just felt very flushed.
I've also found that I can lose my erection simply when I lose my arousal. A smile was enough to get me hard at 13, and a pair of naked tits in front of me would definitely do the trick at 15 or 16, but these days poor chemistry can make jerking off seem like a better option
Marquis
I hope we can do this all together, all of the PYL who post regular in the BDSM forums of literotica.
I would also like to thank MR Blonde for his original idea and for all of his hard work in the 2004 thread.
Francisco.
January 1
I often think with much embarassment about the time she dressed as a catholic schoolgirl and uttered some of the sultriest, sluttiest most self degrading lines a man could ever hope to hear a gorgeous bitch dressed as a catholic schoolgirl say.
It was too much for my boyish sensibilities. I choked, "wow that was awesome honey."
She was clearly dissapointed, but comitted to acting this out. "Stay in character"
My dick shrunk two sizes that day.
If only I knew then what I know now.
Marquis
January 2
I can't imagine submitting to anyone with any ongoing basis, so that's ruling out the switch factor in me, negligible.
I can imagine being in a relationship of secondary/casual status with another Dominant. Since I already have a submissive primary, the point is kind of moot there.
I don't think I could have a Dominant primary, simply because the personalities never seem to mesh. There is always too much tension. A switch? A top switch who only submits to me periodically? I coud do that, because that willingness to bend makes me more willing to do same, it's sexy to me.
but a Dominant periodic lover of import? A once-a-week fuck friend? Sure.
How would it work? Vanilla, entre-nous. Then we'd share our devious intent with those who would submit to us both. Lots of voyeurism and stuff, sadistic use of torture in order to *get us off*.
Netzach
January 3
Occasionally there is this false online bravado where a dominant takes the stance of "dangers be damned, I’m an edge player!" or boasts about "knocking some sense" into a reluctant submissive. While sometimes it is appropriate to engage in risky behavior or short circuit normal dialogue with firm actions, shouldn't a dominant understand the dangers and perceptions beforehand? What self-respecting submissive would agree to a risky act or rough treatment if they didn't think their partner understood the implications?
Mr Blonde
January 4
<rant>
The problem I have with safewords is that quite frequently, pyl's don't want to use them. Either they're too busy trying to please me (or the PYL) so they soldier on, or you have the people who literally for whatever reason cannot say no. It's their prior training or mindset or something. And then you have the cases where they get into an emotional state where they can't, or they get subspaced. If I screw up the last two, it's my fault and I need to have my ass kicked, please. The first one annoys the hell out of me; it's borderline dishonest and I tend not to deal with these people in a bdsm sense. I don't do stoic, kids. Not telling me that there's something going wrong and bitching about later is not my issue. If you acted like it was all groovy and I went too far because you intentionally did not tell me you were having issues, that's lying, and you just became compliant in your injury. The middle one, the ones who can't say no for some reason. They're a dangerous bunch and I tend to avoid them, too. I guess my real issue about safewords is that some people tend to regard them as a magic word and all the sudden everything is right and good with the world and life is all safe and happy and smurphy and shit. They're not. They do make things a little safer for a person, but this is not hearts and flowers and junior prom. This is blood and sex and tears and primal energy, and it is fucking dangerous sometimes. Safewords are good, but viewing them as some sort of magical incantation to make bdsm all pink and fuzzy is stupid. Don't tell me about your magic safeword and how it's going to save the world; just tell me where to send the flowers.
</rant>
blue kat
January 5
Young buck as I am, I have dealt with impotence in the past. Oftentimes my mental desire for sex exceeds what my body can handle, and this seems especially true when I'm depressed.
I even went so far as acquiring Viagra once, when I was about to go on Spring Break and was worried I would end up smoking in my hotel room all day instead of capturing any of the delicious co-eds. Luckily the bright Jamaica sun and fresh food was all I needed to pull me out of my funk, and I never ended up taking the pills.
Although I did take them later and found they didn't really have a strong effect on me. I just felt very flushed.
I've also found that I can lose my erection simply when I lose my arousal. A smile was enough to get me hard at 13, and a pair of naked tits in front of me would definitely do the trick at 15 or 16, but these days poor chemistry can make jerking off seem like a better option
Marquis