Anatomy of Husband Cheated

Excellent!

So much said in a few short paragraphs. I loved this, especially the last line.
5* big stars from me. Oh, did I mention I love this?

10 out of 10, a 5 is not enough

This story hits everything on the mark. The pain, confusion and emptiness felt. This really hit home for me about my first marriage, luckily I had no children then so it was an easy split. The author is correct, examine the courts and social services, the mother will get custody of the children and the house. Unless the mother was involved in a crime. Adultery is not a crime in many states, too bad wish it was. If we are going to spend millions on same sex marriage, then we should be willing to spend millions more demanding adultery in marriage be a crime. I believe that after any services or church weddings, the marriage is finalized in front of a judge. This father had to suffer due to an unfaithful spouse and did not have to if the law was not "an ASS" I would even go so far as to say, once married there are no secrets, no private areas, nothing is off limits. Nothing! not even emails, phones, letters nothing. some would argue that his is paramount to distrust, well, if you have nothing to hide, why be concerned, why be afraid? Defense of marriage means just that... defend marriage by any and all means. Finally, create in addition to the laws and punishment for cheating spouses, have same laws for those individuals that willing engage in behavior with a married person without their spouses full support and approval. Imagine that person losing most of their income or properties to punitive damages? One would have to ask, is having a fling with a married man or woman really worth it. The answer would no doubt be why chance it and be in debt to their spouse for how many years? Great story should be a 10 in my book

Keep writing I gave you a 5

and you're helping to drive the asshole annony off of here!!

Thought

“go back in time and stop her affair before it started” – It’s been said many times here; if she requires YOU to stop her affair, what kind of a marriage do you really have? SHE has to stop herself, ideally she won’t even want it enough that she NEEDS to be stopped!

Editing

In the "Tolerance" section, the word is "aversion" not "eversion".

Yeah, that is pretty much what happens.

Not exactly of course, for each it is a little different, but the basics are there.

Either you have done this too, or you had good advisers explaining.