A Letter From Wife To Husband

To a loving husband, a wonderful father, a romantic lover and a caring friend, that at this very moment, I am thinking of, as I am putting our children to sleep. I am constantly amazed by the wonders I brought into this world and in which you helped create, being pieces of us, fashioned by you and I. I can still see those days when you were born, with those tiny feet and hands and those same eyes that still sparkle and shine. I thought honey that I would take this time, while I am waiting for you, to write you and tell you what you truly mean to me. I write these words to with love to tell you what I feel deep inside. I write these words too, for our children, for I know, if they could talk now, I know they feel the same as I, for you have touched us like no one ever will. Our love for you grows stronger for you, with each passing day. In our quiet times together, I want to say these words to you, but I know that you know how I feel, without saying a word. I want to say these words to you in this letter for you to read, just so you will never forget how I feel, an that it will never change, until death do us part. I want to take care of you, just as you have for me and the children. I love you, just as the children love you too. I want to be holding you. I want to feel your arms wrapped around me. I want to snuggle and cuddle with you. With you, you make everything perfect. The little things that you do mean so much to me. I love that you want to spend all the time in the world with me and the children. You run errands for me. You help me with the housework. You surprise me every now and then, by bringing me breakfast in bed. We are connected to each other. You are the best of me. You are the love of my life. I want you to whisper in my ear words of love. I have to say though that I was so scared to believe that I truly found the one that I would want to be with. In the beginning, distance played a cruel hand by separating us, yet through it all we worked it out. Even in times when you worked long and sometimes weird hours, you still found the time to make us feel together and make the children know you were always with them. I do not want to hold back the feelings that I have for you. All my thoughts at this moment turn to you. I remember too now, as the children are a bit older, that the other night, I found you reading them a bedtime story. To either side our children sat hanging on your every word. I pushed open the door, to stand within the doorway, as you paused and then smiled at me, just taking that moment to know I was there. When you looked my way and did what you did, you will never know how much my heart melted in just that moment. I came in and sat down with you all and listened until the end of the story. You help teach them between right and wrong. I know you are such a good father. I just hope that I can be a good mother, ( but in a way you are all ready like a mr mom ). You always want to be involved with what we are all doing, whether its with the children, with me, or all of us together. You spend so much time with the children, an also giving me time to myself, to do things that I want to do, but for me, I have to say that I hate to be away from either you, or the children for very long. You always there to baby sit, incase I want to go out with the girls for a night out. You have no problem taking the children with us, if we go some place and in fact, you always want to bring them with us. You are so proud of us all. You want to tell the world of your perfect family. Each day, as I said before, you amaze me more. You love me more. You love your children more. You fill my spirit. You fill my heart. You fill my soul. And you will my love, like I have never felt before. You have a family picture of us on your desk at work. You keep pictures of us in your wallet. You call at least twice, sometimes more, just tell me I am being thought of and missed, along with the children. You tell me you cannot wait to get home to us. You even take off days from time to time, just to get out of town and spend time with us. You never want to miss a moment. I feel that I am the luckiest woman in the world, to have someone like you in my life. Sometimes though, I must admit, that I do cry when you are not around, just thinking of how my life turned out to be better than I could have imagined it would be. Just thinking of the times back when I was pregnant and you always wanted to know if you could help. Even in the time of cravings, waking you up at sometimes all hours of the night, you did what you had to, never complaining, just doing it, because you loved me so much. The false alarms to the hospital. Even the times when I would get a bit upset, but I knew you did it with love, when I was pregnant and doing something I should not have, you told me, and then did it for me, so I would not have too. Even times when I felt that was not beautiful anymore, you went out of your way, to tell me, to show me, just how beautiful I am. You did everything possible to make my nine months the most comfortable that you could. Then, when our children were born, you were right there. You held my hand and gave it a squeeze and told me everything would be all right. And well, it always was. I have so much faith in you. I have so much trust in you. I have so much love for you that it will never end. To our daughter, you play everything with her, - from tea parties, to dolls, to stuffed animals, making everything that she wants to do worth every moment. To our son, - you play catch, you wrestle in the house, to ride a bike, an to even shoot baskets. When you come home from work, you are there to give me a hug and kiss. You come home from work, to see what in going on with the kids. I know just how much you love them. I know you would give your life for them. I know you would give them the world, if you could. You have been there for everything in their lives, an in my time of knowing and loving you. You where there for their first steps. You helped changed their diapers. You helped with feedings. You heard their first words. There was nothing that was going to stop you from being apart of their lives in everyway. You helped me to realize that a dream can come true. You are so patient and kind with them. I often wonder at times what my life would be like without you, but then I know it would be empty. I never want to have that feeling. I knew I had to find that special someone. That one that would give to me what I wanted. What I needed. What I deserved. That is all in you and more. I know that we were both scared when we said our ‘I do’, but knew besides that, we wanted to share something more, which is our children. You are a great provider for us. I will do everything in my power to give you all that you deserve. All your smiles give me joy. You all shine so bright in me. You are all my existence. Every thought is filled with each of you. Now we are together. You. Me. A family.