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You got it spot on SXCRgirl.SXCRgirl said:For me, when you emotionally turn away from your man or woman, then you are cheating. Your partner should be your sole source of emotional fulfillment. Any deviation from that IS cheating.
Just my 0.02.
solid_ said:
You got it spot on SXCRgirl.
schatz said:I think that if you are engaged in an activity that you could not discuss honestly with your SO, then it is cheating. Ultimately though, cheating is in the eyes of the partner.
SXCRgirl said:For me, when you emotionally turn away from your man or woman, then you are cheating. Your partner should be your sole source of emotional fulfillment. Any deviation from that IS cheating.
Just my 0.02.
huskie said:
Then it is my guess that EVERY one cheats..... if you take that view of it. even if you fantasize, then thats cheating.
ilovewriting said:
Now you're just being stupid. I wouldnt class fantasizing as an 'activity'. I am sure schatz was refering to activites that are not in your mind, such as going somewhere with someone or flirting with someone.
huskie said:
Ya your write........ But I would not consider that as cheating iether. It could lead to cheating, but I would not consider it nore coming to Lit. as cheating. Theres just to big a diffrence from fucking and flirting.
huskie said:
Ya your write........ But I would not consider that as cheating iether. It could lead to cheating, but I would not consider it nore coming to Lit. as cheating. Theres just to big a diffrence from fucking and flirting.
BustyImp said:What defines cheating?
Is the act of sending erotic email and stories cheating?
Does cheating need to cross the physical boundaries or can they just cross the intellectual ones?
\psyche said:I am in a 20 year marriage and my husband has lost interest in sex. I would have never thought this would happen to us, we had a good and happy sex life together. Now I have a choice, I can sit hear at my computer and masterbate like a teenager and attempt to satisfy my sexual needs, and be bitchy because I am resentful, or I can go out and find a lover who will take care of my sexual needs that are not being taken care of at home. Keep in mind that I am not suffering in silence. I have communicated my needs to my partner, and after 20 years he knows that sex is important to me. What would you do in this position? If he was starving me would it be ok for me to eat at another man's table?
ilovewriting said:\
Only if you have your husbands permission to go elsewhere.
psyche said:
Well, I guess I am cheating then.