Sexy guy "wheeling" around Lit

trackguy

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Hi, I’ve been on lit for awhile and I really enjoy it here. Many of the women here have been overwhelmingly kind, some even have wanted to meet me. :D

But in real life I’ve never had a girlfriend :( …… I’m a very nice and fun guy I even believe women find me somewhat cute/handsome. I have always thought that girls have stayed away from me in relationships because of my disability.

I think we all can be superficial and I am no different, being an athlete being very fit is important to me so I’m sure I’ve passed over many great women that were overweight.

I guess I’m creating this thread out of curiosity as to see if many women out there have dated or could see themselves dating a man in a wheelchair? Sexually everything “works” but we may just have to get creative with our positions that’s all. ;)

Is it a sub conscious thing, like women don’t see me in that big strong protecting stereotypical “man” role? Or is it simply a superficial thing like “oh he’s cute too bad he’s in the wheelchair” which again is like the overweight issue “oh wow she’s pretty too bad she’s so big” ???

Would love to hear from you and meet women who honestly find me attractive, not just ppl blowing sunshine up my skirt.

I hope we have fun!!

Here’s a pic of me having a body shot from a hot girl at a bar (drunken make out sessions at the bar seem to be as far as I get with women)


****EDIT Oct 27/06******

I'm leaving the original post that started the thread but i've always hated how it looked that i'm against bigger women...it was more of an analogy and being honest how some ppl can think. Lit has taught me that so many "bigger" women can be very sexy and i'm glad it has taught me that. So please feel free to stop in a beautiful women is a beautiful women
:kiss: :rose:
 

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I work at a full serve gas station and there was a regular customer that i found very attractive, after the first couple visits I had the impression he was disabled in some way physically but he was a really cool guy and knowing he was in a wheelchair (when not in his car) was not a turn off at all.

on the other hand, one of my bosses is in a wheel chair and I sometimes do feel uncomfortable around him, maybe it's because he is so much older than me (people around my parents age seem to intimidate me) or it could be because he's in a wheelchair, I dont' really know.

I'd probably have a lot of questions but I could see myself being attracted to someone in a wheelchair, seeing as i'm married I couldn't really say on a relationship level but whether in a wheelchair or not, a sexy guy is a sexy guy
 
muskokan said:
I work at a full serve gas station and there was a regular customer that i found very attractive, after the first couple visits I had the impression he was disabled in some way physically but he was a really cool guy and knowing he was in a wheelchair (when not in his car) was not a turn off at all.

on the other hand, one of my bosses is in a wheel chair and I sometimes do feel uncomfortable around him, maybe it's because he is so much older than me (people around my parents age seem to intimidate me) or it could be because he's in a wheelchair, I dont' really know.

I'd probably have a lot of questions but I could see myself being attracted to someone in a wheelchair, seeing as i'm married I couldn't really say on a relationship level but whether in a wheelchair or not, a sexy guy is a sexy guy

well thank you for your honesty and coming to my thread!!

and an ontario lady to boot :)

:rose:
 
muskokan said:
I work at a full serve gas station and there was a regular customer that i found very attractive, after the first couple visits I had the impression he was disabled in some way physically but he was a really cool guy and knowing he was in a wheelchair (when not in his car) was not a turn off at all.

on the other hand, one of my bosses is in a wheel chair and I sometimes do feel uncomfortable around him, maybe it's because he is so much older than me (people around my parents age seem to intimidate me) or it could be because he's in a wheelchair, I dont' really know.

I'd probably have a lot of questions but I could see myself being attracted to someone in a wheelchair, seeing as i'm married I couldn't really say on a relationship level but whether in a wheelchair or not, a sexy guy is a sexy guy

I am in total agreement with you... matters not, to me, if a man is in a wheelchair or not... why should it? *shrugs*
Like you, I'm sure I'd have questions, but I can't see it ever affecting whether I thought he was attractive or not,
nor whether I would date him or not. ;)
 
k i'm curious to hear what these questions you ladies might have are??

you can fire away if you want
 
Well one of my obvious first questions would be the how/when/why of being in the wheelchair. I knew someone who's been disabled his whole life, but never really heard of how or why anyone else is in a wheelchair.
 
muskokan said:
Well one of my obvious first questions would be the how/when/why of being in the wheelchair. I knew someone who's been disabled his whole life, but never really heard of how or why anyone else is in a wheelchair.


i'm the same way, just how i was born
 
trackguy said:
i'm the same way, just how i was born
next question would be... what is your disability? what is affected? legs?
back? sexual organs? hey... all valid questions
 
trackguy said:
i'm the same way, just how i was born


Other than that it would probably just be questions I would ask any other guy I talked to, but then again, i'm not much good at talking to guys so that probably wouldn't even get me to asking my first question.
 
babydoll2u said:
next question would be... what is your disability? what is affected? legs?
back? sexual organs? hey... all valid questions


it was a birth defect call TARR syndrome, i really don't know much about it, never focused on it......i just am the way i am

my arms and legs are effected, nothing else

see in the pic how my left arm is....just down to my elbow and then there is my hand.....no forearm, the right side which you can't see is just a hand coming out of my shoulder.....no arm at all
 
muskokan said:
Other than that it would probably just be questions I would ask any other guy I talked to, but then again, i'm not much good at talking to guys so that probably wouldn't even get me to asking my first question.


i often wonder if that is it too i'm much more confident and outgoing here at lit and women seem to like me....(or do they just like my cock pics?) :rolleyes:

but i can be shy in RL maybe i just carry myself better here then when meeting a girl in person???
 
trackguy said:
i often wonder if that is it too i'm much more confident and outgoing here at lit and women seem to like me....(or do they just like my cock pics?) :rolleyes:

but i can be shy in RL maybe i just carry myself better here then when meeting a girl in person???

I really think that meeting people online is much easier than in real life, especially if you're trying to find someone for a specific reason. I'm not really any different on the internet than I am around people I am comfortable with in real life (there are very few of those people though) It would really just be taking the comfort of the internet out into a real life situation that I can't do.
 
muskokan said:
I really think that meeting people online is much easier than in real life, especially if you're trying to find someone for a specific reason. I'm not really any different on the internet than I am around people I am comfortable with in real life (there are very few of those people though) It would really just be taking the comfort of the internet out into a real life situation that I can't do.


i tend to meet lots of women and even get a ton of phone numbers but they just tend to ignore me once i call them or then turn me down or stand me up
 
Trackguy! You sexy mongrel! Glad to see you hosting your own thread hun. 'Bout time!

Sexy pic of you and the sexy chick! Wish I had been there to help out LOL! :devil:

I am not going to get all philosophical about your disability, as I know you don't yourself. I think you handle it the best way possible. You deal with it, without letting it define who you are. And you already know how much I respect you for that. And, how in my belief, that your mindset is DAMN FUCKING SEXY!

*snuggles and azure blue kisses*

~Az

(btw...just LOVE your hair....grrrrrr!)
 
Azurre said:
Trackguy! You sexy mongrel! Glad to see you hosting your own thread hun. 'Bout time!

Sexy pic of you and the sexy chick! Wish I had been there to help out LOL! :devil:

I am not going to get all philosophical about your disability, as I know you don't yourself. I think you handle it the best way possible. You deal with it, without letting it define who you are. And you already know how much I respect you for that. And, how in my belief, that your mindset is DAMN FUCKING SEXY!

*snuggles and azure blue kisses*

~Az

(btw...just LOVE your hair....grrrrrr!)


thank you hun, you know your my fav!!

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

you can run your fingers through my hair anytime!!

guess i was just bumming the other day as once again i met a beautiful girl (a red head too!! :D ) and she seemed so nice and flirty with me and i got her number only to call her and have her give me the "lets just be friends" speech

i was feeling down and DevineDD talked me into starting my own thread
 
Well I can't say much for guys...but I wouldn't mind being with a woman in a wheelchair...personality helps a lot!
 
JagFarlane said:
Well I can't say much for guys...but I wouldn't mind being with a woman in a wheelchair...personality helps a lot!


i've often thought that too, guys seem to be more up for that kinda thing....are we just pervs who will fuck anything that moves? or less superficial about such things?
 
trackguy said:
i've often thought that too, guys seem to be more up for that kinda thing....are we just pervs who will fuck anything that moves? or less superficial about such things?

Welllll...heh if you go to the very root of things...women are intuned to mate with someone who will provide strong, healthy children and have lasting relationships with someone who will care for them and thier children. Men are intuned to mate...spread thier genes...period...
 
JagFarlane said:
Welllll...heh if you go to the very root of things...women are intuned to mate with someone who will provide strong, healthy children and have lasting relationships with someone who will care for them and thier children. Men are intuned to mate...spread thier genes...period...


"women are intuned to mate with someone who will provide strong, healthy children and have lasting relationships with someone who will care for them and thier children."

i often wondered if that's why women pass me over
 
trackguy said:
"women are intuned to mate with someone who will provide strong, healthy children and have lasting relationships with someone who will care for them and thier children."

i often wondered if that's why women pass me over

Could be...but then why not as someone who can provide for them? And remember its not all inclusive
 
JagFarlane said:
Could be...but then why not as someone who can provide for them? And remember its not all inclusive


i do tend to generalize and bunch all women together.....which is wrong of course.


there are amazing women like Az who are more then open minded
 
Hey sexy!

Az says "I love your hair", and then Ms_MS says "I love your hair too!" Then Az replies , "Let's fold scarves." Okay, yes, that was a weird statement -- but in case you didn't recognize it, it's a reference to Romy and Michelle's High School Reunion. (sorry, that's the kind of mood I'm in)

I'm glad you've started a thread -- yippee another subscription to set up! *Ms_MS jots it down on her to-do list*

Let's face it, there are tons of people in the world that are superficial. Yes, some of them are on Lit too. But what Lit offers all of us (which some overcome, others don't) is anonymity. A chance for people to see us for who we are on the inside. We get to know everyone else, with or without looking at pics... Learning about what makes the person tick -- even if it is just one portion of who they are (their humor most of the time). You eventually learn more and more about them. Sure, in there somewhere comes the physical side of things. Seeing what a person looks like. And hopefully with the conversations that you've had, you still look at their inside before judging them on their physical being. But, you don't want to "block out" any portion of a person -- you want people to know you for the full thing! (cock shots and all :cool: ). And you know what?! Only the honest and true people will be the ones you want to keep as friends. Screw the superficial people!

As for why you don't get too far with the ladies -- I don't know. You've mentioned to me before the age group of those that are in your hometown -- maybe that's why. I can only answer for myself. If I were in the position where I was dating, I would date you. As Musk. said, "a sexy guy is a sexy guy"... I'm in total agreement! And that you are!

Oh, and please don't stereotype us ladies... :eek: There are a few of us that don't fit the mold (and don't want to be included in that group!)!!!

Have a great night TrackGuy! :kiss: :kiss: to you!
 
MS_M_Squirrel said:
Az says "I love your hair", and then Ms_MS says "I love your hair too!" Then Az replies , "Let's fold scarves." Okay, yes, that was a weird statement -- but in case you didn't recognize it, it's a reference to Romy and Michelle's High School Reunion. (sorry, that's the kind of mood I'm in)

I'm glad you've started a thread -- yippee another subscription to set up! *Ms_MS jots it down on her to-do list*

Let's face it, there are tons of people in the world that are superficial. Yes, some of them are on Lit too. But what Lit offers all of us (which some overcome, others don't) is anonymity. A chance for people to see us for who we are on the inside. We get to know everyone else, with or without looking at pics... Learning about what makes the person tick -- even if it is just one portion of who they are (their humor most of the time). You eventually learn more and more about them. Sure, in there somewhere comes the physical side of things. Seeing what a person looks like. And hopefully with the conversations that you've had, you still look at their inside before judging them on their physical being. But, you don't want to "block out" any portion of a person -- you want people to know you for the full thing! (cock shots and all :cool: ). And you know what?! Only the honest and true people will be the ones you want to keep as friends. Screw the superficial people!

As for why you don't get too far with the ladies -- I don't know. You've mentioned to me before the age group of those that are in your hometown -- maybe that's why. I can only answer for myself. If I were in the position where I was dating, I would date you. As Musk. said, "a sexy guy is a sexy guy"... I'm in total agreement! And that you are!

Oh, and please don't stereotype us ladies... :eek: There are a few of us that don't fit the mold (and don't want to be included in that group!)!!!

Have a great night TrackGuy! :kiss: :kiss: to you!


well thank you very much for stopping by hun......i know you don't take your posts lightly and i can see the thought you put into this one.

i'm flattered by you
 
Hiya TG :kiss:

LTNS.....good to see you have your own thread now...

I've never been with anyone in wheelchair before but one of my girl-friends dated a high roller in wheelchair from casino we worked together at and i could not get her to shut up about how good he was in the sack and his oral abilities...

i had lots of questions for her about "how"... she said as like stated above she just had to be very creative and that it was one of the best lays she's ever had...lol i swear i never looked at him the same again... kept imagining "Super Dick" on wheels lol....
 
Tasty_Teaze said:
Hiya TG :kiss:

LTNS.....good to see you have your own thread now...

I've never been with anyone in wheelchair before but one of my girl-friends dated a high roller in wheelchair from casino we worked together at and i could not get her to shut up about how good he was in the sack and his oral abilities...

i had lots of questions for her about "how"... she said as like stated above she just had to be very creative and that it was one of the best lays she's ever had...lol i swear i never looked at him the same again... kept imagining "Super Dick" on wheels lol....


hehe.....great story hun.....and thanks for stopping by
 
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