An excellent step by step guide to taming your man. And ladies, don't take any notice of the comment below about your man walking out on the relationship in response to his new subservient role. Follow the rules and he will be totally at your mercy, so humiliated that he will never be able to seriously consider contemplating a relationship with another woman again. And I should know ... my wife did exactly that to me. And not only does she flaunt her attractiveness to other men in front of me, and have sex with them too. For my birthday she hired two gorgeous young lap dancers seemingly as a treat, who, having performed erotically in front of me in the privacy of our home, proceeded to taunt me for my inadequacy, laughing at my manhood etc, their finale, dancing to the song, I Don't Want No Short Dick Man. So now, whenever we are out and my wife sees me eyeing a young woman she reminds me of the two cute dancers to reinforce how utterly unappealing I really am. It really works!
Anonymous (06/17/11) is correct: cuckolding a husband so one can submit to another man is a circular error. Why go through all that rigmarole and hard work? Instead, apply the KISS Principle (Keep It Simple, Stupid): either A) Don't get married, or B) Get divorced. If one stays married for the financial support, planned cuckolding puts it all at risk anyway. Contrary to this essay, all men do not have inner cuckolds; just ask the so-called "bulls"--or many ex-wives. Alternatively, a wife could dominate, abuse and deny sex to her lover and submit to her husband, which makes better economic sense and has a much lower risk factor. There is also the classic maternity option: give birth to a male child and make his life miserable, an approach that works for many, many women. In the final analysis, planned cuckolding makes as much sense as poking out your eyes to improve your sense of hearing.
I am a naturely submissive male. I like beautiful intellegent and dominant women and it has been my downfal more than once. While I like domination, I will never submit to anything degrading. I do not need it. If asked to or even any attempt to force me to, I would simply leave. All I need is the dominance, the look, and my mind will be mush and my middle leg will be hard and my mouth willing and ready to please my mistress.
It distresses me very much that this kind of "advice" is written and that some wives have enforced it to their husbands. However, more distressing is the fact that the family laws and no-fault divorce in western countries have created the environment that supports cuckoldry.
If a woman wants to cuckold her husband she could force him to make hard choice. Firstly, he could accept to be cuckolded, with the final state of being denied sex completely and with the possibility of raising child/children that his wife has with her lovers. Secondly, he may refuse to be cuckolded; then the wife would file a divorce and get (1) at least 60 % of assets, (2) alimony and child support, which would be 60%-80% of his income, (3) child custody, in which she would block visitation right. With his finance now being very short, he may not be able to re-marry. Even if he remarries, there is a chance that her second wife may have to pay the first wife alimony and child support, if he fails to pay the required amount.
Given this dilemma, if a good and kind man really loves his children (such man will usually be hard working but not exciting personality) perhaps he would choose the first option, just so he could stay with his children. For all good husbands and fathers in western countries, please be aware of this possibility and take precaution.
I have been wanting my wife to cuck me for years. She is just 2 nice to cuck me how it should be done she has and does have many fuck buddies over the last 5. Or so years and she let's and likes it when I go down on her after. Just can't get her to humiliate or do anything in the cucking way that I want soooooo bad
Wow. What a sad life you must lead in order to think that any of this is a good idea. After having been cheated on and systematically rejected for the past fifteen years, I can honeastly say that my marriage, if it even still warrants the name, is simply a bullet that I'm taking for my kids. Every time she goes out, every time she lies, I just keep repeating to myself: "Eight more years...only eight more years." Adultery destroys marriages, period.
Mann any man who agrees or does this is a dumb ass and the women who would follow these steps didnt deserve to be marryed anyway and it should be equal (swingers) at least. Tht would never work on me simple signz would have ended the marraige very quickly a real man should never let tht happen unless he was able to fuck other women also and not be a Women's bitch any man who's every been used by a lady should see right through this if he ever learned abt his mistake. Already as a man if sex is turned dwn masterbate and if she saids ur gross and theres going to be changes u should allready havE established tht u are a dominate man and say this is my fuckin house women u havent been in the mood lately so shutup. Allready before I poke more holes in this instruction manuel If your a man and ur women decideds to do this ur not exciting her and she only needs u for fincial support and the kids to take ca re of so she can continue enjoyin her sexual fantasies and she doesnt love u anymore apparently u could fullfill her sexual desires if u were a man from the beggining and knew how to please her as a MAN thtz why she wantz other men to fuck and make u watch cuz ur a lil bitch. But back to the point at hand there are tell tell signz this women is allready seeing otha men getting all sexy all the time and not givin u any I would suspect it call her on it an if she tryz tha mean shit or try to suduce me to shut up automacticly know whtz going on even tho u dnt kno shes trying to cuckold u a person like me wouldnt want his lady to fuck or be unfaithful in any way especial if we're married then divorce her slut ass if u wann fuck otha ppl Dnt get married. A real man should allready have control of his household. U said sex becomes a reward for him its suppose to be a reward for her and she should get plzed every time. But hey if ur husbands a bitch boy and deserves this go ahead dominate tht bitch boy or if the two of u like it like tht go for it and have fun and call me if u need a nice young black man to join in lol. Have fun u freaks :)
disagree with many of the techniques for cuckolding hubbies...
Only a severely disturbed woman would even think about doing this. There are terrible consequences if any activity of this sort is not consensual between both parties! If you are female and in to these games I suggest you look for a partner on a fetish website, not play mind games on someone unsuspecting and most probably caring and loving of your needs and desires...
crazy thing my husband wants to be cuckold and for the below people to make it seem less of a life style lol you guys need to explore you sexuality more, i love it and so does my husband,
Who ever wrote this is a sick fuck. This is clearly disgusting. Cuckolding is a disgusting lifestyle anyway. This is disturbing but also very funny to read because this sounds completely absurd and un-realistic. This is worse than feminism. This marks the ending of civilization, un-battled. Get normal again if you ever were or please kill yourself.
This is the quickest way to become the crazy cat lady. Trust me if a woman ever withholds sex from me I will trow her out so fast her head will spin (I am being literal)! I mean a relationship is like a business you need quality workers, you do not need employees that are stealing from you and downloading porn in your office right? So if a woman does not wanna have sex with you then what is the point of keeping her around, I mean what else are they good for. Lets see do I need a woman to scratch my back? Ah no coz I have a back scratcher at home. So lets see why do I need a woman? Duh I get it now, I need a woman for fucking coz I cannot fuck my self. Woman are good for spending a man's money, first their fathers' then their husbands' or boyfriends' and what is hooker need to do to get money? Thats right have sex. Whoever wrote this will get what is coming to her very soon which is the most powerful sentence in the English language which is "GOODBYE" and then the pints of your man's boot on your ass, then suddenly you are a hobo!
There are some men who this will certainly work for. However, I promise you women, you better be prepared to lose your man because if it backfires, it'll backfire big. Some of us men are just too alpha to ever accept this and we'll be fucking someone else so fast that your juices won't have time to dry on your dildo.
Real men should not get angry after reading this as this issues does not concern them. This article is directed towards closet homo bitches and fag hags. Any man who is turned on by this is clearly a butt pirate and any woman who wants this is a fag hag. My advice for real men is that if a woman tries to do this to you than keep your pimp hand strong, there is nothing that a little bitch slapping wont fix.
wow must get wife to read this as im a micro dick husband who should be a cuck to his wife
The typos in this are ridiculous. The lady/man who wrote it has an IQ of 25 if that.
Also what man is that easily transformed? seriously, stupid bitch! haha I would get two women or three women at the same time. Let my girl watch me take on another woman if she wants, but another man? nah he can get out of my bed. Anyways my girlfriend loves the idea of me her and another girl. So I'm good ;)
Stupid bitch, stop writing.
If i see someone fucking my wife i will cut his dick ....and just imagen what i can do to my wife . becareful with who u are playing
These stories crack my monitor. How can anyone with selfrespect get a kick out of this crap? What´s next: "Dear, may I help your lover insert his dick?"
What a waste of time - we definately need a new category - for wimps and cuckolds only.
Wish this could be me in reality. have had a mistress in real life and it is the greatest thing ever. just reading this made me hard
Give me a break.
bullshit like this is what ruined my marriage fuck this shit people like this should be shot. Don't listen to this article if you really love the one your with it will ruin your life this article should be removed
Fantastic write up, I have had this done to me by my Mistress. We've never looked back.
She is entirely in control now, and it is me who wears the lingerie, stockings and heels etc. I have to get her lovers hard, then insert them into her and watch while she gets fucked. Once she has finished I have to fetch drinks and do anything else they want, including cleaning them both up with my tongue.
Would I change anything? Yes, I wish she'd done it to me earlier.
This was clearly written by a man with a fetish for being dominated, and not by a woman who has actually done the things this article suggests. I suppose that's fine, but let's call a spade a spade.
I also doubt most self-respecting men would be this easy to "game."
as a male this gave me a hardon reading it, hoping my wife will wake up oneday and make me her bitch that I should be.
I am so much freer now that I accepted my place in life. I no longer need wory about getting hard and then not cumming to soon. I always enjoyed eating pussy but now it is better with other mens cum in it and if you never tried sucking cock you are the poorer for it. my penis is tiny so my wife lets me wear a soft leather patch which hold it comletetl inside me so my panties don.t have a tent effect. I love the smooth look and sitting to pee makes me feel so feminen. I have picked up guys and as long as I gave them plenty of head they never guessed I was a boy
I'd like to thank the author and this site for "turning me on" to what my cunt wife has been up too. This is not my game at all. Yet I have been subjected to the beginnings of this lifestyle. I love to give oral! But my generosity was taken for granted, kindness mistaken for weakness. Being secure in my sexuality and comfortable with my body should not hinder the pleasure I am capable of experiencing - or sharing. There is a war in my house, and I'm late to the fight. But not now. It's on! Thx again!
And when 999 out of 1000 men throw your disrespectful, cheating ass out the door, then how will you feel about your "How to" baloney. Just keep cheating and not respecting your men and enjoy living alone. Dumb broads. Are you REALLY that stupid?
I think this " How to." may not always work for the typical male in American Society. Mostly because of gender bias, and the rampant homophobia among men. Some men will not even wear a slightly pinkish Business shirt, No matter how it sets off their eyes, or contrasts with a red and Blue tie... because it looks " a Bit gay". I think she got lucky. She had a husband who already had a sumissive nature, and after some thought, decided to actually exploit it.
If her husband actually gets off On all of that, then it is not exploitation, each is meeting the needs of the other, and more power to them. But I sincerely doubt he did not already have submissive tendencies to begin with... either way, Much luck and happiness to the OP.
yes my gf told me that i will become her cockold bf i ask her what you mean i mean that i will turn you into my bitchi said what look you sissy if you want me as your gf you do as i ask if not get out i said all right what you want me to do get out of your male cothes you will dress as my sissy bitch that when she hand me a bradress panties nylons heels i put them on yes she said i knew you like women things and that was a year now
I am an adult male of sound mind, I have no history of mental illness, I have some insecurity about my looks but no insecurity in my sexuality or sexual performance.
This How To is fucking hilarious to me. Most men (and I mean 95% of men in this world) will have left you long before you even get the opportunity to go slut it up in some bar. If your ultimate goal is to be a whore, then just be a whore. Why completely demean someone? It makes you a horrible person and makes whoever you're dominating fit for death. If a man has no freedom, no love of his own life or anything else but his slut, cunt of a wife, what does he have?
Nothing. Allow me to say that if the OP decided to try this shit on me, I would've been gone around the point where she started "flirting" and slutting it up in fucking Walmart. At least I can understand trying to hook up with a 95 year old millionaire... There's money involved, and lots of it. If you make your husband sub-human, a freak that only cleans the house and sucks cock or whatever, where is the income?
Kinda makes me wish women/men like this could legally/easily be lobotomized. This isn't a fetish, it's fucking mental illness.
My husband has been begging me to cuckold him. I will admit, I wan't sure I would be up for the task. I love him, and I don't want to hurt him or make him cry. It turns out, the longer we are together, that he NEEDS this. We are talking now about getting him a chastity device, and he wants to have all of his money directly deposited into my account. He wants me to take it even further than this illustration goes however. He wants to be denied release for the rest of his life. Manual stimulation via the prostate is to be the only release he gets. He wants to know, every time I cum, that he will never feel it on his cock. he wants me to put him in a strap-on so that when I do allow him to have sex with me, he will never feel it.
I should say that we were married a long time ago, and had a happy, loving marriage. I was supportive, faithful, and we always laughed. He left without warning one day and was gone 15 years. The guilt and torment at what he had done to me, led him to hate himself, and that hate turned into a desire to come home, and be owned by me. He didn't tell me that at first, but the act of me accepting him back and loving him again, made him feel worse about himself. He gets genuine pleasure from the idea that I will make him property, and looks forward to seeing me happy and fulfilled.
I tried to keep cuckolding out of this, and just tried some fun bondage games, but his needs run much deeper then that. As I truly love him, and want to give him everything he needs in this relationship, I am going to have to step up and use all of the hurt and anger I swallowed from his abandoning our life together, and funnel that into a new relationship for us. In his time away from our marriage, I grew, changed, and became successful, while he struggled and failed, barely making it through life. Now he feels insignificant, and I have tried to encourage his ego. I have tried to show him that he is important, and loved, and that my heart doesn't care how much he makes or that he's loosing his hair, or that his teeth are bad. It isn't enough for him. He needs me to hold the power, and take away everything.
I am having to retrain my mind. This "guide", for what its worth, is extremely informative, and is helping me to understand the depths I will have to be comfortable with to make this his reality. In time, once I am comfortable in the arrangement, I will take a lover, and he will have to watch someone else be what he doesn't deserve to be. Is it my ideal marriage? No. But in any marriage there is a balance that has to be maintained. For us, this will keep things level. It will give him the emotional permission to let go and cry, to feel shame, feel desire, and be content at last with himself. He will always be the love of my life, and for that, I will do anything for him. That includes cuckolding him. I just hope my heart will let me do it right, for both of our sakes.
It is clear the one person commenting has a husband that needs some mental attention.
While one might understand someone enjoying watching, when it goes to such extremes there isn't a single thing normal or right about it.
Certainly nothing even approaching erotic.
Get some help.
your divorce. Because when hubby wakes up and realizes you are demeaning and humiliating him, he's going to gather together his pride and self-respect and kick your cheating slut ass to the curb where it belongs with the rest of the trash. In NO man's fantasy does he want his wife to treat him like this. And only a mentally deranged woman would thing to do so.
The title of the story is what actually sparked off my interest. I wonder how would I feel in this situation?? Yes it does sound a bit curious but after thinking I have read read the comments some positive and some negative. To the negative people I would say please understand this is something that really appeals to some people and if it doesn't appeal to you don't read about it why be so critical?? You were stupid enough to read the entire story even after reading the title which clearly states it content so why trash it? Do you go to a library go the children's section pick up a book from a shelf there and then complain that it's horrible because it's a fairy tale?? No right so why are you doing the same here? For the people who have got what they wanted congratulations!! You are living your fantasy now.
However, the most important point here that the woman needs to find out whether her man is interested in this and not take it for granted. If you do expect a major back fire your relationship could be damaged severely or worst case don't rule out the possibility of divorce, break up or an affair. What the story should have explained in detail is how to find out if your man is interested or is at least open to the idea or not.
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Shit I would leave your ass the second you asked to call you goddess or mistress. Like I'm not a fu**ing equal. I can't believe you support manipulating men. This could ruin marriages so fast it's not even funny
I love the idea of a cuckold... but in the sense that i would be the new guy fucking the unsatisfied wife... the insults about having a small penis or calling a dicklet would make me laugh... lol dicklet
I wander whether the writer had a more fruitful topic to write about other than trying to break marriages????????????????
I don't know where to begin. If my wife tried that shit, she would be out the door so fast there wouldn't be any time for it to remotely hit her on the ass on the way out. The problem is, there are way too many men who have no honor or self respect. But that's my opinion. It is what it is.
Thanks for the story, "How to" heads up. Too funny, way too funny.
Guess you've figured out that you struck a nerve. I'm with the majority - a woman tries this with me, she's out the door and down the road. Who needs the lack of respect and obvious lack of love in a relationship. Even for fiction - this story is a crock.
I would be down for maybe roleplaying something like this for a little bit, but this just sounds abusive. What the fuck happened to having love in a marriage? SOME guys might want this in a wife but this sounds more like a "how to" of how to get your husband to divorce or cheat on you.
Don't get why men or women who are not into the idea of cuckolding are reading this and complaining. The only problem is it is usually the man who want to be the cuckold. What you really need is how to get you wife to cuckold you.
Cuckolding your husband is a great way to destroy a good marriage. My first wife tried some of this stupid shit, I divorced her and moved on. She has been single for over 10 years and has told me that trying to turn me into a cuckold was the dumbest, most selfish thing that she has ever done. She still regets it today.
WTF!!!! Anyone who engages in this type of behavior, especially with children in the house, needs to be institutionalized. There needs to be a return to the way things used to be, with some sense of morals between a man and woman who truly love their family and each other.
if my wife tried this she would be dead
the bible, the same one you swear on in court
Deuteronomy 22:22 if your wife lay with another man, she and her lover are to be put to death.
i would have a religious duty to dispatch her....
,,,but this would lead to some dead wives.
The 'manual' is too simplistic.
Me: Were I certain that this was the usual fevered wet dream of the self-assessed bi-curious sub-wannabe, I'd let it go. Hierarchical monkey shit can be engrossing, but the proper place for those who abuse it is six feet under.
Alas, there has always been a self-appointed cadre of Power Lusters among the upper class women who created and sustain Feminism. Vicious, unprincipled, pernicious nonsense like this has long found its devotees and proselytizers among them. The Eugenics Movement was largely theirs; Hillary Clinton shares her admiration for its greatest champion, Margaret Sanger, with Adolf Hitler, who called her his "Muse", specifically with reference to the Holocaust, as well as the greater depredations which he and his had planned for the Slavs and the Blacks.
another case of wishful thinking from someone who's never had a real man. -- from: Anon. 1/16/08
One more consequence of the abandonment of the Life of the Mind among the Common Folk of the West. There's an O. Henry story which touches on this issue of true manhood, which is remarkably on point. One hell-raising frontier cowhand looks up his old pardner, who's now a family man who's settled down in town. Townie takes a lot of good-natured ribbing about his determination not to give his wife cause to worry that he might revert to his old ways.
Nonetheless, trouble finds them. Well, the newly-minted milquetoast mans up something fierce. After which, he makes his friend promise never to let on that danger made an appearance. That's the sort of manhood to which the civilized man mostly aspires, because it keeps his loved ones safe at night.
Women mostly, I think, pray for such men, do they but have the wit. The women who crave status and power, with or without sexual abandon, frequently find themselves with the likes of Anthony Weiner or some Lord of the Universe whose sins beg expiation. It's among the idle, privileged classes that toadstools bloom. I've no doubt that stories like this play some part in the grave malfunctioning of our governing classes. Just how deep the rot has spread is an open question, but tumblr suggests all is not well in certain precincts. Too many hints of dark RL trends.
i SRONGLY SUGGEST MOST WOMEN NOT ATTEMPT THIS. THE CHANCE OF SUCCESS IS LESS THAN 1 PERCENT AND THE CHANCE OF ENDING UP DIVORCED IS VERY HIGH -- from:Anonymous 1/16/08
Well, yes, as is now well nigh a global crisis among the OECD nations. It will get worse, given the unrealistic expectations which many young women are creating for themselves. Just as this story's "wife" had. So did Rome Fall, once its courtesans had an Empire to misrule, arranging assassinations amid dizzying rounds of bedroom roulette.
"Now I know!":
Great now I and any normal married men know what to expect so we can counter it by seeing a lawyer or at the very least finding a big hole dump her in it. and then claiming the insurance money and explain to the police that my faithful loving wife ran off with one of her boyfriends.
The sad thing about this attempt( I hope )at humor is that people will try this and in some cases succeed, the question that springs to mind is WHY!. -- from: JADED_ONE1969 1/16/08
The short answer? To RULE!!
This tale would make handy fodder for many a Bible study. (No, I'm no Thumper, myself.) Would there were some similar way to communicate these particular dangers of uxoriousness to more Liberal precincts, but they're wed to their new religion and the organs of their own destruction, as are the corporatist "Amen Corner" at RINO HQ.
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You get the divorce you deserve for being a bitch.
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