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swingerjoe's Biography:
Sex: Male
Weight: Average
Height: Average
Location: United States
Orientation: Straight
Interested In: Friends
Status: Attached
Smoke: No
Drink: Yes
Fetishes: None
Pets: None
User Number: 1772715
Member Since: December 19, 2013
Last Modified: July 14, 2017
swingerjoe
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I first discovered this site when I performed a search for a platform to share my erotic stories. I?ve always enjoyed writing, and this site seemed like the ideal place to share my stories with a wide audience. I submitted my first story and was shocked when the response to my fun and erotic fictional fantasy tale was anger and vitriol. Since then, I?ve come to learn quite a lot about the people who visit this site ? especially those who inhabit my favorite category on this site, Loving Wives.

To be sure, there are many good, kind, polite, courteous, friendly, and supportive readers and writers who visit this site. I value all of the positive feedback and encouragement I have received over the years, and the many online friendships I have formed. That said, the negative experiences over the years far outnumber the positive. The half-literate, adolescent attempts at insults far outnumber the favorable comments and constructive criticism. The number of angry, petty, immature, and bitter people who infect this site far outnumber those who I would ever consider associating myself with in real life.

I admit that I found this group of angry old men amusing at first. I have had a lot of fun dealing with them over the years, and received a great deal of entertainment value at their expense. I have always found it fascinating that such horrible people would gravitate to an erotic website for the purpose of spitting their venom at those they consider to be ?sick perverts.? It?s equivalent to religious fanatics visiting a whorehouse to lecture its customers.

As the years have passed, it has become more and more depressing to see these bitter old men cling to their hatred, fear, and insecurity. Most of the people in this group (that I call the ?Angry Old Men Brigade?) have been emotionally-crippled by a woman at some point in their lives, and they use the Loving Wives section of this website as a form of group therapy. They crave stories about horribly-evil wives who cheat on their husbands for no apparent reason and then receive their just comeuppance. Again and again, they symbolically devour these fictional women through the worst types of retribution imaginable, and somehow this gives them comfort.

Any story that follows this template of the evil wife and her just comeuppance is instantly lavished with praise, regardless of the quality of the writing or the plausibility of the plot. Any story that does not follow this template is instantly met with harsh criticism, grade-school insults, and even death threats toward the author. There is no middle ground. And there are so many members of the AOMB that they outnumber all of the other readers combined, despite the fact that stories fitting this template are the exception rather than the rule.

The AOMB is not unlike a high school clique. You are either with them or against them. If you criticize one, you criticize them all. They pat each other on the back and rabidly defend any slight criticism directed toward their hive-mind. They use the site?s scoring system as a weapon. They mass one-bomb the stories they don?t like ? and any other story written by that author.

Perhaps the ?highlight? of my Literotica career came in late April of 2017. In response to one person?s comment about my lack of scoring success on this site, I pointed out that somewhere around fifteen of my stories were scored 4.5 or higher. Within hours, the AOMB managed to one-bomb every one of those stories until they each scored below 4.5. I then commented on what a coincidence it was to see more than fifteen of my stories scored at exactly 4.49 or 4.48?and within hours, every one of those stories scored below 4.4! The fact that someone (or someones) took the time and effort to one-bomb so many stories was truly flattering. It was also deeply disturbing.

Although I enjoy writing and sharing my stories with the readers here who appreciate my efforts, I have come to realize that the majority of this Loving Wives audience is undeserving of my time and effort. Although I have enjoyed bantering back-and-forth with the members of the AOMB through the comments section, I?ve grown bored with it. Although I hate for the AOMB to believe they?ve scored some ?victory? in this ?war?, at some point I?ve come to realize that winning that ?war? simply isn?t important to me. I wish the AOMB luck in their lifelong endeavor to rid this site of ?spineless cucks and homos.? I?m walking away from this battlefield and will surround myself with more pleasant people.

I thank those of you who have taken the time over the years to communicate with me in a polite and civilized way. Even some of my critics offered harsh but helpful advice that allowed me to improve as a writer. I?m proud of the works that I have contributed to this site, and I?m proud to know that I leave this site with more than 600 followers. Best of luck to you all. Have a nice life.

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