English Dom from London. I have a great interest in the psychology and fundamentals behind BDSM. I am always interested in other peoples views on this matter, or indeed in their experences. Although I am strict, I am also caring. I believe utterly that there are four words without which a BDSM relationship ceases to be BDSM and becomes abuse. The first three words spring from the fourth. They are: "Safe, Sane and Consensual". The fourth, well... pm me and tell me what you think the fourth word is. For me it is the most important word of all, because without it, the other three elements can not exist properly. Feel free to pm me at any time, and if I don't answer, all it means is I haven't noticed, so pm me again! Protector of ~kittyhasclaws~ because I love her.
Location
UK