It's painfully confusing when society...is trying to say, "There's no such thing as bisexuality," and even gays and lesbians kind of discriminate against us, in that they really don't want to be with us, because we are seemed to be "flaky" and "can't make up our minds who you want to be with"To tell you the truth...I don't think of bisexuality that way at all...but I have finally decided that I don't have to decide one or the other. Love isn't a male/female issue. And to be true to myself, I have to embrace that part of myself. I'm not flaky because I'm bisexual. I'm not wishy washy, like a lot of people think of bisexual people being. I'm bisexual because that's part of who I am. I don't consider it a curse or a blessing...it just is and that's it. Not that I haven't felt pressured, and in turn pressured myself to "make up my mind". "Gay or Lesbian". I think some people are just born with the ability to love both. I tend to be attracted to <i>older men</i> and women around my age...I would like to find a special older guy someday...
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