Foot Sex 101

Use his senses to work for you

I will break down the five senses that can be used to stimulate and magnify a foot lover's sexual arousal. I also hope to share ideas or examples of actual situations and positions that you may have or can use when incorporating feet into your sex life. As I've discussed, a foot lover's and a guy's, in general, number one sense is sight. They are more stimulated visually than any other sense. Now touch is a close second but whenever you involve your feet into your sex life, make sure he can see what is happening.

Most of the topics I have discussed in this post have already incorporated visual application. The visual piece of foot sex also overlaps into other foot sex senses. If you are paying attention to the details and you effectively tease him, you obviously are allowing him to see your feet, or socks, or hose, or shoes. For example, your man is a bare feet guy who loves bling and flip flops so as you go out for your picnic, you surprise him by wearing your sexy flip flops and have your toes decked out with his favorite type of toe rings. You have just visually intensified his foot fetish arousal for the day. When you get home, you wear that to bed and during your lovemaking, spice it up by letting him enjoy those feet in the same way he has seen all day. I had a boyfriend who loved flowers on my heeled sandal/flip flops and when I would wear those with neon nail polish, we would have powerful sex that evening because I would wear them to bed and he would cum very quickly but he could do it a second time immediately afterward with no problem.

Another visual stimulation is shoe dangling. I could have put this into my teasing category because basically that is what you are doing. When I had my affair with my teacher Mr. Clark, it was the first tactic I used to grab his attention. I can't pretend to assume I completely understand why this is so erotic to foot fetish guys but I believe it's because the allure of partially exposing your foot as you would in trying to "tempt" or "bait" him sexually. As you sit in church, or the office, or in my case, class or the library, let those sexy shoes dangle off the end of your toes and "Oops, one fell on the floor." Believe me, any foot guys around will notice.

I'm going to share some other visual tactics you can use in your foot sex life which may be some things you have already tried or they might give you a great idea. I already discussed toe pointing as being a great visual for your man but don't forget other foot maneuvers that also work like lifting your toes to enhance your arch into an S shape, toe wiggling, and spreading your toes out especially if you are wearing hose. You may not be a tattoo girl like me but one day come home with a real sexy temporary tattoo strategically placed on your lover's favorite part of your foot. Flaunt it and make him notice it over and over while screwing. You are at the mall and make your man go watch you get a pedicure or make him get one with you. He will act like he is all macho and resistant but if he is a foot guy, he will succumb.

If he is an artist, have him draw or paint your feet. If you are videotaping your lovemaking, position yourself where he can get a great visual of your feet. For example, if you are riding him in the reverse cowgirl position, put your feet up on his thighs so the camera can capture your piggies pressed against his flesh or if he is pounding you in the missionary position, press your feet against his chest. If your lover is over top of you while you are rimming him or sucking his balls, put your feet together and point your toes so he has that visual in addition to the oral stimulation you are providing. While you are masturbating for him, put your legs up so he can get a great visual of your feet suspended in the air. While you are giving him a blowie, lay between his legs on your stomach and have your feet up over your head so he can see them while you're sucking. These are just a few visual enhancements you can provide and hopefully they might help you create some of your own which are specific to your man.

The next sense I will discuss is "touch" which I have already stated is a close second to vision for foot fetish guys. Your guy loves seeing your feet but he also loves touching them. My first discussion focus that involves touching is rubbing or massaging. If you are like me and love having your feet massaged, then find a foot lover and he will take care of that desire often. I love having my arches and in the middle of my pads massaged with the thumbs especially in a circular motion. Direct your man into the type of massage you like. The next type I like is a two handed massages where your foot is the "meat" in his hand sandwich because he has one palm under your foot and the other palm on top of the foot so both hands are working both sides of your foot simultaneously. Have him also work the toes including in-between them. You may not realize it but while he is screwing you doggie style, he can hold your ankles, lift your feet and rub the bottoms with this thumbs. Direct him in paying attention to each foot equally. You can get creative and have a stop watch or a sand glass timer and give him a directive on how long your foot massage needs to last. When it comes to feet, he is very submissive and will listen to your time "demands."

The second focus in the touching category is kissing. Have your guy kiss your feet frequently. I found that spontaneous request for kissing your feet works best. Choose a time and place where it might be completely unexpected and even slightly inappropriate. I have been at an amusement park and told my ex that we needed to go off to the bushes because I needed my "feet kissed right now." I had on a sexy pair of open toed slides and he was very excited to fulfil my request. You can do this many places such as a library, classroom, church, club, restaurant, amusement park, etc. If he is kissing your feet as part of your foreplay or lovemaking, encourage him to go slow and kiss very sensually. Make sure you direct him to kiss every inch and each foot equally. You can actually be jacking him off or even riding his cock while he kisses your feet. We like our lovers to caress and kiss us so make sure your foot loving man does that to your feet as well.

Probably the most common "feel or touching" sense stimulation for a foot lover is the footjob. I think the two most powerful aspects of the footjob are the visual stimulation it provides and the fact that the very fetish he desires is actually performing the manipulation on his cock to orgasm. Don't confuse footjobs with him fucking your feet or even jacking off with your feet. The footjob is jerking his cock with your feet with the giver doing the work. Foot guys love this and honestly so do I. You can sit to his side, facing him, behind him with your legs wrapped around his waist, or over top of him while he lies down flat, as long as he can see your feet while they perform, he will be happy. There are a few ways to provide that pocket of flesh. I like to use my toes like fingers. Grab hold of his cock and slide your feet up and down, using your toes to wrap around as much of the shaft as possible. Of course if you have a larger space between your big and second toe, there are instances where you can put his cock inside that space and jerk it but he gets much less skin coverage and that might take him longer to cum.

Other footjob techniques include putting your feet together side by side which also covers less skin but gives him a great view of your sexy toes on both feet, simultaneously. If you are flexible, the best method is to press the bottoms of your feet together and use your combined arches for his "pussy pocket." He can also use his hands to help your feet jerk his cock while using this method. The next technique is using what I call the "over and under." I take the top of my foot and press it under the dick while using the bottom of my other foot on top of it. It is a good feel for both of you but more difficult to sustain without your legs tiring quicker. This is why I believe I use the over top body position a large percentage of the time when I give a footjob. I usually get a chair and sit it beside or sometimes even overtop the guy so to give my legs more stamina. I have friends that are always worried about their legs not looking good and I advise them that giving a footjob is a great leg work out! Also when you are more overtop the dick, you can use the "press" technique. That is when you use the bottom of your foot to mash or press his cock against his belly and "stroke" it by rubbing it back and forth. The friction will make him spurt in no time.

Some guys' love the barefoot footjob and I would advise to use lubrication unless he is uncircumcised because then you can use his foreskin as your lube. Lotions, oils, and greasy agents work best with footjobs because water based lubes like KY Jelly and Astroglide just get tacky when they mix with precum and not only do they get sticky, you end up having to reapply multiple times. The exception to this rule is if you are planning to have intercourse, then go with the water based lubrications.

If he likes hose or sock covered footjobs, then you have to be careful not to wear his cock out with too much friction. I like to use smaller, slower strokes if I'm wearing these coverings. I was dating this guy who loved for me to wear black reinforced toe stockings when I gave him footjobs so I would use the "flat foot" technique most often to prevent friction. Try giving your guy a hosed covered footjob while in the tub. The wet nylon is sexy and will increase his arousal even if the footjob you give him is underwater. There are actually guys that prefer you wear shoes when you give them a footjob and I have only done this with one guy and it was difficult but hey, he loved it. I ended up lifting my foot heel in a pair of high heels and pressing down, trapping his cock between my foot and the shoe until he came about 3 feet! I will discuss him cumming on your feet a little later.

Another great position for a footjob is with him sitting, legs spread, facing you. Not only can he see your toes, your body, and your face, if you're flexible, you can bend over and suck his cock while your feet are jerking it. This combination of sucking along with using your feet not only adds to his visual excitement, it also enhances the physical pleasure. You can have him put his legs together and sit on his thighs while you do this also. Because of the extra height, it is easier on the legs but harder to blow him. I have also sat on a lover's abdomen, facing the opposite direction while I jerked his cock with my feet but he cannot see what you are doing and this is a hindrance to his stimulation. Another thing you can do is make him jack off while he watches you give a footjob to a dildo or penis shaped food like a cucumber or banana.

Foot fucking is in the footjob family only your lover is doing the work. If you are tired or just not completely in the mood but your lover insists he cannot help himself, then foot fucking is a great solution. Not only does this prevent your leg exhaustion, he can control his pace and skin coverage. If he wants tighter, he can press your feet firmer together around his shaft or he can pumper as fast as he needs to get off. There are several positions in addition to the traditional footjob positions that I have just described. The first one that I have used is with me laying on my side on the edge of the bed. I just put my feet together and let him pump away but just make sure you have a towel for the mess. Another one is with you on the floor, lying on your back with your knees bent and your feet up in the air. Have him stand and fuck your feet while you get an added bonus when he cums on your body (at least I like that). Put your feet bottoms together, point your toes outward, and have him stick his cock in the end, long ways, where your toes are located. This gives him a deeper pocket for tighter feel. Lay on your stomach and have him fuck your feet in reverse. He can be standing overtop you with your legs bent and up in the air or you can have your legs straight with him down on his knees. Either way, he will love it.

Another "touch" category is foot rubbing. Rub your feet on different parts of his body in addition to his cock or crotch. Places like his tight ass, chest, or face are great areas to get him really excited especially while you are making love. I suggest not to rub your feet on him while having sex until you are ready for him to cum because from my experience, he will not last long. He is pumping along and has satisfied you, then stick your feet in his face and make him cum so hard while he is screaming his muffled scream into the soles of your feet. I also like to have him lay down on his back while I sit down beside him. I will put my feet in his face and rub it while I jack him off. He will love this and I know this can overlap into other senses like taste if he sucks your toes or smell if he inhales your scent but I will mention those in this category because your job is to provide the feet in his face and he can switch back and forth.

Additional "touching" ideas that I will share are you can have him wash your feet while you are showering or bathing together. Make him go real slow so he can get them "extra clean." Have your man paint your toenails for you or even give you a pedicure. Have him make a mold of your foot with clay so he can rub it all over. He can also make just a footprint of your pretty soles and he can keep that as a souvenir. There are just so many ways to incorporate touching into your foot sex life and with a little creativity and spice, you can increase both of your sexual bliss.

Taste is the next sense I will focus upon. Obviously he will not technically eat your foot so taste is relegated to the various things placed on your foot. Some guys get into the food scene. They like to lick things off your feet such as whip cream and liquid type foods. I personally like warm foods such as heated chocolate or warmed up honey. I had an ex who loved to pour champagne off my foot and drink it out of my high heel. I cannot pretend to understand this but he loved it and it made him fuck that much better. Place the food on you lover's favorite part of the foot, have him lick it off while he jerks his cock until he explodes. Food can obviously get sticky and messy so I suggest you bathe or shower together right after you finish.

Licking can also just be on your foot in general. He might like the taste of your skin whether it's perfectly clean or sweaty. He may just like to lick the crevices like your arches or between your toes. I personally don't mind the licking but I prefer it not be really wet in the end. I just don't like a ton of saliva unless I am going to finish him off with a footjob. Sometimes he gets so excited, he prefers to suck on your feet or toes. This can be erotic for both of you. I like to make my guy suck my big toe, slow and sensual to show me how he likes to receive his blowjobs. I have also had guys want to suck on my heel or even have me see how far I could put my whole foot in their mouth. I one time got all five toes and almost half my entire foot down an ex's throat! Girls, he wants you to deepthroat him so how about turning the tables.

If you plan on letting him suck or lick your feet while you're either jacking him off or while he's fucking you, I suggest you use them intermittently. My point is that if you use them from the beginning it can first make him cum too quickly like I have previously mentioned, without building him up or get him numb to the excitement. If you do something too much, it has the reverse effect. Stick those feet in his face or mouth midway through sex, pull them away, and then add them again with verbal stimulation. For example, your jerking him off while he is sucking your toes, pull your feet away and encourage him, "Ooo baby, you like those feet don't you? You're not getting them because you have been bad. If your good, then you can suck on em some more." Then you keep jerking him until you feel he is getting closer and you put your feet back in his face and command, "Ok, baby. Suck my toes. Do it. Suck em like I suck your dick. That's it. Keep going...keep going...oh yes, that feels good. Suck em while you shoot your cum. Take your time and shoot it high in the air." That surprise verbal addition will get him over the top in no time. Taste can also mean the accessories that are connected with your feet. I will discuss this more in-depth in my humiliation section.

The next sense is smell. Smell is probably what I understand the least but again I believe it only enhances the submission of a foot fetishist. The various scents a guy might like on a girl's foot can range from pleasant fragrances like soapy cleanliness, perfume, powder, or lotions to more pungent aromas like sweat, a day's wear, and musky skin or hose. I have a guy emailing me right now who craves smelling musky tan hosed feet that have been in leather boots all day while getting jerked off. Coincidently, I have done this exact thing in the past with a couple of guys. I will give the same advice in smelling as I did with kissing and licking. The sit beside, sit in front facing him or even on your belly sucking him while he smells your reversed feet are great positions.

Another suggestion is to spread your toes and stick them right up under his nose, then pinch them together. I also like to force him to smell by sitting on top of him pressing his face down with the bottom of my feet or use one foot on his face while taking the other foot and hooking it around the back of the head and forming a "clamp" to not allow him to move. I will advise that if you forcefully make him smell to roughly, then he cannot actually smell your foot's aroma and that is what helps him get off. Don't forget, you can make him smell your feet accessories also but I will, once again, wait until the humiliation section.

The final sense is sound. There are limited ways you can hear feet. I already mentioned hard sole shoes, heels, or boots clacking down a hard floor. Other sounds that can turn your foot guy on would be the rustling of your toes moving around in his face, the swish sound of your sock or nylon clad feet sliding across the floor, bare feet semi-sticking to your leather couch, the crackling of plastic that is being walked over, or even that slurping sound of a well lubed cock fucking your pressed together feet. When I think of sound, I think of the verbal banter that I provide when we are involved in feet sex. I can discuss it in a tone that is sensual, teasing, begging, baby talk, or humiliation when I am engrossed in pleasing my man. I will give examples of each...

Sensual- "Oh yes baby that feels wonderful. Do it just like that. Oh yes, kiss my arches nice and slow..."

Teasing- "Oooo baby, look at my toes. I just painted them. No, you can't touch them until they are dry but don't they look cute?"

Begging- "Please honey, suck my toes. They need it so bad. Please suck every one of them."

Baby Talk- "You are so silly. Would you take my shoes off of me please?"

Humiliation- "You sick fuck! You really like my sweaty feet, don't you? Smell them then you twisted bastard! Smell them until I tell you to stop!"

Whatever the situation calls for, work it to your advantage.

Domination vs. Humiliation

Without sounding redundant, I believe that the foot fetish stems from a sexual submission eroticism. However, I am not suggesting that guys who have a foot fetish are sexually submissive all the time. I am merely suggesting that loving feet falls under the submission umbrella. Now a guy is still a guy and he has innate animalistic tendencies fueled by his testosterone. This is what I believe causes a guy to feel the desire to either cum on his fetish or see cum on his fetish. I equate this to an animal "marking" his territory. If a guy loves breasts, he wants to cum on them. If he loves asses, he wants to cum on them and if he is a foot lover, this is no different with our feet. This actually works out good for me because I like cum. I know it's a slutty guilty pleasure but I can't help it. Just to feel that warm, thick goo gets me going. Anyway, I need to get back to focusing on the topic.