by Pilgrim
I thought this was supposed to be the humor section and not the True Stories Section.
and I could see the guy's wry & quiet humor.I only hope that the "wife" in this story wakes up in time, to discover she's got a man with a big heart, and a lot of patience!
I am a woman but could relate to the intensity
of this man's need to sexually bond with the
one he loves. She is an uncaring wife and I am
afraid all too typical.
It was well written. It is poignant to say the
least.
I've been married for 40 years. For the last 30 of those years my sex life was like this story, even though I tried everything I could think of or read about to get her interested in sex with me. Finally I just quit trying and found a lady whose husband is as disinterested in sex as my wife. For the past 3 years we have been getting together several times a month, and occasionally are able to spend a whole night together. We both feel sexually fulfilled although neither of us is even remotely considering leaving our present spouse. I don't even attempt any type of intimacy with my wife anymore, and interestingly she treats me way better (other than sex) than she has since we were first married. In hindsight I should have never gotten married, or should have divorced my wife as soon as our kids left for college.
Slow Learner
This was a remarkably sad commentary on so many couples' sex lives. A marked contrast to what I know is possible, as I have a close friend who is a sex therapist and couples sex retreat facilitator who proposes couples encourage sex play as thier hobby.
Wishing you better luck next month....
And this guy is Lucky, he at least is still getting some sometimes.
Wife is Mrs Paul's. BC she is one cold (frozen) fish. Ick