Young Men’s Guide To Mature Women

Thought It would be fun to write a guide to share some tips from my life of with the young guys here. I know a lot more than I did before. Sure wish I knew some of this then. Of course I'm sure there a lot of women who will tell me I know nothing about this or its typical mansplaining from am uninformed male. i'm sure I'll get the usual one star from someone the first day its out (like all my stories get their first day). Maybe too society had changed and I'm out of touch. Please leave me your comments.

Introduction

This guide is not about love or dating or romance. It's about getting laid by an older woman. Kinda like cougar hunting. Sometimes with a cougar who doesn't know they are being hunted. This might help and inspire you to approach some older woman you otherwise would not have considered.

There's an old saying, "Won't tell, won't swell and grateful as hell." and it's a good one to remember.

This guide is not really well organized so take what you think sounds good and leave the rest. It's just from my experience.

Basics

Let's start with the few dont's.

Porn

I have to say I think porn has ruined this younger generation. Not that it's immoral, indecent or evil but mostly because of all the false impressions it leaves.

Most porn seems to be made by guys who have some need to degrade woman.

Maybe mommy issues I don't know. But let's get a free things straight. Woman do not like a lover to choke them, come on their face and in their eyes, slam your cock down their throat until they can't breath of pound their ass until they are screaming in pain.

Now I know that seems to make up half the porn out there but it's not the half woman watch. You won't find any of these in a Harlequin romance novel and if you try any of these on the first date don't be surprised if you find she's not answering your calls anymore.

Another disadvantage in the age of internet porn is it's too damn easy. If you can watch 10 minutes of porn and pound out your own orgasm then you can get back to video games. It totally takes the motivation out of the hunt and turns the Alpha male pussy hunter into a couch potato. If you do watch porn look at some made by women. It shows what they prefer. Best bet is stop watching porn and stop jacking off. You will be much more motivated to go get laid when your balls get heavy.

Let's cover some of porns false impressions.

Choking:

Yes there are some people who get off on erotic asphyxiation but don't assume she's one. Maybe after a few times in bed she might hint she likes it but until then trying to choke a woman during sex gives them the idea they are in bed with a serial killer. They are probably thinking you might kill them next time and you are definitely a one timer.

Cum shots:

Cum shots may seem great on camera but are a waste of good semen. (They are no fun to me, not sexy to anyone). What's more no one wants sticky cum in their nose or eyes. There are three places to leave your semen, in the pussy, on their stomach or in their mouth. (The fourth is in their ass but we'll get to that later. )

Number one place for semen deposit in inside their pussy. Women want to feel the hot semen shooting in them just like you like shooting it and it's less messy too. If they are concerned with pregnancy you can pull out and cum on their stomach or as I always prefer if agreed in advance you can get to their mouth. Again, no mess that way. Cumming on their face is just a degrading act they won't appreciate.

Throat fucking:

Think about it. Would you like someone jamming a banana back in your throat until you choke? If a woman wants to deep throat let her set the action that keeps her comfortable and allows her to breath. Of course going a little deeper when you come during a BJ isn't too bad but holding her head down while she gags isn't showing your caring side.

Blowjobs:

I like blowjobs, I like to suck pussy too. It's how I used to get them warmed up. If you start by pulling their pants off and sucking their clit you will end up much better than trying to jam their head onto your lap. A few minutes of sucking their clit and they aren't going to say no when you drop your pants and your hardon appears.

I've also learned that some women don't feel the same about a cock in their mouths. Older women might be afraid to go back to work with warts, herpies or cold sores on their face. Also just because you are sucking their cunt don't think jamming your cock in their mouth is what they want. Make it available but let them bring their mouth to your cock if they want to.

Anal:

Some women love it, most women hate it. Myself I don't need a shitty too tight too sensitive anal fuck if there's a sweet tight wet cunny waiting for me to plow. Unless she wants it, Don't bring it up on the first visit. If she redirects your wet cock lower then by all means have at it.

Kama Sutra:

if your girl is under 30 she might appreciate all the different positions and contortions. They can be fun, flipping her over, then around and banging her from six different directions. Older woman usually want a simpler less energetic fuck. They prefer to lay on their backs or up on their knees but unless you met her at a gym most don't want this to be a calisthenics workout. They want a relaxing leisurely fuck. Usually meaning too that the guy is doing most of the work. If you're younger then you should expect to put in the effort. If you don't have the energy to properly fuck a MILF then stay home, lay on your back and beat your meat.

Hickies, biting etc:

Simply put, Don't. Leaving a brand or mark on their skin is something insecure kids do. They wont appreciate going to work with a big sucking scar on their neck.

Kids:

if you happen to meet them be polite. Don't act like a daddy. Especially don't tell mom how pretty her little girls are or get caught staring at her teens tits. Simply put, Don't.

Hunting

The Target:

By the time I was 22 almost half my lovers were over 30. I preferred them to the teens who are still sorting out true love and romance issues or looking for mr. money.. The other half was mostly young moms, divorcees and an assortment of hotties I ran across.

Most of the time I never went on actual "dates" not like movies and dinner and other time consuming events. They can afford their own movies and dinners. Usually I just talked myself into visiting preferably on a weeknight. Bottle of wine in hand. Weekends were for clubbing and collecting numbers. Weekdays were for calling them.

Let's talk about these women so you understand. Having been married and having had children they had some point in their lives where they had a steady supply of cock. That means most nights of the week for years. Now when they are the most in need, in their 30s it's gone. They are too busy and too tired. They don't need prince charming and are happy to get an occasional boyfriend who can drill them once or twice a week. A young cock is a treat.

The target here is the 30 to 45 year old single woman, probably divorced maybe with a few children. These women may have given their younger years to some loser. Maybe they got dumped for a younger woman. Whatever, now they aren't young anymore and have a lot of responsibilities.

Now they miss fucking badly and they want cock at a time when they have little free time to look for it. Some of these take to the internet but most are afraid of the weirdos. The guys who think choking them till they pass out is sexy. Many of these women just do without until someone like you makes it easily available. If you make your interest known you'll be surprised how fast they grab hold of you.

Now some of the younger ones might be looking for a second husband or the ones with children might want a baby daddy. They might still be looking for the fairytale romance. Be careful if they are about your age, the young ones may still buy into the Disney fantasy. Older women however have been there and found it's fallacy. They won't be looking at a guy 10-15 years younger than them as a second husband. All they want is a nice guy who make them feel young and attractive again, give them a hard cock for a couple hours and be gone before the kids are up in the morning. Fill those requirements and you will have a steady dose of mature pussy to enjoy.

Setting it up

Get the number and then call and make the sale. Best way is the most direct. If you got the number call when they would be alone. Calling at work depends on their job. If you know where they work and it's a job where there use a phone then fine. If it's a job up where the boss needs to go get them for you.. bad idea. Otherwise call in the evening after dinner.

If they gave you their cell number they expect you to call. Don't wait two weeks. Show interest like within 48 hours. Find out on the call what's best for them. Lot of older women will go out once in a while with friends on a weekend. That's the time to get the number. Weeknights are the time to come over. I don't mean next Thursday. If they want to get laid, it's tonight.

Talk a little. ask them about their favorite subject, themselves. Then "I'd like to come by, talk some more and share a bottle of wine, are you busy later." Simple and it works. They know what it means but you still have to put on the charm when you get there. However if they aren't receptive you'll know real fast.

I could write pages about seduction and techniques but not now. Show interest, enthusiasm, give them attention and follow their lead. They know how to act when they want to get laid.

Birth Control

What's that? These women most of them previous married don't use rubbers and they didn't ask their husbands to pull out so they won't be expecting you to. Feel free to blow your load inside them. Mature women take care of their own birth control and of course you should respect their requests. Just don't open up the subject. Of course if they want a rubber make sure you have one. Then find someone else next time. Rubbers are no fun for me.

After the first night

Getting another lay

First rule, always contact them with 24 hours and tell them how much you enjoyed being with them. Text is fine but don't be too specific unless you know it's private. Having their teen daughter read, "loved your hot pussy" on mom's phone won't endear you. Something like, "really enjoyed your company, want to see you again soon," is great. They'll know what you mean, someone else won't.

Don't waste money on presents or flowers. Nothing says "you fucked him" like flowers showing up at work.

They may already be wondering if they pleased you or if they should have done it with you and of course they want to know you found them desirable. Reassure them you really found them hot and attractive and sexy and all that. Older women are real sensitive about that. They like to know they are hot and desirable to a young Alpha male.

Second:

Let them know you are anxious to see them again. You don't have to set a date or time just let them know you want more.

Don't be surprised if they don't respond or if they play the "regret" card. They are satisfied now so they can regret it happened. In two or three weeks when they are itching again they might react real different to your call. Tell them you had no regrets, you really hope to see them again. Then call in a couple of weeks, just to say hi.

Mature women often lead busy lives. They are not thinking about you. Or maybe they are thinking it was a mistake or maybe they are hot to get you for more. Whatever, don't be looking for reassurance because women are all about mood. They might not be in a good one that moment. Give reassurances, don't expect them.

Monthlies

Guys are horny all the time women are on cycles. Don't get discouraged if you are getting ignored or put off. They may be busy or you may have satisfied their need for now. They won't be interested until the itch comes back. That is anyone's guess but remember women have a monthly clock. One day they have no interest in you and a week later they want you to fuck them badly. I used to wonder what I did different. Nothing I did. When the day changed, the woman's mood changed. If they haven't blocked your number it's just best to try again next week. If you been seeing them for a long time try to figure out their monthly schedule then you'll know when to call.

Dating

A mature women may be divorced with kids. Possibly has a demanding job etc. She doesn't need a dinner out and a show. They might just be in heat that week and a visit with a bottle of wine is all you need. A single woman whose 35 to 45 and who worked all week, cleaned and took care of a couple of kids all weekend is tired. She doesn't have energy for 5 hours on the town followed by an all night fuck fest. A visit after the kids are in bed and an hour sipping the wine and small talk (means they talk and you listen) and you will be laid and out the door by midnight so she can get some sleep.

Conversation

Keep it simple, pleasant. No politics, no religion. Women often want to download their week's frustration. Listen to them. Empathize with them. Then listen some more. Never take the opposite side. It doesn't matter how unreasonable they sound they don't want an argument nor an explanation. They certainly don't want to hear the other side of the story. They don't want you to "fix it." They don't want your "solution." They want you to understand how they feel and to feel it too. Forget reason, fairness and logic. They want you to understand how they feel and agree. (read Men are from Mars..." ).

Leave something

What do you mean leave something? I learned a little trick where I usually left something small, sunglasses, glove, hat, anything you can come back for the next day. Then I call and tell her what a great night it was with her and ask if I can stop by to pick up the item I left. If I have tell you why you want to come back after the kids are in bed to personally pick up some item that you shouldn't have left to begin with, then obviously you aren't getting the whole point of this. When she says "yeah, come by around 10," understand she knows why you're coming over. If she says she'll leave it on the porch......

Let's talk, dirty that is

Ok maybe the Disney girls like poetry and sweet Shakespearen phrases and they might do real well in notes with flowers but it's not how you want to talk when when she is naked under you and moaning.

"Sweet Love of my life, how do I love thee, let me count the ways," does not cut it. " Oh fuck, your pussy feels so tight," that's cuts it.

Now don't misunderstand. It's not a good idea to degrade her. Calling her a dirty slut will probably offend her. At least on the first few visits. Now later when you have both determines she is a dirty slut and she likes being called that then it ok.

For now though. Tell her she has a great body not a great personality. Tell her you like her tight, soft, sweet, whatever pussy. You were thinking all day about getting her naked.

When you are sipping wine tell her you enjoy her company and conversation. When you are on top of her naked tell her that she makes your cock hard and that you're enjoying her lovemaking.

I Love You

Do you really? Dont drop those words because you think its what she wants to hear. Those words mean commitment and she may not want any of that. She doesn't need some lovesick boy complicating her life. Avoid acting or expecting commitments. You are just a young stud with a hot cock, keep it that way. Get serious and you will get dumped.

Dropping breadcrumbs

So where do we find these older hotties? The older 30 something's looking for young men? Well obviously bars are one place if you like loud noise and crowds. Gyms and fitness centers are a much better place and of course anywhere you happen to spot one. Remember most of these older women are busy, they have busy lives and don't always have time for bars and gyms. An average looking woman is your best bet. If she looks like a playboy pinup she probably has all the offers she needs. Find one with passion.

The supermarket is one of the best hunting grounds.

Stand by a hottie in the fruit vegetable area. Ask for help picking out whatever. Tell her you want to cook a certain meal but get so confused. Be sure to look in her cart or on her finger first for an idea of her marital status too. Look for a ring on the finger too. A woman with two twelve packs and diapers may not be as available as one with small packages for a single woman.

Strike up a conversation. Ask for her help cooking something. See if she'll let you come over with the ingredients and wine. Don't be concerned if it seems like you're trying to hit on her. YOU ARE. Let her know it. She'll decide while your cooking together if you get shown the bed or the door after dinner.

If she isn't responsive say thanks and move on. It's not personal, many people are already committed or afraid of committing. Move on.

Cougars

Now here's one type you won't have to chase. They will hunt you. That's why they are called cougars. They are on the prowl for young males. You just need to know how to spot their "traps," Then decide if you want to get caught

I remember stopping by a hotel room at a company convention one time. One of the other vendors had an older woman who we all knew a little. We came by to drop off some samples. She greeted us at the door in her robe. While my fellow visitors were unloading things her robe belt came loose and she "accidentally" flashed me her hairy pussy, then she covered up quickly and smiled. I came back an hour later and enjoyed a few samples myself.

Innuendos

What's that, those are the little phrases you drop quietly when you have them alone in a room of people. Phrases that they can bite on if they want of pass on if they don't. Phrases like "let's go back to my place is not one of them," or worse, "I'd really like to fuck you,". What do you think of when someone has been "fucked", it's not the best word to use. When you use the work "fuck" remember it's something you are doing WITH them and not TO them.

Lines that fit a subject are better than a cold line. If they haven't paid you any attention and they don't even know your name take it a little slower before dropping the pickup line. Also make sure no one else is listening.

Examples:

Like in a conversation about food "I'm a burger man myself, I'd be happy to share some "in n out" with you.( in n out burgers are on the west coast,)

Or

At the vegetables,at the market. "Works best if you hold it right, it's all in the hands. I'm very good with my hands you know. I'd really like to show you some time how I can use my hands."

Or

"Depends what a person's up for. Now for someone hot like you I'd be "up for you" all night."

Or

"That's my military training that's kicked in. Of course around you I'd be at attention all night. doing push ups."

A staring smile is always a good delivery. Look them in the eye and you'll get an answer then in their face. I know these may sound corny but you need to let her know you're interested, don't stand around hoping she'll guess. Give her a line that conveys your interest without being crude. What is your interest? You're a nice young man, fun to be with and you would like a nice night in bed with them. No complications nor strings attached.

Also look for their lines. I've had everything from subtle smiles to direct lines like "My babysitter expects me home by 2 so if you're taking me to bed we need to go soon."

Learn

One of the best experiences of my life was when I was 20 I lived for a year with a hot insatiable blond woman ten years older than I. I spent many nights with my head between her legs and she loved it. She taught me how to suck pussy and I could write another story just on that. Today there are many great videos to train a young guy. You don't need a nine inch cock to get a call back. Learn how to please them and you'll never be lonely.