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Do you really mean diameter?

A DVD is 5 1/4 inches in diameter, so he is half an inch thicker than a DVD is across.

That means he is at least as big as or bigger than an infant being born.

Dear Anonymous,

I am a dope. Apologies for missing this in my edit. You are very correct, the diameter of his cock is 2 1/2 inches (damn thick) and his girth at the midway point of his shaft is 5 3/4 inches. I should have used circumference in this particular occasion. During my writing process i was unsure how best to describe the man and his cock. Sorry for missing this.

Deborah

More like a selfish, self centered woman that wants to keep her meal ticket and eat her cake too. She's using him. As a fall back position. When she finds a man with a bigger cock (not quite as large as you wrote), more money and also someone she can control, she'll divorce her spineless husband and move on. You think she's in a loving relationship with her husband? She's demeaning, degrading and humiliating him. Exposing him to every disease known to man. He obviously has no pride or self respect or he'd leave her. Think I'm wrong? Ask yourself this simple question. Were both sets of parents or all your friends to know how she was behaving you think they'd be anything less than disgusted with her? She's wrong, she's cheating and she's hiding it. A truly disgusting woman that doesn't deserve to be married. Even for fiction this story was a bad joke. No stars as even giving this mess one star would be an insult to the star.

You have done a very nice job of describing true cuckoldry. Very well written. xoxoxoxo Annette

A well written and insightful description of cuckolding relationships and the feelings and motivations of husbands with small cocks. I have a small penis and just one, very small, testicle and have been a cuckold throughout our 38 year marriage and could completely relate to everything that you have written.

I would love a cat or dog better than she loves him has she heard of stds. Any self respecting man would fuk her off small cock or not, y she even get married she could get paid and have all the sex she wants as she is nothing but a whore, hubby is a closet queer all cuckold r, turn my stomach sloppy second with don't how many diseases, this y we have hiv aids cause of promiscuous bastards

gave it a 5 for a great LW story!! And you know you really loved it too dear annnony! Come on fess up! You love to be a cuck!!

How I envy the deep intimacy a wife and her cuckold share. No secrets between them. Most people cannot understand this type of relationship. The men who don't understand get very angry about it. Well written. I gave it a 5.

Friends,

I thank you all for you comments, even those that do not support this. It is okay, like I said, this is not for everyone. The only thing I wonder about is why those who disagree with this type of relationship would bother reading my work? Either way, please be kind, I would rather have those who do not approve vent on me and nobody else.

Deborah

While each cuckold relationship is different, this piece has more affinity for my husband's and my marriage than anything else I have read. It is balanced, even though I don't agree with some parts, and well articulated. Does it belong here - probably not, but I'm happy it's here just the same.

This isn't my cup of tea. I know myself enough that this wouldn't work for me, and I am always intensely curious about the male motivation for participating in this. Thanks for sharing. Best of luck to you both!! Be well and happy.

How's can a woman, who supposedly loves her husband, do such a thing. In a marriage, love = respect. Having sex with someone else is extremely disrespectful. It states, categorically, that he can not provide for you. So, how?

Congratulations for laying out what I believe is the only way to make a cuckold relationship work. A marriage is a partnership and a cuckold marriage is a special relationship that requires a level of understanding that most couples never achieve. Ignore the abuse of those who do not understand your lifestyle.

Pure bullshit! What a vile, horrible, disgusting excuse for a woman you are. You are demeaning and betraying a man who has little or no self respect when you should be the one person he can rely on to boost his self esteem, not shatter it. You are a cheat and a slut. Nothing more, nothing less and I hope some day your husband grows a pair and divorces your sorry ass. I would love to see your reaction if he said he wanted to screw other women. You would go ballistic and you know it. You are a control freak who has basically castrated a man who loves you so much he will bow to absolutely anything you want. You don't deserve him. Shame on you. You make me sick

Tho it may not be common is truly beautiful. What you and your spouse have is absolutely the pinnacle of living and as you implied in this great article a rare and incredibly wonderful experience, I wish you reincarnation experience. I wish you a long a intensely gratifying life

Why did you get married in the first place? If you don't like the size of your husbands penis, than why did you get married? Why don't you let your husband have sex with another woman after you have sex with a man. Sounds like to me that you found a sucker to marry you.

Enjoyed your essay. I agree that the secret is trust, openness, and truthfulness. But, if I were your husband, I would want to be allowed to have other women. If you read this, I'm curious of your thoughts on open marriages and/or swapping partners. Thanks.

And one more thing. It's a tryst, not a triste. "Triste" means 'sad' in French, and neither you nor your husband is sad about your relationship!

Why did I get married to the man? Because I love him.

Why get married if I don't like his 'penis size?' Do you like everything about your wife? Would you marry her all over again knowing everything you now know?

Why don't I let my husband have sex with other women? Neither my husband nor myself want that.

'I found a sucker.' That is just silly.

Deborah

Neither your husband OR yourself want that. Why because you are 1. A control freak and 2. Because your infidelity has made him feel totally inadequate as a man. Why marry him if you were not prepared to be faithful through EVERYTHING. That's what marriage is you do EVERYTHING as a couple. No third party. I don't believe you are a bad person deep down but you have some seriously fucked up ideas about how to respect your husband. Just once invite a lady friend over and let him fuck her in front of you. See how you feel. It will rip your heart out, just like you do to your husband every time you screw another man. He's just too brow beaten and soft and above all besotted with you to stand up to you. Do the decent thing. Stop this and give your loving husband his manhood back. If you truly love him you will treat him like the decent guy he is and give him his beloved wife back.ALL of her. No sharing

Stop posting anonymous bonnietaylor2. What are you trying to do, give anonymous a bad name? Kind of ironic to bitch about anonymous as an anonymous. We all know who you are. Your comments are always the same, as bonnnietaylor2 or vastiesmith or anonymous. I'm surprised that authors even allow you to comment since you earn them extra one star ratings, every time you make a comment. 1* because, in my opinion, there is no successful cuckolding relationship. It's always one sided even if the idiot doesn't realize it. Why would any wife willingly cuckold her husband, even if the braindead idiot wants it.

Hey Deb... Don't speak for your husband when you say he doesn't want that. I am not married for your information. I don't need to get married and then go and screw a lot of women.

I really wish I can find a woman who is insecure like your husband so I could have sex with a lot of woman and humiliate her.

Well thought out and written- in my view as a sometimes cuckold man. Our lifestyle is not the same. I don't even have a ( particularly) small dick- w.r.t. your other piece, but there is a huge amount of wisdom in your words. I get a huge kick out of seeing my lovely wife of many years with another man. Why? A long story, but perhaps you should write too. about why a surprising number of men love it.

It always amazes me that people write in to detract - not about your style- but about the morality aspect. If they don't relate/understand why do they read it?

Anyway I would recommend your pieces to any would be lifestylers ( hate the term) .

We read it because we are trying to understand why anyone would do this to another human being? I still don't understand why anyone would get off on humiliating and degrading a fellow human being, especially someone they say they love. Destroying someone's self belief and self worth is not love. Its abuse of the worst kind. Its mental cruelty

This is an excellent description of a loving, mutually satisfying, cuckold relationship. Thank you for sharing your private lives to help educate your readers.

Greetings,

I returned from holiday with family and friends and feel much refreshed. Looking forward to Christmas. I hope you all enjoyed the holiday as well, if you celebrate it that is. Thank you all for your comments, even those that were not so nice. I appreciate your reading my work and taking the time to comment.

Deborah

to hating the black man white woman thing..... but not much one can do about it! Why does the lover have to be black?

whether white women who expect (and get, it must be said) their white husbands to condone and celebrate their fucking black men would express the same amount of altruistic composure and enjoyment if their husbands brought back a sweet little oriental woman into the home and maybe fucked her in the ass in the front room while wifey was getting the supper -- and then expected to answer a questionnaire to reveal her exact feelings as she watched her husband do this.

There's not much good about getting old, but one thing I can say is a certain relief that my wife never fucked a black man, is never likely to and in this part of England that is very unlikely indeed.

Having said all that I express praise for the quality of writing of this author and I suppose also the accuracy and candour of the feelings expressed. But why oh why is the whole cuckolding thing always the white woman cuckolding the white male with a black male? She says there is no humiliation but I beg to differ. Why not the black woman the black male eg with a white lover? Or a hispanic woman ditto? The only equivalent racial cuckolding is the oriental woman with a white male, that one ever sees on the internet; sometimes, rarely, the Indian woman with either another Indian male or a white male. This entire site is an arm of pro-black racial sexual propaganda. Occasionally someone on this site reveals the truth about HIV rates in the black population and so on.

DeborahSue's two stories show seriousness and maturity not common on this site. Readers are accustomed and indeed expect the usual format: setting, tone, flirting, massive orgasm, "more to follow". This author allows each one of us to reflect on our own situation and perspective regarding twin issues: smallness and cuckolding. Mandatory reading for any woman (and man) facing either or both of these.

You asked about the black-white things, so I'll give it a go. I did not intend for my experience to go this way. It happened because of my first cuckolding relationship happened to be with a black man and I got hooked. You must also understand that my husband prefers this as well.

But I can only answer for myself and not others. I like the black/white because of the contrast it provides as well as the 'taboo' nature. Some like that, some don't, to each their own.

As for HIV or any other sexually transmitted disease's I think I covered that. Use a condom and know the person you are having sex with. I do worry about such things and take precautions, but none-the-less, there is always a risk. Even with someone you think is solely for you this has happened (i.e. Charlie Sheen). I hope this helps.

Deborah

I thank you for your kind comments. I have found that much of the web consists of crap when it comes to a preferred lifestyle. It has largely been commercialized, lesbian, gay and bi porn especially. Almost never will they discuss the emotional and intellectual basis for these lifestyles, so I am trying to work against those.

Deborah

While I don't have the talent to write a story there is other relationships that should be told. My personal preference is to have a small tight chested women (mostly asian) since I think the sight a a C or D cup sagging to her belly to be a turn off. I also like a small women that will feel tighter on my cock while my wife enjoys watching. Different strokes for different folks.

Still no attempt from Deborahsue to address the question what would she feel inside if hubby decided to turn the tables and be the one who cheats on the marriage. Just a blank statement that it's not what either of them want. Can your husband not speak for himself or have you that much control over him that he just accepts that you dictate what he likes and doesn't like. Its beyond horrific that anyone would choose to live their entire life being control totally by someone else. Judging by your writing you are an intelligent woman. Surely you can see how wrong this is or are you too selfish or on too much of a power trip to care? My comments are designed to make you think deeply about what you are doing to a man who is clearly devoted to you. He deserves more respect than you are giving him

i mean drugs are enjoyable but its not good for you,its the same for cuckold it might be fun but in the long term it isn't good for the guy's emotional health.Believe me i like cuckold storys thats why i know its fun and games but after it makes you feel empty,and no dont believe him if hes says hes ok with it hes not...imagine how you feel if you saw him having sex with someone else multiply it few times thats exactly what he feels ,hes just aroused by it because of a trauma or a inferiority complex both needs help(actually its worse for men because of our evolutionary need to confirm paternity)help your man

Greetings Friends,

My thanks to all of you (yes, those that are critics as well) for your input on my writings. I would like to let you all know that my book that describes my first venture into the cuckolding lifestyle will soon be published on the Literotica website. This is very different from what I have done here thus far as I have written in in story fashion. I hope you will give it a read.

Thanks,

Deborah

Friends,

First let me say thanks to all my readers, without you there would be no point in writing this. Also, thanks for all of the comments (yes, even the nasty ones) as it shows your interest in the subject matter.

Now about my book. It is a rather long account of my first experience with cuckolding and how it came to pass. This is as historically accurate as my recollection allows, though I am sure some of the dialog is off. That said, if you have enjoyed my previous writings I think you will love this, so please give it a read and by all means, keep the comments coming.

Deborah Sue

God will give your husband his revenge for the way you have pissed and shit all over your marriage .You took a holy bond created by god then to show god how much you hate him you shit all over his bond. I hope you make lots of money for you book and live well your further is fire and hell.

Beautifully written, practical essay on the joys of a cuckold marriage. I accept it's not for everyone, but for those of us that like the cuckold lifestyle, so please leave us alone and keep your criticism to yourself. I notice you've attracted the usual amount of abuse and trolling.

I really appreciate your practical and detailed advice. I will share this with my wife.

Thank you for your description of your experiences, I learned much here and this could be a guide for dominant men too. Mark is one lucky guy indeed to be married to a thoughtful wife. I sincerely hope that you will post more about your experiences in the future. Surprisingly, we learn your preference for black men too; my knowledge about this life style is that black men are not considerate lovers in a cuckold relationship. They are mostly dominating the wife and husband, making the experience a bit unsavory.

Still, I enjoyed your honesty and look for more.

Your comments about black men typically being dominant and therefore unsavory is not exactly true. While there are those men out there, the same can be said about any race. Consideration for the couple is paramount in situations like this, so my advice to any bull in this situation he should see the couple as a team and give way to their desires if he wishes to maintain a relationship with them.

Thanks for your comments, they are appreciated.

Deborah Sue

great story! Loved the way she fucked the fleet

to those who ask you what if hubby wanted to try bigger boobs or younger pussy. COWARD.

And no, "It's not what we want" is not a damn answer.

Deborah please don't have kids and if you have, stay away from your grandkids. You are delusional and a sexual sadist/predator who has latched on to a sexual masochist and rather than try help him to overcome the challenges of his disorder prey on him to your own gain.

Thank you for posting this in FETISH where it belongs. I would not have read it had it not been for comments in the Feedback Portal. I read it, nothing new here or even reasonable. Just rationalization for sociopathy.

It was an accident. No planning. The wife's back was injured, she hired a masseur. I paid no attention, NBD. . By the 3rd session she was feeling better. One Saturday I got home, the guy was late so they were still in the spare room. I wandered in and he had her butt bare, working it. It was all innocent, that was where she said it hurt, and was causing her to limp. Seeing the guy rubbing her bare fanny turned me on, she picked up on that and didn't mind..

He didn't do anything, not really but since then she gets massages all the time at my encouragement, from several different therapists now. One of them even did her tits while I watched, I liked watching that.

So far nothing more, but if it ever does happen, I would not mind. I guess from what I read, I am a bit that way myself?

I thought the article was interesting and informative. It brought a perspective not many people share. While you don't have to agree with the lifestyle, it appears to work for them.

I have an interest in having my wife have other lovers simply for the fact that I want her to have all different types of joy and passion. As such, I would not stand in her way if that is what she truly wanted. But at the same time, it might create more problems than it is worth. Therefore, I am silent and do not tell my wife my true feelings. That Deborah and her husband seem to work it well is good for them.

I don't understand all of the nasty comments particularly the religious bent from one of the respondents. Perhaps you should not visit this type of site if it offends you. And I also don't understand why you would question how she would feel if her husband was screwing around. The husband wants it this way as well. There are many husbands who cheat on their wives and the wife accepts it. One is running for president.

Any attempt to understand this lifestyle has to start with an acceptance and understanding that we each have different values and priorities. The premise that all men want exclusivity or that having it is their measure of respect simply isn't true. No matter how many people feel that way and no matter how strongly they feel that way does not change a thing. If all the world but this one couple wants monogamy that still wouldn't make them wrong.

Think of it this way. There are places in the world where a man views it as a grave transgression for his wife to leave the house on her own or talk to another man without him present. He cannot imagine it to be otherwise, but that does not change the fact that in this part of the world these acts are completely non-issues and genuinely do not give rise to feelings of humiliation or disrespect. For him to cling to these notions as immutable and universal then bark at everyone to explain to him how it could be otherwise with his mind completely closed would be asinine.

There are those who criticize Deborahsue for presuming know what her husband feels. Fair enough. But he is not here, this is her story and she does seem to be genuinely conscious of and interested in his perspective. Why would those same people presume to know what he feels based upon nothing more than their stereotype of how a man is supposed to feel? As a general rule I think that the louder and more aggressively people need to press their views as universal, the less likely it is to be true.

As some have noted, the whole black/white thing is prevalent in porn and it is grossly distorted. I think she was clear that it isn't about being with some obnoxious thug. And I expect if you ask Deborahsue knows very well that not ever black guy has a big dick or every white guy has a small dick. I did not hear her spout any of the nonsense about being consciously exclusive to black men (really who would pick Al Roker over Brad Pitt). It just so happens that her lover is black. And she finds black men attractive. I do too but no more so than any other ethnic group. and like most women I also like a nice sized cock (which I have not found to be more prevalent among any ethnic group).

The lack of symmetry in a sexually open relationship is often driven by the realities of life or personal preferences more so than a rigid rule unfairly imposed by one partner. Its not obvious that a middle aged man with a small dick is going to have a lot of success or a satisfying experience seeking out "a younger pussy or bigger tits" as one commentator put it.

My own marriage used to be equally open for both of us. She finds lovers quite easily and has always been able to manage them as casual interactions that don't intrude on our relationship anymore than time she spends with other friends or family. I found it to be a lot of effort and hassle to get average and infrequent sex with a lot of strings attached. I suppose those outcomes are a result of our respective personalities and the nature of men vs women, but regardless of the reasons that is the reality.

I remember one Friday night where we both had dates (Saturday was reserved for one another). My date cancelled at the last minute and to be honest I was just as happy to stay home and watch the game. My wife enjoyed her date but decided to wrap it up around 11:00 and come home to me. The sex we had that night was, as usual, better and more satisfying than I had with other women (even if my date hadn't cancelled it is uncertain whether I would have gotten laid). And yes she had sex with her date before she came home too. Turns out that was my ideal Friday night. Even the fact that she was gone for a few hours fit perfectly with my need to decompress at the end of the week.

It was my idea to change the arrangement. I would forego other women (which wasn't giving up much of anything for me at that point) and she would be extra sure to attend to my sexual needs and desires (which she was doing anyway but she stepped it up for me). I guess I could have insisted she stop seeing other men. She would have done so if I asked. But to what end? My reality is different than hers and that is just the way it is. Its not like I could pretend she didn't enjoy sex with other men or hadn't done it many times already. And it is quite clear that her heightened sexual awareness, variety of experiences and dedication to me was a net positive to our sexual relationship. Asking her to stop would achieve nothing aside from stroking my ego or assuaging my insecurities.

Over time she has assumed a more controlling role which we both enjoy. But that is a by-product of dynamic sexual exploration which was encouraged by her sexual openness, not the source of the absence of symmetry in our sexual availability.

but what if hubby wanted to turn the tables on you? many asked but you still failed to answer. I think I can guess why. HYPOCRITE.

Thanks for writing and posting. Loved reading it.

The desire to interact with other men’s sexual fluids in this manner could be a way for some men to express homo-erotic desires, plus for some who may be wrestling with the idea of bisexuality, enjoying this on the wife’s body may legitimise it and remove the practice from being framed as homosexual—a type of bisexuality by proxy as it were.

Attraction and aversion are most powerfully displayed in the appeal of (or aversion to) engaging in intimate sexual activities that involve touch, body orifices, and body fluids such as saliva, vagina fluids or ejaculate. Men are generally much more "turned on" by the smells, orifices, and fluids of one sex than the other.

In fact, men have profound aversion to these characteristics of other gender—even to the point of nausea and vomiting.

Given the number of cuckolds who display some interest in bisexuality it also allows a way of expressing their sexual interest in other men by smelling/tasting/feeling the other man without having any direct contact.

Alia, from Mumbai- India:

Deborah i'll quote

“We not only need to have a deep respect for children; but also a deep respect for the baby in everyone. Not let any sick pedophile solicit that toddler within"

Similar with how corporate interviewers ask a trademark query 'Where do you see yourself five years from now?'. This day Deborah, if you held very special imagery involving a pre-teen you, decades...eons back - could this promising young person view the lady standing upfront as promiscuous hot-wife in near destiny? I surely know, that intensity seeking is an enslavement of our own perpetuation. Also, how long can one be in swing/interracial lifestyle? There could be a set dead-line that after 'so and so' years you might completely give it up and pursue some other things in life? Also, can a lifestyle such as this be polarized globally? From Up north America all the way down under in Australia, women cuckolding their ambitious men and making mockery of their hard worked fame/ estates that were to lead them towards objective destiny? It can't. Which is why, open relationships will remain underground. Always.

It also makes me question, what differentiates a regular whore against classy acting performance put in by Dakota Johnson in 50 shades? Where the former ends up satiating male ego and ends life frustrated at some phase while the later, trusts a professional creative team. No sooner shootings wrapped up, Anastasia divorces herself from method acting in being her real self - Dakota, while having world at her feet! Can I relate you as multifaceted actress or one dimensional whore, like it were a monotonous- laboring cycle eat-fuck-cuck-reapt? In nutshell, an erotica writer-director can make Dakota play a hotwife but a hotwife can't play Dakota :)

In my country, such a lifestyle will not only be mocked at but humorists might find it amusing if a cuckold were to candidly ask - *Anyone's sexy hotwife wanna play?*.. and play what? F'king play what?... monopoly? mortal kombat X? play the DJ console? ha ha! Well, in the end- looks fleet and so does experience. Two swords can't live in same head. It's either high end pleasure or complete peace from it all.

Your article was very informative. I had often suggested this type activity to my wife. She seemed interested, but would bring up the fact that what if the man were smaller than me? She thought she would be put off. She gets off from lots of the old in and out, straight fucking. Its to late in my case, wish I had read this years ago.

Although I am not and never will be a cuckold, I understand what she is trying to say. The main aspect of this type of fetish is it being consensual, if the male feels like he is forced, it will not work. Second if he disapproves, she should not go through with it. If she does it falls into the cheating category. The next thing is, after she opens the door, what if he wants a little on the side? She really cannot deny him in all good consiousness. This then falls into the big gray area of swinging. I have seen, more often that I would like to that feelings and emotional bonds develop between the wife and her partners, or the husband and his partners. Then both will harbor resentment and jealousy. Then the marriage is most likely dead! Why not just get your Molly's before you get married?

I enjoyed your essay completely...as a lifestyle cuckold I think such essays should e mandatory reading for all aspiring cuck-couples....to me a very subtle form of humiiation,where the lover demonstrates his superiority, is very arousing, but it doen't to be Mark's thing, everyone's different!

what would you do if your husband asked to try some other pussy.

Not only you don't answer, you also delete the question. I think I know why.

for a good story

Thanks Bonnie, your comments and support are very appreciative.

A very interesting and useful guide, my wife likes it too ;)

You give such really good advice. I think that a cuckolding relationship can work only if the married couple truly love and trust each other. Their relationship must be strong enough to enable them to separate in their minds the sex that the wife experiences with her lover from the many other aspects that contribute to a loving relationship between husband and wife. The key is good communication.

In your situation, your husband derives great pleasure by watching you be pleased by another lover and you derive pleasure by looking at your husband’s face while you are being made love to. I like that you refer to your other partners as “lovers” even though you explain that the love that you feel for your husband is “vastly more important” to you than having sex with other men.

Part of your husband’s pleasure comes from knowing that another man is satisfying you sexually in ways that he is cannot. In your husband’s situation, this is true in part because of the relatively small size of his dick. It’s basic anatomy that a man with a bigger dick may be able to bring you to more satisfying orgasms, but I’m sure it’s much more complicated than that. Fortunately, your husband is confident enough to understand that he is the one that you truly love.

Your other advice is valuable too, such as not allowing the lover to have sex with the wife in the marriage bed and screening the men carefully so as to avoid those who could become too emotionally involved. It’s interesting that you only seek single men and avoid those who are married. Other couples have indicated that they prefer married men in part because they are more discreet and also may be less likely to become too emotionally attached.

Thanks for the compliments and comments.

As it regards the "satisfaction" I get from sex with my lovers or with my husband. I must say that I am far more satisfied with the sex I receive from my husband. I am emotionally attached to him, emotionally invested in him, and thus am more satisfied by the sexual attentions I receive from him. The thing is that the sex is enhanced, in our case, by the cuckolding relationship. He is more turned on and that turns me on. He is excited and that excites me.

Thanks again,

Deborah Sue

The people asking what if tables were turned..they are not. You deal with what is. This is fantastic.

You have been married for a long time as I gather from the article, why would you put your husband through so much pain? He has not had an orgasm for eight months and you are so proud for him. What if you did not have an orgasm in eight months...how would you feel?

Then, you make him wear a cock cage with a pee hole steel insert with a cock ring so your husband can't take it off. Have you ever had a plastic tube in your pussy? It hurts and this is a plastic insert...not metal. If my wife suggested any of this to me, even through I have been married for forty years, I would run fast away and not come back.

A good wife would not put her husband...the man she loves...may have had children with through this much pain. Your husband will get fed up with this. He may want to see you with other men, but both people need to be fair to each other and not cause any pain to each other. You're getting to have sex with all the black dick you can handle...isn't that enough?

This informative piece spells out everything that's RIGHT about cuckolding.

Honestly ,this is full of c.... sorry ,tell me something ,if your husband come to you and he said, i want to sleep with other women and i want you to watch ,what will you do ? you will react like normal Woman , the magic word is`` normal`` instead to take advantage of him, give him some therapy ,this is not love, love is respect for yourself and respect fot other ,that doesn't mean to take advantage of it and use for yourself

Even for a fictional story on a porn site this was laughably bad. How many diseases do you have from fucking all those boyfriends? Will your husband touch you with a ten foot pole or did he move out and file for a divorce months ago? The reality is if you treat a man like this, you get a divorce. Won't your parents and friends be so proud of you when they find out what caused the divorce? I'm STILL laughing at how bad this was.

So what do you tell your parents? What do you tell your children? How do you break it to your minister, that the vows you took mean nothing in respect to the physical pleasure you get from "others"?

Too stupid for words. Cuckold relationships are about socialist infiltration of the societal norms, to break down the strength of the American will and cause irreparable damage to the social construct. Destroy the family and the strength of neighborhood bonds and you have the "wonderful" (sarcasm) fracturing you see in Germany or Sweden, where they welcome the rapists of their daughters and wives with open arms and "welfare" programs.

Smoke

Brilliant write up. My wife cucks me and we both enjoy it. Your words of wisdom are spot on

Deborah Sue, thank you for a most thoughtful essay. I seriously hope you continue to write and share your fabulous success with your husband and your lifestyle (yes, I agree, it is not for everyone). I do appreciate your emphasis on trust; it is imperative to moving forward. Someday I hope to take the time to contribute a personal experience that validates everything you mention. Again... Thank You!

And to the trolls... why in the world do you bother reading these pages if you have nothing in your realm that relates to the subject? Go away...

Our relationship has always been very honest. We tell each other everything, life goals, joys and fears. I was single and he was in the midst of a divorced when we met. We got to know each other and we clicked and married after about a year of dating.

After a couple of years, finally more of our previous love life came up. I told him I had a three of previous relationship and they were all passing fancies. It was actually 12 or 15, I just thought three would make him feel better. Then I asked him. He was shy at first but he told me that he had 5 previous girlfriends and of course his ex-wife.

He told me everything. His honesty just poured out. He said that all his previous girlfriends and his first wife cheated and relatively openly. I was shocked.

He seemed to need to tell me more so I asked him to be specific. So he told me every detail of his cheating girlfriends and ex-wife, a very hot large-breasted redhead, who I knew before I married him. I saw her with other men in bars and at a private house party with a tall, well built, well as they say tall, very dark and handsome man who was a bass player in a very popular local jazz band.

I was really amazed and really curious. So I asked more about them and how they accomplished their escapades. He went into every specific detail including the fact that he watched a few times secretly when he caught them at home a couple of times. I even asked him to tell me how he felt about it. I really did not need to ask. It was obvious considering how turned on he got relating it all.

Is this normal? Funny thing is that his story really got to me too. Does he want me to be like them and cheat too? The thing is, I would never leave him. I now believe it would be great if he willingly gave me permission or even better, willingly asked me to explore and approve of my complete sexual independence. -FHwife

I thank you and Mark for the time and effort to put some reality on cuckolding. While it's not for me, the psychology facinates me to no end.THANK YOU, BLESS YOU, MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

Paul

The formula for finding the circumference of a circle is: pi x diameter. A 5 3/4 inch circumference cock has a mean diameter of 1.83 inches. A 2 1/2 inch diameter cock has a circumference of 7.85 inches. It seems most writers on Literotica are mathematically challenged. Still, I found the essay interesting.

all you need is to be a looser :-)

as a willing or accepting cuckold.

cuckold is unknowing unwilling or coerced, anything else is just some inadequate sub human sharing his slut with some fuckwit who has dominance fantasies, probably more inadequate than the wimpy husband.

much like rape fantasies, if it's mutually agreeable, it's not rape is it.

still keeps the std clinics busy and divorce lawyers in shiny cheap suits and used bmw s i suppose.

is what the husband gets out of it. Can't help wondering if there isn't an element of "All women are sluts/whores, see, even my wonderful wife is one."

Wife gets to indulge her exhibionist tendencies. Afterall, if his stated desire is to see you receiving pleasure, and you say it's better for you with him, why not just set up a camera and video yourselves?

Serious question, do you ever 'enhance' your demonstrations of the pleasure received from your lovers, i.e. put on a show, for your husband?

I imagine the mixed feelings of terror and exhilaration some people get from riding roller coasters is probably the best metaphor we normies can comprehend.

As for why do those whose feelings have some combination of disapproval and lack of understanding read these types of stories, for myself at least it's akin to watching train or car crashes, or the Jackass videos.

im somewhat astonished that I just read what I just read. to be honest I think im jealous or envious, I still am not sure of the difference. I had a relationship with a woman for several years that I encouraged to have sex with other men. I loved it even though I never got to witness it myself. I lost her and my home to another lover but after reading this story I realize it was mostly my fault for not talking about it as I/we should have. I guess the good news is that she left me for a guy that had a huge cock,

im still trying to be a cuckold and as one of the few I like the humiliation !!!

I can understand the attraction to this life style but the reality is that most of the time it ends badly. If this is a true story then I'm happy for you. The problem as I see it is there is always going to be a threat to your marriage in the form of another man. While you may choose to ignore it the threat is very real. While I am sure you believe you will never fall for someone else it can and does happen all the time. I wish you well and hope your games never come between you.

Good luck

do you like your sons to be wimps too? I mean they get to be humiliated by real men when they marry? They're not stupid you know. One way or the other they would find out that their dad(s) is a wimp while their mom(s) are sluts. So you will be happy (and probably enthusiastically prod them) that they (will) marry sluts and be happy-humiliated no balls sub-men. Yes I bet you will jump for joy knowing the chip is not far from the shrub.

BTW, I just read a few paragraphs then jumped to comment. Don't need to read this whole sick story.

I'm sure we cuckolds have our differences but the thing we have most in common is our wives get fucked by other guys (otherwise we could not be entitled to be called cuckolds). Since I was in my mid-teens I have been attracted to women who were known to be "easy".

Once I started fucking one of them it wasn't long before I started pillow talking her about sharing her pussy with others. My first wife was 22 and a mother of two when she was had by another man for the first time and, during the next ten years I would arrange to get her fucked 40 times. She did occasionally express some religious scruples the next day but the previous evening she was flirty enough with other guys that she would get fucked by one guy or another or both of them. It wasn't long before she was a relatively easy fuck and I was known in some circles as a very willing cuckold. My advice, if you want to share your wife - pillow talk her - each time she opens up for another man she will become easier.

And yes, if your boyfriend tells you he has been in a cuckold relationship in the past, he is probably already hooked on sharing pussy. All you have to do now is talk to him about it while playing with his cock and his hardon will be all the proof you need. There is nothing hotter to a cuckold than knowing another man is fucking his woman.

Too bad you couldn't find a real man to marry so you have to convince yourself this is a great solution. Mark is blissfully ignorant that he is being completely disrespected by you and is a fool. Talk of love, respect and care simply shows the depth of self-delusion.

I have been the other man in a number of these encounters. Something you mentioned several times resonates with me.

Many men have fragile egos and insecurities. These do not play well in cuckolding. What a husband thinks he wants often turns out to be something quite different than what actually happens.

i could do this if it was a wife who promised not to let this ruin our marriage and put in in a contract as i am now 66 and love my wife enough to let her enjoy herself with a big cock bull . but she would need to keep in in all in perspective and i would be happy for her

Should be titled "How to get a divorce". Really silly story. Do this if you want to be single.