I have been writing erotic as a creative outlet for about a decade.
I've posted bits and pieces at various sites.
My spouse and I are professionals involved in the helping profession.
We have had an open marriage for over a decade and it works well for us. Sometimes a year goes by while niehter of us has extramarital sex, then sometimes we will have "busy" times. It just depends our how "real life" is going.
Location
South-East USA