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by NymphWriter07/20/12

Break Out the Kleenex!!!

I love this story because it could happen.

How often have we done something so stupid only to have it compounded by something else that we are blindsided by? It's easy to say that all military members are whores... but really... this could happen to anyone. The realism and heart break is what makes this story great! It also reminds us how precious life is... and how we must own up to our mistakes... even if we wish we could go back and change things... it is our mistakes that shape us... and help make us who we are. We make mistakes as humans... but it's the lessons we learn from them that make all the difference.

Thanks Patricia51!!! I love your stuff. Totally worth 5 *****'s.... actually... this on I'd give 10 if I could!!!

Hope those who read this had lots of tissues! I know I needed them.

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by Anonymous08/10/12

Oh, my

As a combat vet, this story had me reliving the fears, courage, loyalty, and temptations all these people faced. Thanks for what was for me a fully-feeling memory of a time in my life I never will (or want to) forget.

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by Anonymous02/03/13

Too real.

This story isn't just fiction. Sadly, it's happening every day. As a young guy in the military, the only line I drew as far as women was to NEVER play around with any married woman. Not just military wives, all wives. I've always hated cheating, and think guys that do go after married women are just as scummy as the women. Not more, not less. Scum is scum.

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by betrayedbylove02/03/13

Thought Provoking

All people who cheat on their spouses in the military should be shot. Defending our country is noble and disrespecting your spouse who puts their life on the line is despicable. This tale shows consequences involved.

Don't cheat.

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by Anonymous03/11/13

9 out of 10 of we civilians

simply do NOT understand what the South Asian conflicts have done and are doing to our Army. About a year ago I heard an NPR interview with an SF Major headed back for his....13th tour!

Once again, your empathetic writing style is simply amazing. Thank you for sharing with us.

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by Alaska8405/04/13

Very good!

I saw this happen many times during my 26 years in the military. Having to notify a spouse of a death is only second to having to notify the parents of the death of a young child! The notifications are heartbreaking to everyone involved. My heart goes out to the clergy and notification teams.

I have no sympathy for the cheaters. Some cheaters get what they deserve.

Thank you for sharing this story!

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by cantbuymy05/04/13

very good, more than very good. US Army Retired.

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by OneShotOne06/29/13

In my 26 years in the Army

I figured out the biggest sluts in the world are the civilian wives of active duty military men.
In order: Marine wives, Navy wives, Army wives and then Air Force wives. So no one should be surprised at this story.

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by connoisseur2911/26/13

U nailed it!

Patty, you got that right. Old USN here with a CPO Grandson. Good story. Cheers! P.S. Love your bio art! LOL!

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by chiefcj4611/26/13

Yes !!!!!

I wish my first wife had read this before she left me. I wasn't even on a cruise yet. Saw a lot and much was like both of them, weather they wanted to cheat or just caught up in the excitement, it still hurt. I retired as a CPO and know both sides. It hurt me and the Navy. Best story I have read in years. Thank You.

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by connoisseur2901/09/15

****

Bless those put in harms way. Give courage to those left behind. Cheers!

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by sugna08/23/15

Military Life

Military life introduces a whole new set of challenges for a marriage. Decent people still do not cheat. Scum use the long periods of separation as an excuse for every kind of bad behavior including cheating. Just because a person serves in the military, it does not make them a saint, and it certainly does not make their spouse a saint either.

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by Anonymous04/20/16

a cheater is there because of who they are, not the circumstances

when in training my fiancé wrote me a letter telling me she was going on dates, everyone was surprised I dropped her

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by Anonymous07/28/16

the other side

True story-a young wife and mother was devoted to her army husband. He was sergeant station in texas. Before his first tour in iraq she confessed to him some things she did long before they were married. She probably should not have done so but she felt guilty having kept it from him and she might not see him again. During their marriage he always treated her in a condescending manner. Truth is he was verbally and emotionally abusive.
While in iraq he engaged in numerous affairs including some with thos subordinate to him.
She could have had his stripes but she stoppef the charges.
That apple, the sergeant, didn't fall far from his mother's tree.
She is on her 3rd husband and has had numerous affairs.
Details on Facebook profile of dearbornmt@yahoo.com

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by sbrooks103x11/26/16

WOW!

He's an asshole, but I can almost feel sorry for Lt. Hall.

The amount of guilt that he's going to be carrying around, it may be deserved, but still...

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by sbrooks103x06/04/17

Re-Reading

At least he didn't die after getting a "Dear John" letter.

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by EMiamiRiverRat08/05/17

A sad but all too true story

What was the point being made in this story and from whose perspective - the children, the parents, the grandparents?

It was not sweet and sour; it was sour and then more sour. First two spouses were cheating on their mates who were in combat zones, then both mates were KIA.

It sucked in every dimension, a pointless and very black tale. Me? A 'Nam vet, aka 'baby-killer'.

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by Anonymous08/17/17

special

i'd give you a a ten not possible. spap hapy papy #9 with love.......

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by EMiamiRiverRat09/02/17

War is Hell

Good story; but what audience did you aim at? Was it the self-centered cheating spouses, or the vets who worry every day about the possibility that THEIR spouse is cheating and taking away their only safe harbor - a touchy audience.

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by Anonymous09/28/17

@sbrooks103 - Wow

You feel sorry for Hall?????
I used to mostly value your comments-works but that stumped me.
Of all predators he is worst. Not only does he cheat on in-service wife, but he seduces the wives of his fellow soldiers...Leavenworth is where you can contact him...adultery is military crime...add in conduct unbecoming an officer...
No punishment is to harsh for that treacherous tomcat

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by Anonymous03/30/18

Kharma

The soldiers who take advantage of lonely wives of other soldiers fighting overseas do not deserve to wear the uniform. I pray for nothing less than the harshest payback to them. Because they truly deserve it. Kharma.

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by 26thNC03/30/18

Too real

I just found this story and it cut deep. I served 8 years as an officer in the Army with several short postings stateside. I lost a fiance on my first Iraqi deployment, and was single throughout my service. Truly, there was a great deal of this cheating going on in country, on the larger, safer bases, as well as stateside. I deplore cheating, and never dated married or committed women. Those who cheated were well known. Men talked, other wives spread the word. A military post is a tight community, and you can't hide. The flag covered coffins broke my heart, especially the men I knew. The most pathetic thing I saw were the known cheaters, dressed in their black, wiping bitter tears, accepting the flag from their dead soldier's coffin. How they lived with themselves, I could never understand then and I don't now. This story was , as I said too real. Thank you.

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by FD4505/20/18

Now what?

This is a necessary story. It doesn't stop with infidelity; we all make horrible mistakes which require righting the wrongs. Maybe you are a husband who invests in a 'sure thing' and BOOM, now you need to file bankruptcy! How does a wife forgive? How do you forgive yourself?

There are two sorts of people: those who have a soul and those who don't. A woman like this, who has a soul, will feeling the baying of the hounds of hell behind her for the rest of her life. They may get a bit farther away if she reforms her life, but they will still be heard back in the moor.

Then you have soulless bitches and NOTHING is going to make them feel bad. Or at least they will never ever admit it or their grief washes off with the next scotch.

So why bother doing anything to them? The only remedy is to avoid that toxic person.

So, would the BTBers want this mother to be destroyed? She has a son. And no, giving that kid to someone else is not a better answer.

So as a path to finding a way to continue living after a destructive mistake...I can get down with this story. Grace, forgiveness, redemption. These are just as much a part of our culture and religion as judgment, morals, and punishment.

God took care of the punishment side, so now us mere mortals need to do the Grace work with her.

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by Anonymous06/15/18

Sobering

Sadly, Marge is not very likable. But, that's OK. This story is very telling of the human condition especially with the military folks have to deal with. For a spouse to survive this there needs to be a strong spouse network. Usually, this becomes the responsibility of the commander's spouse.

I love the Tina Davis character: strong, firm and yet compassionate. The is what Marge needs at this point in her life.

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by jharp06/15/18

This stkry hit home hard. In my experience? Typical army wife. Fucking entitled sluts most of them were. During my first deployment more than 75% of the Marriages ended in divorce with the wife having cheated. In some cases the guys came home to empty bank accounts and empty houses with an Attorney and divorce papers waiting. In other cases these men came home to children they didn't father. They'd get divorced and end up paying child support for children not their own and then raped also for Pussymony...sorry I mean Alimony.

Military wives are the worst. The media loves to portray them as the silent heroes and for those that remain loyal that's true. But I know the truth. As do most men who has ever spent any time around them. They can't wait for their husbands to leave so they can hit the club and slut it up. And while there is a special place in hell for wives who cheat while their husbands serve, there should so be a special place saved for those who actively persue married women. Not to sound racist, and I don't give a fuck if you don't like it, but while all guys who peruse married womem are scum, its the black guys who aren't Military (and some who are) are the worst. When the husbands are home you don't see a hint of these guys. They have enough survival instincts to stay well enough away more often than not. Then when Hubby is out on maneuvers or deployed they're suddenly out in force, like cockroaches. And sadly they pull more than their fair share of married pussy. Most of them dumb white wives looking for the magical unicorn of BBC, but not all of them are white. Black and Hispanic or Asian, fuck they're all fair game to these assholes. And then theyre leeching off the wife, no fucking job, often doing drugs and bragging about how they're getting back at the White man by fucking and sometimes impregnating his bitch.

Soon as Hubby comes home they scamper off like the roaches they are. And from my experience more than a few Husbands hunted them down and extracted some retribution. I've seen it happen.

Still, it's good to see a story that goes into the seedy life of a cheating military spouse.

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by 266xxyz10/13/18

True that jharp!

When the fleet was ready to shove off, all the wives Enlisted or officer, would drive thru the gates hanging on their husbands and crying. Coming out their skirts were up to their pussy and their blouses were open. Game on. And that was almost 50 yrs ago. I would bet things have gotten even worse since.

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