Xyta Notes 01: 'A Date Turned Sour'

I think what you said about "granting permission" or "letting go" in a noncom fantasy is very interesting and important. I can't recall where I read this but I once read that it's a grievous mistake to assume or believe (as some people unfortunately do for their own convenience) that noncom fantasies for women reflect a secret desire for rape. Real-life rape is significantly different from a noncom fantasy since what excites and motivates the rapist is not the woman herself but the thought of controlling, hurting, overpowering, punishing, and/or subjugating her -- sex is merely a means to an end, not an end in itself. The real reason why noncom fantasies hold appeal for some women is, paradoxically, the victim being "forced" to have sex is at the same time being "freed" in a sense from needing to take full responsibility for her sexuality (especially since women are frequently still being covertly and subtly discouraged from fully appreciating, exploring, and indulging their own sexuality). Noncom fantasies essentially are a way for women to experience pleasure without guilt. If it was forced upon you -- if you didn't agree to it or choose it or have any way out of it -- then you're absolved of any responsibility for it.

Thank you for the kind words anon, but I have to admit I'm doing far less non-con stuff right now.

I'm not ruling it out completely, but right now it doesn't quite tickle me the way it once did. There are, however, still archived posts you can enjoy, though this are mostly on my Reddit.

Please do more of these non-con audios.

Hi Xyta, I sent some feedback on Sour Date, but I just remembered another angle for non con stories that you might be interested in:

Forced pleasure as punishment.

Here the punishment is less the forcing or coercion, but rather the humiliation of submitting to it; the destruction of the subjects oversized ego and puffed up pride as he/she is forced to admit that they have been conquered.

I haven't gotten through all your stories, but I don't think I've heard nearly enough of powerful dominant Xyta and whether she ends up as punisher or punished I think I and many others would love to experience more of her.

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The Wu-tang Pen

For me I couldn't get to the end only because you were so good that you made it sound too realistic. It hit that part inside that makes a fantasy suddenly not seem like such a fantasy any more. It's similar for example for a daddy/little perspective, if that were to go to far it would hit the realm of being uncomfortable. If that makes sense? I absolutely adore all your audios, but that one I couldn't wait it out until the end to see whether a late consent came in or not. It was just too realistic! Thanks for opening up discussion