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Very Insightful Information
This is an excellent resource for beginners
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!
Master_n_Mentor,
I would just like to say thanks for putting this information out there... for someone who has always likes...kink, for lack of a better word right now, in their sex life... this is something I can take to my Man and hopfully he will understand more of what I need.
I would also like to say that I find the information you wrote to be very sensual and loving... not what some people would view as a possibility in BDSM. I have read erotic novels with BDSM lifestyles and have found the authors to be very knowledgable, either thorugh personal experience or through discussing with someone who has experience... it is nice to know that there are many ways of bringing BDSM into your life...
Thanks again,
woman1968
Splendid!
Thank you for a terrific resource.
Great
Still new to this but found it very helpful thank you
Excellent
I introduced this subject to my husband, as I am wanting to submit to him for several reasons. One, it is something I have always kept in the back of my mind wanting to try, and two, I love pleasing my husband and feel now it is time to perhaps try this next level. We have been together for 20 years, and married for 14. Our sex life had taken on a new life and I completely trust him with my safety, and my body.
When I approached him, he was open to it, but said he didn't know where to start. I think I found it in this blog, so a huge THANK YOU.
Your scene example is an amazing first place to start I believe.
Extremely well written!!!
Thank you, Thank you, Thank You!!!
This gave me insight to my wife's thought process. Considering I am female and she is transgender, I'd call that a major success for you, Master_n_Mentor!!! I was easily able to substitute gender where necessary, which is the key component to an excellent guide regarding sex! Even though she's explained these exact things to me before, seeing them written out, helped everything click for me! You very well may have saved my marriage.... :)
Beginner sub (in my 60s!)
I'm a woman in her 60s who's had many straight relationships before, but am now involved with a magnificent Dom male who's teaching me so many new things, in the ways you've described. I realise, reading what you've said, how he's getting everything right and how he's found what I've craved all my life but never got in the intense, but uncontrolling, way you've described. I'm so grateful to people like you who are willing to share mentoring in a straightforward way for people like me, who've always known what they wanted, but never found the person who could fulfil their desires. I am so glad I'm getting it right, too - giving up control over one's body, after for so long being told that we women should control everything about ourselves, is utterly liberating. Thank you for your wonderful reassurance.
That works
If you want a divorce. Demean, degrade, abuse and humiliate your wife. The perfect guide to how to earn your divorce. Just plain idiotic.
very informative
I found a female I was in love with in school and dated n thru the yrs I still do even tho we lived our on lives. A cpl yrs back we reconnected n have become a cpl. She has a stressful job long hours n takes great pride on it along is a take charge mother coworker n mybe friend but she informed me she wanted to be a sub n we're still trying to figure out our boundaries. I've been the dom before but she was into things that you've not mention n I'm glad you pointed out the fact they live such demanding social n career roles our way to releive stress is to be my servant sub. Its their beer to a Guy after a lng day at work. I'm still learning so thnx but saying that don't forget communication is a great key as well as safely pleasing both the roles ty n I look forward to reading more.
amazing
Absolutely brilliant. I'm a women and I feel that I would do anything for a guy how would be able to do this to me. I crave it so much.
Wishing
I wish every man could know how to do this :)
Beautiful words.
Thank you for writing this!
Throughout my 11 years of relationship/engagement/marriage to the same man, I've wanted for the blissful exchange of power you described. As a woman in charge of her household, at night I crave nothing more than relinquishing control to the one I trust the most. Hopefully the values written in your beginner's guide will be an eventual part of my life.
brilliant
Thanks so much for this really helpful and will be showing my husband for sure! He is unsure about this new venture but is open to trying it out we have dabbled in bits and bobs but he is worried about hurting me. We are going very slowly as I dont want to over whelm him and it takes time but I have to say things have already improved in our sex life because for the first time ever we are actually talking about it who knew!! I cant wait until the day comes that we do this ;)
Thank You!!!
Showing my husband.
My wife wanted me to be a dominant husband
Thanks
Thank you so muck
My wife came so hard she couldn't stop shaking. I've been doing it wrong until now
going to try this
I've read this twice and I'm going to try this with my fiancée.
There's so much wrong here
BDSM has been part of my life for nearly 25 years. What I see here is a lot of nonsense, written by someone who doesn't know much, if anything, about real life BDSM.
The author claims that "The foundation of BDSM is "Safe, Sane and Consensual"". That simply is not true. The foundation of BDSM is informed and active consent. SSC is a slogan that originated in the gay community during the early days of HIV/AIDS. Many real life practitioners of BDSM do not refer to SSC in any way. Many of us refer to RACK, Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Some refer to PRICK, Personal Responsibility in Informed Consensual Kink.
The author claims "it MUST be SAFE". BDSM is not "safe". There are risks inherent in every aspect of BDSM. Being "safe" means being aware of the risks and doing what can be done to mitigate them. That's why people who know this lifestyle refer to Risk Awareness and Personal Responsibility. The point about avoiding any kind of intoxication while engaging in BDSM is the only really valid part of this essay.
Overall, this is nothing more than a mediocre guide to very basic kinky sex. It has virtually nothing to do with real life BDSM. Do yourself a favour and seek out better advice than this if you're going to pursue BDSM activities. There are many options available to you, including your local BDSM community (and there's one of those in every part of North America and most of the rest of the world). There's also a very large social network intended specifically for kinky people.
Great Article
My girlfriend likes role-play and being spanked - I've never been into it much before but like the play and want to be sure I get it right - that's why I searched for this info. Is there a similar piece for her on being submissive?
Thanks
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