Expectations

I expect you to be challenging... not to challenge everything I say;
I expect you to question... not be defiant;
I expect you to submit your body, your heart and your will... not your spirit;
I expect you to please me because you respect me... not appease me because you fear me;
I expect you to have desires, expectations, needs and limits... not demands, requirements and ultimatums;
I expect you to obey, comply and submit... not acquiesce, collapse and surrender;

Your submission is a prize to be earned and a gift to be given out of respect, desire, trust and affection;
Not a treasure to be stolen through fear, abuse and intimidation.

You will come to me seeking guidance, counsel and wisdom because you want to be the best you can be;

I will provide you with the seeds of wisdom, the nourishment of my counsel and a fertile field of affection because I want you to be the best you can be.

The Relationship is an exchange.

You have a desire to please and to serve and I give you the opportunity to do so.
You give me your TRUST... I give you mine;
You give me your LOYALTY... I give you mine;
You give me your AFFECTION... I give you mine;
You give me the POWER over your body and will... I give you the POWER over the relationship.