MMF or MFF?

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Question for wowen - if you were to have a 3some, would you prefer it with two men or a mf couple?
 
For me, it would depend on the dynamics between the parties involved. For instance, if I were to be involved in a MMF, and the 2 guys had a 3 feet "no fly" zone - even by accident - that might be a bit uncomfortable. Not that I would really push for the guys to get involved with each other, but if they feel uncomfortable being in sexual situations with another man, or if the thought of accidently touching another man's "thing" is totally repulsive to them, it can destroy the whole "feeling". In a MMF, I would like it if the 2 men involved felt comfortable with each other.

In a FFM, I think it is almost easier being the woman who is not part of the couple. You can remain, for the most part, emotionally detached, and you don't have to worry about the potential of getting jealous.

However, that said, I would bring another woman in with me and my man if I had the opportunity to talk with her first, try to figure out what she was looking for. I would have to feel comfortable with her, knowing she only wants to play and not keep.

Now, if all the dynamics were in place, which one would I prefer? Hard to say, really, but I think I would say FFM has a slight edge. Not only would I get the satisfaction of enjoying another woman, I would also get the thrill of driving my man absolutely crazy!

But, then, MMF has a lot going for it as well.....
 
That's a very good answer, like everything, it all depends! :)

I think the cliche is that men want a FFM but I would love a MMF, to see a lady getting really turned on my two men would be so sexy, the ultimate.
 
I'll take both! I love the thought of losing control in a MMF threesome just as much as I love the sensuality of a FFM threesome. Now if only we could find a willing woman!
 
I'll base my answer on what I would prefer by what I would like more, not by my past experiences in both(and there are a plenty)
But that's a good questions.. I really think it would depend on who the other 2 people are. It's critical all 3 be comfortable with each other, harder to find in MMF than MFF.

MMF would be exciting, being the one getting all the attention and getting two holes filled at once. The only negative here would be it'd be hard to slow down until we're all finished.
MFF would also be exciting, being with another woman. Plus, I can relax for a bit and let the other two have their way. And I would know we're pleasing the M just watching us. But there's bound to be a time when I only have one person on/in me, since he'll have to fuck her eventually.

Tough call, but my instinctive answer was MMF when I first read the header. I imagine the opportunity to be with a woman is more common than the opportunity to be DPed.

As for which position in an MMF, I like the idea of being sandwich. I'd straddle one guy, and the other would work his way up my butt. I'm a screamer, so I don't want that taken away while I'm being banged.
 
Sexy answer. MMF harder to come by than MFF? Guess that could be true. Would you want the men to pull out and cum over you at the end (after you have cum ideally). Would that be sexy? Face or tits?
 
Sorry, just couldn't help commenting on the "gal gets all the attention in a MMF".

Granted, when I was involved in a MMF, I was much younger, less experienced, and somewhat naive. I had not been introduced to the joys of anal, heck, hadn't even experienced my first orgasm with another person! Guess you could say it was already a set up for disaster!

An MMF is not always set up so that the female is given all opportunity to enjoy herself to the max, though. In the ones I was involved in, I felt more like a receptical. Just a place for the guys to dump their jism. (and one of the guys was a guy I was dating!) Oh, at first it was really exciting, yes. But when it came to the actual "sex" part, the guy who was a friend to my b/f just wanted to get off. My boyfriend tried to make it fun for me, but I was still left with the feeling of being somewhat "used".

Now that I'm older, more experienced, and *hopefully* a little wiser, I wouldn't mind trying a MMF once again. But this time, I want to have more input.

So, ladies, if you haven't been involved in a MMF before, be careful what you say. Sometimes it turns out the lady in question is merely a place to shoot cum into/onto, rather than receive any real pleasure.
 
Where they cum would depend on who the guy is.. if I'm confident the guy is clean, anywhere is good for me(I'm on the pill). If I'm not, he can cum in the condom and make sure it gets to the toilet/garbage safely.
 
SexyChele said:


Now that I'm older, more experienced, and *hopefully* a little wiser, I wouldn't mind trying a MMF once again. But this time, I want to have more input.

So, ladies, if you haven't been involved in a MMF before, be careful what you say. Sometimes it turns out the lady in question is merely a place to shoot cum into/onto, rather than receive any real pleasure.

I think the key Chele, is to make sure all parties involved are not of the selffish type. People need to give in order to be able to receive!!!

Now if we could all abide by that - would it be a wonderful place...:devil:
 
MMF

Many years ago I was involved in a MMF with another couple. As luck would have it the guy turned out to be slightly bi and I was curious. As the relationship progressed we found different ways of having sex, as an example when it was the womans wrong time of month he and I would be the active ones whilst she watched (69's, mutual masturbation, anal sex).
It was a good relationship, we all enjoyed it, I learned a lot about myself and how to relate to others.
 
MMF

Without question.

I don't mind being covered in cum. That is a huge turn on for me.

But, of course, I would want the guys to have their fill of me first, so to speak:D

I have only had one guy who was open to the idea. Most feel it is akin to gay sex. And I understand their position and if they feel like that then I don't want them in that with me.

Totally uninhibited threeway sex. Total fantasy.

I am not adverse to FFM. It's just I like the whole idea of 2 men with me in the middle....I am a greedy bitch;)

Cassidy
 
well....

I have always enjoyed being with another girl alone and hot having a man there. On the other hand, I had one MMF and it surprised me. As it turned out, I helped one of the guys suck the other guy and I found it extremely erotic. I had never even thought of that before, but when it happened, WOW.

Sally
 
being a Guy I found it very erotic to see two women together I consider that Art :)

I do have to admit there is also something very erotic about your wife or GF sucking on another guy
 
I've been with my bf for a few years now and I'm quite keen on trying a threesome but he's not so sure. He has a mate who is very sexy and I've suggested we meet up, get a porn video or something, see what happens. But I don't think he will ever agree. Maybe just be to keep it as a fantasy, I love the idea of them both wanting me, I imagine one taking me from behind while I suck the other, mmm! :)
 
My local video store seems to have NO tapes with men touching each other. I had a gay experience when i was about 19, might be fun to watch another but I guess my store owner is homophobic, perhaps he's just responding to the demand.

Anyone else ever look for something like this, is this pretty common that he stocks only hetero and lesbian tapes?

SP
 
Can I pick both?

My ultimate fantasy is to be in a MFM... I want to know if I can please 2 men at the same time... but definately want alot of the attention on me too!

And being bi, I've been with another woman, but never had the opportunity to be with another man and woman... but am definately looking forward to that!

If I ever get the chance to have a FMF, the position I definately want to try is to have me on the bottom of a 69 with her, and the man fucking her from behind so that I can suck on her clit, watch his cock going in and out of her, and lick him on his way out on occassion. Playing with his balls and ass of course!

:p - hope they both happen soon!

:kiss:
 
hmmm

Interesting topic. So I'll throw in a couple different ideas. First, it isn't a gay/straight thing but I just haven't met a man (I'm a guy)that I'd even consider attractive....and w/o attraction well....

BUT having said that. Either way MMF or FFM I'd have to be the outsider...I just am way too selfish to share.

So either way...anyone care to comment on that angle? Would it matter to you?
 
I'd try either one...but if forced to choose I guess I'd go with FFM.
 
sabbathstorm said:
I'll take both! I love the thought of losing control in a MMF threesome just as much as I love the sensuality of a FFM threesome. Now if only we could find a willing woman!


mmm that goes for me too,
although to be honest i think a mmf combination has the edge for me and as for the other well that i think would have to be a fff threesome ;)
 
MMF or FFM

My wife and I have enjoyed several MMF's over the years and a few FFM's as well. We seem to enjoy them both about equally with perhaps a slight edge to the two male situations as I am probably a bit more "bi" than she is. Also, we've found that it is much easier to find another male "playmate" than another woman. In fact all of our FFM's have been with women that we were friends with before the relationship became sexual as well. That has not been the case with other guys. These we have met mostly through the internet with good results usually, although there have been the inevitable "busts" of course.

We also prefer threesomes simply because we have found that it is much easier to find one other compatible person than a couple where all four people are "in tune" with each other. And since we are usually the ones who "invite" the 3rd person, there is never a problem with jealousy as both of us are vere secure in our relationship and our own sexuality and orientation. She knows that it is very unlikely that I will "fall" for the other person and I'm the same way. For us, it's all just on hell of a lot of fun... :p :p :D

SlyFox & LadyHawk2
 
Unregistered said:
Question for wowen - if you were to have a 3some, would you prefer it with two men or a mf couple?


Definitely with a MF couple. I have been actively swinging for two months and have had so much fun with other couples. I just don't see the act as sensual when there are two males involved. With two women, the entire trio ends up satisfied...or at least, in my case, it has been that way.

Plus, being single, it works for me since I'm not looking for any type of relationship. It's all about pleasure.
 
MMF or MFF

I prefer the MMF. I have participated in a couple of these arrangements and they have been very pleasant. The ladies have been together while I watched and then I had them both finishing with all three of us.
 
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