over inflated ego, whose only interest is self gratification, evidence below
" he places my satisfaction above his pride", where is the love and caring wife who places her husbands satisfaction above her pride and adulterous behavior? Just another self centered slut just interested in herself, after all dead wives tell no lies, and she had been and is living a lie.
Since you find it in your prerogative to judge and chastise my wife as a slut for her sexuality, I have no qualms about judging you. You must be coldly impassionate about your wife to damn her to a life bereft of pleasure if you have performance problems later in life (perhaps you never have given her pleasure) and you declare that as love on her part. Where is your love for her? You are just a misogynic troll with unimaginative concepts about sex. Why do you visit Literotica? This site is all about men and women writing and reading about sex, so why does what others do disturb you? If you seek to pique your fantasies with ideas about sexual acts, you have cheated on your wife in your mind. Sandra and I are leaving your self-righteous hypocrisy for all readers to see.
It didn't for me and countless others. Once the fabric of intimacy is pierced, even for the most noble of reasons, it begins to unravel. Each intimate connection dilutes the others, regardless of what the libertines and swingers might try to tell you. I think that there are biochemical as well as emotional/psychological factors at work in this.
You guys have made a choice and I hope it works out. Roberto is going to be a big problem and your wife's commitment will most likely be divided. The sad truth is that "it's just sex" has never been true for those in committed relationships.
Good luck to you and do Sandra. It's a shame that she couldn't wait until you got yourself in better physical shape, in my opinion. But my opinion counts only for me. All of us come to loving wives for different reasons. I skip the sexual details in that I find them boring. I read the stories in an effort to battle my demons which are the product of a failed experiment like yours in which I recognized her "needs" and believed the lie that it will only make our relationship stronger (it didn't). It's cheaper than therapy. So far I'm getting a little peace.
...for the sobering counterpoint. It is important for those who read about this kind of sexual relationship and are contemplating starting down a similar path to ‘fix’ their marriage or just to add spice to a dull bedroom, sometimes the outcome is a disaster. I’m sorry to hear your experiment failed, for whatever reason. We knew the risks when we started; we know the future holds no promise of continued happiness.
You describe a risky and difficult path, and one what works for you. What stupid close-minded people read your stories and don't see that need a lobotomy. Oh wait, he must have already had one or he wouldn't have commented the way he did!
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over inflated ego, whose only interest is self gratification, evidence below
" he places my satisfaction above his pride", where is the love and caring wife who places her husbands satisfaction above her pride and adulterous behavior? Just another self centered slut just interested in herself, after all dead wives tell no lies, and she had been and is living a lie.
A reply to the anonymous troll -
Since you find it in your prerogative to judge and chastise my wife as a slut for her sexuality, I have no qualms about judging you. You must be coldly impassionate about your wife to damn her to a life bereft of pleasure if you have performance problems later in life (perhaps you never have given her pleasure) and you declare that as love on her part. Where is your love for her? You are just a misogynic troll with unimaginative concepts about sex. Why do you visit Literotica? This site is all about men and women writing and reading about sex, so why does what others do disturb you? If you seek to pique your fantasies with ideas about sexual acts, you have cheated on your wife in your mind. Sandra and I are leaving your self-righteous hypocrisy for all readers to see.
@AirRichard101 I hope it works out for you....
It didn't for me and countless others. Once the fabric of intimacy is pierced, even for the most noble of reasons, it begins to unravel. Each intimate connection dilutes the others, regardless of what the libertines and swingers might try to tell you. I think that there are biochemical as well as emotional/psychological factors at work in this.
You guys have made a choice and I hope it works out. Roberto is going to be a big problem and your wife's commitment will most likely be divided. The sad truth is that "it's just sex" has never been true for those in committed relationships.
Good luck to you and do Sandra. It's a shame that she couldn't wait until you got yourself in better physical shape, in my opinion. But my opinion counts only for me. All of us come to loving wives for different reasons. I skip the sexual details in that I find them boring. I read the stories in an effort to battle my demons which are the product of a failed experiment like yours in which I recognized her "needs" and believed the lie that it will only make our relationship stronger (it didn't). It's cheaper than therapy. So far I'm getting a little peace.
Thank you, seekeraz ...
...for the sobering counterpoint. It is important for those who read about this kind of sexual relationship and are contemplating starting down a similar path to ‘fix’ their marriage or just to add spice to a dull bedroom, sometimes the outcome is a disaster. I’m sorry to hear your experiment failed, for whatever reason. We knew the risks when we started; we know the future holds no promise of continued happiness.
Honesty is hard
You describe a risky and difficult path, and one what works for you. What stupid close-minded people read your stories and don't see that need a lobotomy. Oh wait, he must have already had one or he wouldn't have commented the way he did!
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