I believe that sodomy is not so much about love, or even anal sex -- it is about control, humiliation, violation, and emotional pain -- all the dark things that go into a rough sex session. Basically, you're touching a person's soul, and if they don't trust you, or worse yet, don't like you or know you, then they can really feel degraded. A good enema is a great way to start someone off, and vaseline or crisco can really make them slick, open, and feel totally objectified by the end of the night. I've had it happen to me, so I should know. I've also done it to a few people who deserve it -- it was good to see them put in their place.
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