Being Bad: Bi-guy Erotica

OK

This was ok. The more interesting question to me is why "being bad" is a thrill, not just that it is. Could it be that our prevailing ideas about proper sexuality are anachronisms, a remainder of our fading puritan and suppresive sexual heritage that longer apply in the imaginations of a lot of men and women?
Also you don't say if you have taken it in the ass or given it. Have you tried it? Did you like it?
I'm not saying bisexuality is or should be the norm. But it is in the realm of normal sexual behavior. Don't try it if the desire isn't there and don't risk your more important relationships if those could be at risk. But if those conditions are met and you are still curious then go ahead and explore.

Yeah, sorry, I probably should have mentioned that was written from a bi-guy perspective. I've never taken one up the ass, though I've used mine a couple of times. I'm more an oral guy. You give good advice, too. Thanks anon!

Why so apologetic?

Bisexuality is a given, just as Gay is. Some wiring in our brains makes us so. We have to be extremely selective in our fun, and hide our bent from public knowledge, because most bisexual men are more straight than bi, and exist in an intolerant society. I can cut a cord of wood too, and beat the hell out of men my size and have done so twice. Still, being bi is something I have to guard very carefully. My bi activity is very irregular, seperated by months or years, but when the opportunity does come my way I enjoy it immensely. I have done it with my macho man dopelganger, and with soft gay boys I trust, and enjoyed both. Because when I do bi sex I am in fact "gay" for those few hours. The next day I am "straight" again in all behavior and inclination and women are my primary sexual drive again. "Women" being my wife. She gives my bi side her full blessing and understanding. That is a trade off we established when I gave her my blessing and understanding to fuck other men on occassional flings as irregular as my bi activity. We have a perfect marriage. She gives me my bi needs when they sneak up and prod me every 18 or 24 months, I give her freedom to pursue her strong attraction to another man, which is about as often as I want a man.

Good opener for an ongoing conversation...

There's nothing wrong with being bi! But there is danger in our society of being discovered to be bi! Most people collapse under the pressure from our redneck, Arayan, puritan, Calvinistic peers! The microcosm of the macrocosm in our society is how Adolph Hitler started out. He'd get on his Nazi soapbox and start his rant and perhaps attract an audience of a hundred or more. A few big, tough Brownshirts would cruise the crowd and when somebody would protest the Nazi line they'd beat the crap out of him.
We're held hostage by the lowest common denominator of society; those cowards who have the lowest self-esteem and try to enforce arbitrary, hateful beliefs in the hope that no one will notice that they are simply rats acting as a mindless pack. If all men and women were real human beings in this country and this world they would stand up not only for themselves but for the rights of everyone else. Rush Limbaugh would have no audience because every one would see him for the sneering sociopath he is, a jerk who capitalizes on fear and prejudice and hate.
And being a "real man" doesn't have a damn thing to do with splitting a cord of wood or working out or beating somebody up. It has to do with being honest, true to life and helping those who have lesser gifts than you do!

The added bonus

Your stories--and particularly a well written 5 star essay such as this one have the added bonus of attracting a number of interesting comments.
It appears that the thrill of breaking the social barriers and flaunting the taboos is not uncommon--a good thing--and more power to the free thinkers among us.

You are an excellent writer.

And a very interesting man. This was a fun read (and hot too!).

livejournal?

Whatever happened to your work at LJ? You had some excellent stories that I'd love to read again!

well said

Thank you for this well written piece