All Comments on 'Everyone Has a Past'

Great story! This was a surprise. As I read further along, I thought that it was another one of those wayward wives cheated on husbands in the past stories. Good Job!

the story was erotic and funny and well done. Thanks!

Enjoyed the story. Sometimes it's better to keep the past in the past, but sometimes it works out just fine, eh? <grin>

Could have turned out terrible. Nice that it didn't. I rather enjoyed the little twist at the end.<P>

Thanks for sharing.

Living in the same town. People knowing she was a whore the 17 years he was married to her. Her refusing to come to work with him, still want to wonder why? This might work for two day laborers on drugs and alcohol all night but not two professionals who are known around the town. And by the time she goes back to work all the company will know why her husband put the guy down at the party. Then she starts dressing nicer for work. My guess is the whore is not just a company slut.

the ending was a suprise, though there is a big difference between him going to a massage parlor and doing 2 girls occasionally and her working in a massage parlor and doing 4 guys a day for 2 years. supposedly before she knew him but bound to make one wonder what she's been up to recently

I had to chucle at the end. Having visted a few massage parlours before I was married, I have run into a couple of the women since. Only three recognized me, but since I treated them as a gentleman should, they were friendly and thankful. Not in a sexual way, just really happpy I wasn't a jerk about it. Great story, well told.

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Very interesting. I see some would read a cheating wife into this short piece, yet there is none.

Others would compare his escapades to what she did to earn her college funding, suggesting that sheer volume of incidents would matter.

Yet there is no comparison, what difference is there between a customer of sex and a provider? A female that sells sex just once is at the minimum a "former" prostitute, a male that purchases sex just once will always be a "former"....john.

So in truth, there is no difference, and it is the act and not the volume that makes this truth.

One responder even posts his very own IQ score, I assume because there is no cheating or anal sex or whatever his personal kinky persuasion is?

One thing I do know about women, those with a past and experience normally make the best and most faithful wives and partners, simply because they have already been there and done that.

I liked this short little piece and I enjoyed writing it.

MGM

well first I d have you arrested for assault..than sue you for everthing you have

<p>Having read most of the comments, and the one by the Author, I have to say I don't agree with the authors assessment and it has nothing to do with cheating or the like</p>

<p>To me when someone gets married they have a level of comfortability with the person they are marrying. If they don't have that they are really delusional.</p>

<p>First for me you let the reader know why Jerry was hit. It was because he was upset the wife, who used to work in a massage parlor during college wouldn't talk to him. That's all the husband knew at the time he hit him. But yet he kept saying that his wife wouldn't do anything questionable and he trusted her. That made no <i>sense</i>. Because right after he heard this he started thinking the worst and <i><b>immediately</b></i> took it out on the nearest male that told him something he didn't want to hear.</p>

<p>Last time I checked hitting someone for calling you a name gets you booked on assault charges and I would find it hard to believe someone who was pestering a woman, who he used to pay for hand jobs and who was now doing a different job that he could see her daily at, wouldn't press charges after being publicly humiliated like that?</p>

<p>The fact that this seems to always be skipped over only happens in fantasy stories. And what was equally funny was Jerry didn't tell him anything that wasn't either the truth or his opinion. Just something he didn't want to hear.</p>

<p>Second, while I don't always agree with it, society has a dimmer view on people (men and women) selling themselves for sex than they do the ones buying it. Why? I can't speak for everyone, but usually you can <i>sell</i> more sex on a daily/weekly basis than you can <b>buy</b> it. In other words you can having an average of 15-50 customers a week but the average person can't buy 20 sessions a week because they can't afford it unless the person in question selling it is giving <i>massive</i> discounts.</p>

<p>So on average the seller will have far more people they are doing it with than someone buying it in the same time span</p>

<p>Third a point for me that was a problem was they lived in the same community that the wife worked in. When she started naming names the husband knew them. And you don't see that as awkward? I mean why didn't you flip it around and have the wife working with the secretarial pool of 45 women that all had spent nights and week ends with her husband and have her tell him how hot it made her to be working with all those women? Again that only works in fantasies. Most women don't want to be anywhere near any husbands ex.</p>

<p>And the part about no one recognizing her? The character didn't change how she looked, and if anyone believes that after 15-20 years some woman who gave you blowjobs and handjobs you won't remember is kidding themselves. Unless you're rich enough to have a bunch of different women doing it daily so that you can't possibly remember them all. She saw so many <i>different</i> men and she remembers them, but they all saw just her and they don't remember her at all?? That's one heck of a reach for the reader to accept.</p>

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<p><i>"I bet some of them were big, huh?" I asked.</p>

<p>"Yea, Walker was the biggest." She answered, just as I went off myself.</i></p>

<p>Uhmmm.... well that's just not my cup of tea. Having my wife tell me in the middle of sex all the guys who really big she's had sex with. Especially the owner of the joint where she worked as a prostitute at who she was giving it up for free at?</p>

<p>That's like having her ask me about my time as a male escort who gave the best blowjob and I had a list of a couple <i><b>hundred</b></i> women to work with (and some of who she knows and we both still run into daily) and she enjoyed hearing about them all. It's funny how men seem to like to hear about previous lovers of women, but the same stories don't show that from the female side. And I'm totally lost on the whole "my wife was a prostitute and as soon as I found out our sex life took off!" approach that seems to be a fad lately.</p>

<p>And why did it have to happen that way? Why was she holding back? I thought she loved him, but she gives out the extra sex to keep him from leaving her now?</p>

<p>But this was the kicker and the biggest point that kills the story for me, and leads back to the second point. If the wife was guessing at how many men she was with (or times I'm a little unclear on that point) and not including her steady giving it to the owner for 2 years as well, lets do some math ok?</p>

<p>There are 365 days in the year. If she took off for weekends, like she suggested to the husband, then she was busy about 261 days (excluding holidays) now during that time if she was <i>handling</i> men and giving out handjobs, blowjobs, and sex to preferred men that was exactly 783 - 1044 men she was doing that to over the course of two years that she worked as a prostitute, if her guesstimate was correct.</p>

<p>And knowing this number is what the main character used to jump start his marriage and says now its better than ever?</p>

<p>Unless the husband was rich in college or he was Wilt Chamberlain, there was no way he was even remotely close to his number in two years. Maybe not in his entire life. But this is nothing to be shocked or worried about, and knowing the details during sex is a turn on?</p>

<p>I wish you the best, but this really wasn't my cup a tea and it had nothing to do with wanting to see the wife divorced, kicked to the curb, or beaten. If the husband was <i>stupid</i> enough to marry her without asking questions up front then it was his fault and he should live with the commitment he made.</p>

<p>But to have him get <i><b>turned on</b></i> by how much of a (I'll pass on the slurs here) she was? That just doesn't make any sense that a rational person would do that.</p>

<p>Sorry.....</p>

-Risq

Mixed emotions about his getting turned-on by his wife's

past. Obviously only Superman does not get sued since no judge would silly enough to put him and the State at loggerheads....

First a tip of the hat to a well written story. Then a tip to Risq for a well thought out response. Finally a Bronx cheer to the wimp who would call the police and sue a man who was standing up for his wife. Have we become such wimps that our only response to being hit is to run crying to daddy to take care of us? How sad that there are so many "girly boys."

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The fact that his wife had been a prostitute doesn't give someone the right to be offensive. The man's a jerk and deserved a punch in the nose. If I were on the jury I'd find for the husband and see if I couldn't stick the jerk with all the attorney bills and damages.

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Like Risq, I would NOT be turned on by hearing my wife's escapades as a prostitute. However, there is a biological basis for it. I'm afraid that the reaction will ultimately damage the relationship, but that's a different issue.

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I also find his reasoning about why prostitutes are held in lower esteem than Johns to be very interesting. I think there's some real truth in his reasoning.

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Where I differ is that I believe that the husband is obliged to do more than simply "live with the commitment he made." He has a seventeen year marriage and there is no hint that she hasn't left that lifestyle behind. He was also careful to note that he wasn't interested in her past so that is indeed past.

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I do see him as having some dilemmas and there are some things she needs to "make right." I would not want to be doing business with anyone who had paid my wife to give him a blowjob. Clearly the men in question had never given the husband any reason to suspect but there is a difference in ignorance and where he finds himself now. I would be ashamed of my wife's past... but proud of how she has lived as my wife. I don't know if I'd want to continue to live in that community or not. I would expect my wife to support me in whatever decision I made.

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The important point to me is that she changed. She left that life behind. I'd be concerned only if she doesn't seem to see any problem with what she'd done, but even that's not clear from the story.

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I guess what I'm trying to say is that I would like to think that I wouldn't hold my wife's past against her if she'd made the decision to leave it behind and understood that it wasn't a lifestyle she wanted known. I think it's the difference between being married to a woman who was once a prostitute but renounced it and being married to a woman who would have no problem going back on the game. It's a question of character. I admit if I knew I was dating someone who had just stopped working in a massage parlor I'd break up with them. I wouldn't want to be married to someone was okay with the lifestyle, or might slip back into it. However, the husband now has a seventeen year history of knowing that she left it behind and is trying to move on... at least I think that's the case.

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This is rambling and I apologize because what I'm trying to say is simple. Everyone deserves a second chance. I think she was wrong to hide her past from him. However, seventeen years of faithful marriage means she's earned the right to have left her past behind. However, now that the past has been revealed, she must be prepared to accommodate any discomfort he might have with their associates. There are many responses to a man's sneer that he'd had your mate. I would hope mine would be, "I've got her now and you'll never be that lucky again." But I might just punch him in the nose if he said it out loud.

of being a high priced call girl for one night. I probably will never realize it, but the thought gets me wet. This story was interesting and well done. The asshole with the bloody nose wouldn't dare sue because his rude actions would come to light. Seeking out her husband and then saying she has serviced him a dozen times totally desirved a bloody and broken nose. The past IS the past.

<p>Since I can only vote once, it doesn't matter that I left the score the same as what I originally gave it.</p>

<p>But I agree with the points of "APeacefulPlaceTx" but I guess we see them differently</p>

<p>When I said that the husband should live with the commitments I meant that he should ask all the questions that are deal breakers before they marry.</p>

<p>If you are talking to your wife and you ask about her past before you marry some feel differently about it than others. Me? I would want to know if my wife was a prostitute and definitely if we live in the same community that she worked in. If she lies to me or misleads me under the guise of earning a second chance, you can't earn a second chance by deception. That's telling a lie to live a lie hoping no one finds out what you've been up too. If you want redemption you need to make sure you get it with someone who wants to work with you to get it.</p>

<p>To me its like people who married someone let out of prison for mass murder. I personally couldn't do it, but that person has paid their debt to society and if they are released they have earned a second chance. And some people are waiting to marry them as soon as they get out. But I couldn't do it, it would bother me. That's how I would feel if I suddenly found my wife lied and she worked as a prostitute for two years and had sex with over 1,000 men and now I'm supposed to put that genie back in the bottle and not care. I couldn't do it. It would drive me crazy. But that me as well and not everyone has to live by what drives me crazy either (^_^)</p>

<p>Funseeeekrr and APeacefulPlaceTx if you believe people won't go to court and seek to put someone in jail for this just watch Judge Judy for 20 minutes. People will go on <i><b>TV</b></i> and do it, so why wouldn't they go and swear out a complaint in private that would have the husband doing jail time for this? You underestimate people if you feel otherwise.</p>

<p>Remember Heidi Fleiss? The famous madame? Remember all the men who got ratted out for having sex with her girls? Remember that Charlie Sheen was one of them? Know how many people cared that Charlie, who could have any woman he wanted, was paying for Sex? Remember after that came out he was also publicly dating a porn star, and then even later he even married Denise Richards and had a kid with her? Denise knew all of this and didn't care. But Hedi's name is synonymous with her life as a madame and will be labeled as such for the rest of her life. But who labels Charlie Sheen as the John who paid for sex with her girls for the rest of <i>his</i> life? </p>

<p>That's just one example of millions daily, and various ones are famous or political figures.</p>

<p>People don't care if your paying for it. I think its wrong, but that's how it is. But they <i><b>do care</b></i> if you're selling it.</p>

<p>So if Jerry decided to put the husband in jail for assault do you think the wife and husband are going to spread around that it was because she was a prostitute and Jerry was just checking to see if she was still turning tricks? Somehow I doubt it. But with this stories characters anything is possible.</p>

<p>The fact is he wasn't <i>defending</i> his wife from anything. She <i>was</i> a prostitute, and she was ignoring him. He was irritating her, but that was because she didn't want to spread around the <i>why</i> he was, which created the situation. If she had he, and she, would have been embarrassed enough for him to stop. Of course the husband would have found out as well, and that is what the wife was trying to avoid.</p>

<p>And see a lot of folks don't understand the self defense or defense of others laws. The law says self defense is reasonable force needed only to "leave" an altercation or assist someone else to leave it. But only if someone tries to prevent you from leaving peacefully. But <i>you</i> have to be assaulted or detained first to be allowed to use force. The law says you have to walk away if possible not give in to your temper because you don't like what someone said. Like what happened to Jerry. Hitting someone for saying something you don't like in most states is a <i><b>felony</b></i> if you cause enough bodily harm, and that means you get jail time and a record if they press charges. That also means there are things you can no longer do once convicted (vote, carry a weapon, run for public office, etc. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Felony)</p>

<p>But people read stories like this and believe that this is what they can get away with and have to find out the hard way they can't.</p>

-Risq

...from a great storyteller. You are one of the 3 or 4 most consistently good storytellers on this site. Every day, I scan the New section for those few names and read those first. This one didn't disappoint.

The comments are always interesting. It is possible to read entirely too much into a very short story like this. It is what it is. It is either an enjoyable read or it isn't. Second guessing an author or holding him responsible for what his characters do is senseless.

Well done. Looking forward to the next.

I love the comments, from both sides. It means I did my job, got in there and struck a nerve with words.

That is why I never delete any unless silly profanity.

But I have to respond to one thing: There is a point in law that can offset a charge of assault. It is called "Deliberate Antagonism" and in most courts it works.

This is because with most men, if you call their wife a Fu**ing Cunt to their face, you will very likely get hit.

Probably not in Judge Judy's court though. But then she is an actress, and not very smart.

You see, REALLY smart people have no need at all to constantly tell others how smart they are.

Thanks for the comments! Much better than the stories that get ignored.

MGM

as pointed out, second guess the author or read in between the lines. If it wasn't written, it didn't happen. If you want a different outcome to this story, write a sequel of your own, just the way you like it. I'm sure the author wouldn't mind. It may be an interesting read. Thanks author for a good read. ML

it is fooking absurd. Risq comments are 100% correct.

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when My wife goes to the gym and different guys occasionally hit on her she usually tells me about it and it can lead to some good sex.

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But my wife has not fucked/ oral sex over 1000 guys.

And she is NOT lying about it either.

If I am reading a financial report or history book, I will demand accurate and exact reporting. Expecting the same in an erotica column, there must be something wrong with my mind. Hey this is fiction man, a little out of accuracy is ok. Do you write to the newspapers/director that their moview is unbelievable/impossible after watching superman movie?

Well done fast paced and tight story. Thanks

....and thank-you commentators. Except for the few who would squash the debate this was interesting reading. As for "deliberate antagonism" I believe it is only invoked when there is a history between the two parties.Since he had never seen the former "John" before this would not be the case here.Now in Texas, all bets are off!-pistolpackinpete

Good read, well written, kinda feel good sort of story. Prolly your best one yet.

Well written. Thanks

As somebody else has commented, nice twist at the end. My only upgrading comment would be that I think I'd use my foot instead of my hand, as it is too easy to break your hand on the perp. If somebody treated my wife like Jerry did his, there <i>would </i> retribution. I also really appreciate a non-cuck story in LW - seems like we have about a 10:1 ratio now.

Superbly written by a Master of the Pen !!

Super TLW story, 5 stars.

I enjoyed this. As mentioned a TLW. Hopefully more like this will begin to emerge!

Thank you!

I liked it . My instinct tells me there are some things the narrator or author is whitewashing . Regardless, it was well written and a fine read .

Not your usual story. However what happens before a couple meet and decide to marry should not matter. Its what happens after. As far as I know, anyway.

HA

Or almost -

I love that a story gets this much pasi9onate debate after it is read - my idea of a great story - no matter how it comes out - the author got it right - why because he wrote it the way he wanted to LOL

There is no wrong here - there is plenty of room for others to try and guess how they would react in that situation and that makes for interesting conversation -

Fast pace with no filler. Thanks for sharing a well written story.

always a slut....

and take it on faith ,hope and longevity. TK U MLJ LV NV

And she is a faithful partner. Failing to see any problem... Just like the loving couple in this story

When you get married some things should be disclosed. Things like a criminal background in prostitution. While going to a prostitute is sleazy and pathetic, being a prostitute is a whole other thing. It is socially demeaning, it is a health risk, it speaks about the character of the individual who is having sex of one kind of another with strangers, some married - for money. Need money? Take out student loans, get a normal job, or simply don't go to school. Prostitution is a decision made for life.

I did not notice a mention of kids in this story. After 17 years no kids? No explanation such as infertility? No adoption? Just an ambitious couple out for themselves and money. That tells a story in itself. Good luck with this dead end marriage.

His going there as a customer a few times isn't the same as her servicing hundreds if not thousands of customers.

Didn't you?

Great story.

I liked it,i mean what does it matter what she did before her marriage ? i'ts not like she was a prostitute,these days college girls do porn,escort or work as stripper,it's about money not the sex,when you see that studentloans can put you in misery for up to 10-20 years the choice can be simple

She may have come clean before her wedding but i still understand her choice of earning money

I simply don't get the criticism of the stories in this category on a moral basis, especially by those that have gone to the trouble to get a user name. This is a sex story site. Can't you understand that? The site has a romance category, but "Loving Wives" is not that category, and in any event, "Romance" has a whole lot of infidelity and descriptions of extra marital sex in the stories in that category. Get over it, or quit reading on this site, or in the very least, quit your moralizing hypocritical comments!

Good little story, not my favorite though. Guess everyone has a past.

she should have told him earlier in the relationship, it's in the past

I dated a masseuse for a while, 15 or so years ago... the stories she told me were... memorable. Apparently in Florida it is commonplace to give a happy ending. If not, everybody else does so you must or risk losing your business.

Girls gotta make a living. He is lucky to have an experienced one.

I would not divorce or call her a cheater as it was all done before we met. But when she wants to show me what she used to do? No way! All I would think of was the thousands of dicks in her hand and mouth and her getting screwed weekly by the big dick boss. Instant loss of erection.

When I was younger I was with a woman for 2 years. During that time I also ran into some strange situations with guys and her that made me wonder. We were close to getting engaged as we had that talk. Finally at one party I met the boy friend of her old friend and it came up that his girl worked with my girl as a stripper through college and they did more than just dance. They often did stag parties which included sex. He said it took some time but he adjusted but moved out of town. Too many guys from her past. I confronted my girl, she told me the truth, but she would not move away. After awhile I could not take the looks and comments so we broke up.

Nah that's a pass for me, it was obvious she loved him and seemed to be faithful, but thousands? Thousands? Yeah that's a bridge too far.