Sex loses all its power and magic when it becomes explicit, mechanical, overdone...I know how wrong it is not to mix it with emotion, hunger, desire, lust, whims, caprices, personal ties, deeper relationships that change its color, flavor, rhythms, intensities. You do not know what you are missing by your microscopic examination of sexual activity to the exclusion of aspects which are the fuel that ignites it. Intellectual, imaginative, romantic, emotional. This is what gives sex its surprising textures, its subtle transformations, its aphrodisiac elements. You are shrinking your world of sensations. You are withering it, starving it, draining its blood. - Anais Nin, Delta of Venus Artist's Statement: Sapiosexual. Objectivist. Love jazz & classical music, Ayn Rand, Geoffrey Chaucer, Anais Nin, history, biography, musical theatre, classic/silent cinema, gourmet coffee and exquisite wines. I identify primarily as submissive, but am exploring a dominant side that I've never really done in this world: being a top for someone I love. It's certainly different. I do have a fetish for corsets and a deep love for corseting. I am well-educated (English literature and linguistics), and love all classical music and jazz. I am a Renaissance woman--I cannot stand people who do not care to open their minds to learn about the world around us in all its infinite and exquisite variety. So yes, sapiosexual is also the correct word to describe me. The first thing that ALWAYS attracts me is a person's MIND. The body is slowly coming around to match the mind. I'm 5'8", have chestnut brown hair, hazel eyes (green/brown), very pale skin, and am Rubenesque. Other than being a curvy goddess, my instincts to love and be loved are those of any other woman, with a little kink thrown in. I am a submissive. I do like to be equal with my partner in everything else in our lives together. I like my boundaries to be pushed, and to do the pushing as well--sometimes roughly, sometimes tenderly, but always in a manner designed to heighten both my lover's pleasure and my own. |
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