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I well remember the moment that my wife of so many years learned of my bisexual interests! And, like you, I found she was OK with it!

sexually confused dissertation at best, albeit indicating submissiveness to castration via a femme/dome organised 'CFNM' group.

Okay my wife and I haven't had a threesome with another guy nor does she know of my secret gay inclinations... but the part with the wife's used panties? Now that struck a chord with me! I remember her sheepishness, the unmistakable smell of another guy's cum mixed up with her own juices: she had been with another guy! But instead of making me jealous, it turned me on. And she didn't admit to anything (she didn't know I'd seen the panties in question) and I wasn't going to press her on it as at around the same time she was presumably being fucked I too was being fucked (and sucking another guy off at the same time!) at a gay sauna. That was a couple of years ago - and we're still together - but the thought of her being with another guy (or guys?!) while I was with two guys is still a HUGE turn-on.

I've not had the 3way you describe but my wife knows and I think understands my Bi side.

I can tell you one thing, it sure makes living with the secret out in the open more a lot better. Cheers... Skip