Inevitable

Sometimes I think
We'd be better off
If we could choose
Who we fell in love with
It would be easier on our hearts
If we could stop ourselves
Before we fell for those
Who were wrong for us:
The indecisive one
Who can't make up their minds
About what they really want
The "party-hearty" type
Who never takes anything seriously
The married one
Whose love we can never have
Sometimes I wonder
Why we even bother falling in love
It's scary and confusing
And it messes with our heads
Does he love me?
Do I love him?
Then I realise something:
We have no say in the matter
It's just something that happens
Whether we want it to or not