18 Traits of a Potential Cuckoldress

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Below I've listed traits of a woman who will likely become a Cuckoldress given your gentle, sincere encouragement in that direction.

Please don't take this list too seriously. I haven't done any research. Nor do I claim that any of what's written below is true. It's a hodgepodge of characteristics that might, I say might, signal that a woman is open to cuckolding. Of course exceptions are the rule, timing is important, and ultimately every woman decides who she'll lay down with (or bend over for.)

1) She likes men. She's said this at various times in her life. While she has female friends, she prefers men. Not just because they kill dangerous bugs or have a built in protectiveness or don't take emotional stuff so seriously most of the time. Maybe it's their big hands, that they're easier or not so gossipy and or high maintenance. Whatever. She likes men. A new man helps her find herself and brings her into her own, at least for a while. Male friendship is as good as a dry martinis. A future cuckoldress is almost always up for the flirty playful sexual innuendo that can arise with a guy.

2) Submissive men are fine friends and companions, and husbands but humorous, toppy, intelligent bad boys whose relentlessness is like an arrow to a bullseye will cause her to show up in unsafe places, with her hair curled, and lips coated, just,...just, "for a drink." (oh yes and he fucked me too.)

3) She's embraced the allure, or advantage, of her sex. She intuitively knows that a cool response is more likely to inspire desire than a buoyant needy availability, and that when it comes to sex what she possesses is precious and what he has to offer is pretty much readily available. Of course she is not obvious in this regard.

4) She can separate sex and erotic play from love and attachment. She doesn't need the later to do the former though she may argue relentlessly for it depending on her mood that day.

5) She is not overly burdened by social and cultural sexual norms that trigger fear, shame, guilt and an "are you fucking kidding me" response when you ask if she'd be up for cuckolding. To that question a future cuckoldress is likely to smirk and say, "hmmmm," or "I might like that." (Though she's balanced enough to know that if cuckolding is your singular top priority she's better off elsewhere.)

6) She embraces her sexuality and would likely admit, at least in private circles, that she's a "very, very sexual person."

7) She has a nose for novelty and new experiences and for the most part enjoys meeting new men and getting to know them.

8) She sets boundaries and limits in her relationships. The confidence she has in her ability to say "no," gives her the confidence to say yes. She will say no even when doing so may cause conflict or disappointment.

9) She is independent and rejects attempts to be controlled. This does not mean she is dominant or controlling though she may enjoy being dominant. But note: Many many very dominant women have no interest in cuckolding and view it as a means of topping from the bottom. A dominant woman is not necessarily a cuckoldress. But a cuckoldress, at some level is always a dominant woman.

10) She has probably, in the past, had an affair while she was in a committed relationship, or enjoyed being single and having a string of lovers or done some swinging or threesomes in her past.

11) She may be surprisingly introverted, possess a natural aloofness or detachment, coolness or distance. Extraverts don't have all the fun.

12) She IS comfortable in mental erotic spaces. She doesn't get all anxious and defensive when she hears the word, "cock." She can fantasize and share her fantasies and hear yours without batting an eye. While she may look like a good girl to others she's most definitely not, and may whisper sweet nothings in your ear while twisting your balls just the way you don't like it.

13) While cock size probably matters more to her than it does to most woman it's probably not something she dwells upon.

14) She has a temper. I once read some research that indicated females with who are highly sexual also tend to have tempers, perhaps related to higher testosterone levels which may make them periodically bitchy and impossible. If you're a cuckold: deal with it.

15) She may be extremely possessive and jealous and absolutely not stand for you cheating or fucking around on her. Hence her concern that this is a ploy on your part to have sex with other women. It may be extremely important for you to show evidence that you can stay home while she ventures out.

16) She could wear any political color but the chances are better she's a conservative to the outside world. In general the more rigid and fundamentalist a woman, the more likely she's trying to contain a riotous passion.

17) She's in some form of transition. Meaning she's just gotten a divorce or ended a long term relationship. Typically people want to "play the field," after a relationship ends as a natural response to being free of a long term commitment. This might also be true of a woman who is between jobs, just finished her Phd, or has become an empty nester. People in transition are more open to redefining their values and trying new behaviors. Keep in mind that trying something out obviously doesn't make one committed to it.

18) Her sexual allure could catch a guy who by all reasonable judgments is a much better catch than you. This is the part of her who instinctively would like to have children with a bigger brain and better body than yours. It begs the question why would she stay with you? Well. Perhaps she underestimates her desirability. Perhaps she feels more secure choosing a guy she knows is lower on the mate value scale and would never find anyone as hot and intelligent as she is. Perhaps she feels better choosing a guy she rightfully feels a little superior too, who she knows will need her, who she knows knows he's one lucky boy to have her in his life.

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iameaseliameaselalmost 2 years ago

Dont leave out that there is a need for the cuck to have to desire a cock of his own to play with.

You see, even though you are an outright idiot, but at least you were honest that you havent researched anything, most of you dont. You pull shit out of your ass and clearly present it in a way that makes it appear you know what you are talking about.

For the record, few wives remain in love with their cucks, and they certainly lose (or for you less intellectually savy folks "loose") respect for them. Thats why 90+% end in divorce. Bring humiliation into it and the wife eventually just thinks there is something wrong with her future ex-husband. And factually there is, even beyond the living in denial part. The more they do it and the easier it becomes the less they see their husbands as men, and the pathetic cucks enjoy that (stop trying to say there is no mental illness involved) which should be scary. There begins that slippery slop to court. We wont even get into the emotional issues involved with wanting to raise another mans child (it is pure mental illness to bring an innocent child into the shit world of useless parents who want that, yes they are sick fucks) or the other idiots that get a sexual thrill over losing the person they purport to love, to another man. Ill wait for someone to explain to me (yes one of the budweiser, rusty truck owning crowd to spell out to me how studies are wrong on that. I'll be here holding my breath.

I have two psychologists in my family, one with a BA and the other heading into a Masters, so I have researched it. Oddly enough political leanings factor into kinks/lifestyles as well. No, its not an all or nothing situation but political leaning do have a correlation to a sexual style.

And just for the record, Conservatives tend to lean cuck and Dems BDSM. Also the overly aggressive, laughably bad Alpha Male wannabes south of the Mason/Dixon...well lets just say that as bad as liberals can be, they dont hold a candle to the mess that is a Cons gray matter. Which explains why they hate professionals.

RegretsRegretsover 3 years ago
14 15 and 16 hold the secret

So it may come about that your marriage has always been conventional, which plays to her natural conservatism but she catches you wanking, watching porn. Her temper is fearsome. She has known about your habits for years but this time she catches you RED HANDED. “ I WISH THERE WAS SOME WAY TO STOP YOU WANKING” she says. And, being anxious to calm her fury you mention the existence of chastity cages. You have no idea why you say that. It is just that her temper is uncontrollable. She then and there wants to see images. She has heard some of this stuff in college but now it all clicks together and becomes relevant. She “gets” it instantly. From college memories she recalls that it is essential to shave the Male tackle, and also knows that cages come in all sizes and only the right fit will do a good job. Her natural efficiency means that you are shaved almost instantly, but then she does a lot of reading. Weeks later, after you have carefully avoided looking at porn THE PARCEL is delivered. With you, locked up, she notices that you fawn over her, try to please her, are VERY attentive/submissive and her sexuality suddenly fires. To punish you, she goes on a date just to make things equal. When she comes home she finds that you have worried every minute....and the house is spotless, the laundry done and the garage organised so that conquering it will be easy in future. Your slavish concern and the fact that she has had a great time and actually knows that you have NOT been wanking or watching porn shows her that her new life is right there for the taking, You get handcuffed and the first relief in weeks, although she lets go too soon and locks you again. She obviously has a temper boiling just below the surface so you don’t ask about the date, (you can always check her knickers in the laundry) but you feel OK because now that she has had her revenge she might calm down. Alas!

AnonymousAnonymousover 3 years ago
Insightful.

As a cuckoldress myself, I thought this was quite good.

AnonymousAnonymousabout 4 years ago
Just another cuck spreading the virus

Just put on your big girl panties, hide in the closet and get ready for clean up duty. Just another road map too stupid to believe and too moronic for any real man to accept any part of. Just keep this idiotic stuff to yourself and please keep us virus free by never leaving cucktown.

oldbearswitcholdbearswitchover 4 years ago
Some pithy truths in there Steve

But also ol 26 sort of makes a valid point.

The real question is, "Am.im just a guy with a cuck fetish, or a cuck obsessed human door mat.?"

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