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You assumption
in your essay is that the cheater cares. If they cared, they would not do it. A selfish person in this case is so ego-centric that your description would be meaningless to them and the spouse who loves would be just as destroyed and hurt in the end. Yours is an ideal description of the situation where the cheater has an epipany of conscience, but if they are that selfish, the only epiphany they will have is what they lost: monetary support and security while they cheated. They find some sucker somewhere else and bleed their husband in the divorce and maybe even get to hurt him even more as she rubs his nose in her achievement.
Interesting and unusual, as usual!
An essay on another interesting thought. While the other comment takes the position that it is unlikely that the cheater actually cares or is insightful enough to understand that they are hurting themselves, I suspect that it doesn't matter. It has been my personal observation that people who have cheated me or my family (not particularly in sexual matters, but I suspect the principle still applies) have been 'punished' for it in the long run. Perhaps it is a 'karma' thing, or just that people who do dirt to one person are likely to do it to another, eventually they get their just rewards, without my ever having to personally administer it!
meh
people aren't as nice as you think they are. Our world would be much more different if they were.
Did you mean 'mortal coil'?
Not bad. Unfortunately it assumes conscientiousness, but the world is full of flying fucks who just don't give.
Wise Advice
I really enjoyed this. It's easy to look around and see the huge number of relationships that lay in wreckage because of the selfish, uncaring attitude of an untrustworthy partner. Just about all of us have been through it to some degree. For most of us it was a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. For a number of us it was in a marriage, where it was even more devastating.
The great truth that you unerringly homed in on is the fact that the wounded party all too often feels like they have failed. They have been weighed in the balance and come up wanting. The truth is, as you so wisely point out, that the one who betrays is the loser. They are the one who could not carry their end of the bargain. They were not of sufficient strength to keep their heart open and work toward fulfilling the promise they had made. Oh how I wish I had been party to this advice when I was on the recieving end of that betrayal in my first marriage. It might have spared me a great deal of the pain and self doubt that I carried far too long.
Congratulations on a fine piece of writing that will do some poor souls a world of good. I have read a good many of your stories and enjoyed them greatly. You truly have a wonderful talent.
IIN THAT SAME MIRROR
can you say Thank you for being my friend, TK U MLJ LV NV
Food for thought.
Brings a lot of memories and a few regrets.
great piece of work
Anonymous must lead a fucked up life to degrade a good piece, i needed this thankyou
Damn
Cheaters don't care who they hurt. They are worthless scumbag assholes who only care about their next session with their lover. Here's my theory. The difference between a champ and a chump is honesty. To yourself and to your spouse. If you can live with your vile deeds or if you are aware of your spouses deeds, there is the difference.
Just my opinion
That was something but who would think that when wronged??
A friend a special friend that can make it sound sane to the hurt?? Not I..
I really do not know how I could think like that, albeit that was a great piece of write art....bill
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