All Comments on 'On DD/lg Relationships: An Essay'

very nicely written belle ... as a former member of the DD/lg community (for about 10 years) ... the things you are saying ARE the way it should be ... and you sound like a "lil" that would be a joy for a Daddy to have

it sounds like at least over in England, the DD/lg life style is still what it should be ... sadly, over here in America it became nothing more than a kinky game for bored housewives who just want to cheat on their husbands ... and a game for freeloaders to play so that a girl with a bushel basket full of medical problems (or too lazy to work) can find someone to support her

that is NOT what it is supposed to be

back when I was active in the life style ... I had a "lil" tell me something very interesting ... she told me that she is way more sub to her Daddy, than she would ever be to a regular Dom

I thought that simple statement spoke volumes about the way DD/lg is supposed to be

A Daddy scolding His lil because she has misbehaved is very different from abusing her .......... a "lil" should never ever have to fear her Daddy

I'm so glad you posted this!

Useful and good explanation. I didn't know what the title meant until I read it.

Like being a slave or being little? Also, you really need some editing help. Or do a better job of proof reading.

(Now the coward who decided to be Anonymous, needs to just grow a pair)

I think this was well written and helps people who are still building their identity. I would absolutely love it if you could write and essay on how to go about establishing or finding a DD/lg relationship... that would be beneficial

Your essay was very informative. I feel for the first time that I have an understanding of the dd/lg relationship. I would not call myself a daddy in the sense you describe, but I am drawn to this attitude in my feelings toward women. Thank you so much. All the best to you.

Tim

Thank you Belle. For the first time I feel that I have an understanding of the dd/lg relationship. Although I do not think of myself as a daddy in the way you describe, I do tend to have similar feelings toward the women I am attracted to in the sense of wanting to nurture them and support them in reaching their own goals. All the best to you.

Tim

Most truthful thing I have read here in very long time Belle. All of the writers on this and similar sites who include the ‘Mommy/Daddy’ aspect of all types or relationships might do well to consider the points that you have made. Caregiving and dominance often manifest itself in a variety of combinations as I have read in several stories here on Literotica.