Hello. I'm a wife and mother living in Toronto. I have two chidren 15(boy) and 17 (girl). I am married to a city employee and work as a secretary in the school system.
Like most marriages in their second decade, mine has become stale and predictable. I want to try more experiences while I still have my looks.
I know that I attract more attention from other men than from my own husband. As a woman of colour, I think I am viewed a change of pace for many white men. There is also the perception that black women are easier than our white sisters. That perception has existed since we were breeding stock in the American south and we're still thought of as fair game for white boys out for a good time right up to the present. It may seem incongruous to some but that doesn't bother me. A little humiliation has always excited me. It has been the substance of my fantasies since puberty.
I'd love to correspond with other readers who are interested in similar things.
Location
Downsview area, Toronto